Shin

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  1. Maybe, but emotions are the most important thing if not the most important thing in life. Not having a section dedicated for it is a huge problem imo. It must also feed the assumption that many newbie have about not needing to take care of their emotions, cause they are all "illusory and transitory anyway" Spiritual bypassing is HUGE in this forum. Now ofc it's always gonna be something newbies tend to do, but not having a section about it just makes it even worse than it needs to be.
  2. Seems like you have a feminine mind inside a masculine body. You need a companion that has a masculine mind in a female body. Both are rare (compared to the norm), but once you find a woman like that with whom you click it's gonna be amazing my dude
  3. I don't mean I'm going to kill myself if it's what you're asking
  4. God is infinity, which means infinite suffering and bliss all at once. Infinity implies all state possible, and infinite situations and problems to solve/overcome. That implies that no matter how much we solve "problems" and reduce suffering in the world, there will always be more coming. That sounds nihilist and "bad", but actually, it would be sucks if it wasn't the case. Think about it for a full minute (not asking much of you ), if you have peace in the world, with zero situations to solve, that's the same as imagining a world with no experiences, cause as soon as an other is created, there will be conflict in one form or another. That applies to the individual as much as the collective, with no situations to deal with, with nothing to strive for, there is no point in having a temporal life's experience, time would be useless. There will always be suffering as well as new challenges to tackle, so when Leo says Spiritual teachers are cosplaying, that's quite true, they don't actually believe peace and harmony can be reached (or it's wishful thinking), because it won't. I'm not saying that we can't go through stage green and live in harmony as a human race, I'm saying that even if that is done, new challenges will arise out of that, It will never stop. Seeking the end of suffering, in the end, is kind of pointless and aimless, cause not only it is not possible, but it's not truly what you want. Think again for another minute, if we truly wanted a life without struggles, why the fuck would we incarnate ourselves as human beings in the first place ? That's what we wanted, or at least, that's what's happening and can't be avoided. So what can we take out of that ? We have to live life not to stop suffering, but to enjoy everything, even the struggles and the hardships, cause that's literally the only thing we can and will ever do. We will never reach a state of eternal peace for long, cause even if we do, we'll come back one way or another as a human with "problems" (or other experiences) to start the cycle of suffering and bliss all over again. We're not here to escape pain and suffering, we're here to experience it, to be able to contrast it with bliss and ecstasy, and then transcend them altogether, and forgot all about it. Life is just an orgie of experiences that never stop in peace or suffering, but loves to mix both, because every one of those experiences are unique and will never happen again, which is why they are so beautiful and amazing. Even the "worst" moment of your life Was a masterpiece.
  5. Yes, but If I say it with other words, it looks like I'm having original thoughts ! Plus it's one more message for the section we need
  6. You're already "dead", you'd be exactly here, just experiencing something else. And there is a good chance it will be far worse than what you got right now.
  7. Plus if you think systemically, opening the forum section we talked about would solved many cases way before they go to the depressive stages
  8. Yes that too We can only suggest though, only Leo has the power to truly shift where the forum is headed :3 *wink wink*
  9. Probably the most important things this forum needs to adress. A part of the forum dedicated to emotions/shadow work and self love is needed.
  10. Actually, I never tried it, thanks
  11. You forgot the "beat the shit out of her" part. It's not true love if he isn't "beating me cause he loves me too much !!!"
  12. For enlightenment, but the benefits of daily casual meditation on the long term are enormous though.
  13. I never understood how other men can fuck so much, it drains me way too much personally. So that's pretty much accurate I guess Don't be mad to be a low testosterone dude
  14. Because if it's not exactly the classical monogamous relationship it can't be a commited relationship ?
  15. Think of it this way: Would you be happy with being friend with one and one person only aside your boyfriend ? That's more or less the equivalent of a guy's needs. You need intimacy more (several deep friendship, even with men), we need sexual variety. It's just how it is.
  16. Because one girl is not enough, and will never be enough.
  17. Well that's the kicker. For me, I just see pixel on a screen adressing me, When I see people talking to me, I see a body trying to convey a message, I have zero clue if those are conscious beings or not, just that it seems so. That "paranoia" started to come after several deep lucid dreams where it was way more profound and direct than that, and now I legit don't know and question that. It's worth exploring, but be careful cause you could have serious issues to distinguish what's real or not, I know I had for several days.
  18. Yes, and it feels like I'm talking to the same person when it goes deep. Sure there is differences on how they talk, explains and acts, but fundamentally it's the same "soul" expressing itself. There is a reason we feel like "it's the one" when we are more innocent and young, that's not just because of hormones, it's deeper than that.