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Women were slaves for the last 2000 years, so you just can't compare, they were seen as animals with the capacity to speak until the last century. There is a lot of women that are teachers nowadays, and they are mostly free of our grasp now, so it will only increase in numbers. I don't see how they can't do it, they have other advantages that we don't have natively.

10 minutes x 30 x 12 = 3600 3600/60 = 60 60 hours wasted jerking off all by yourself to get 5 seconds of pleasure. Not only that, but you will be tired for the next 24 hours, but of course if you do it all the time, then you don't know the difference. If you think that's smart, then do it by all means.

Oh I have lots of experience with wasting my time, I'll probably be able to help you there

I'm bald ... I CAN'T DO IT !

We're talking nuclear war here (or worst). Support me !!!!!

What is your typical day (no lie) ? What kind of supressed desires did you identify ? How does this urge feels ?

It's not just about having more energy and confidence. It's also about rewiring your brain to enjoy real women and real sex. More importantly it's about self control, which boost your confidence to a great degree. Of course it does, since you choose not to give in to lust and choose to do something productive instead. Nothing that he says is wrong, but most people who do nofap are addicted to it, so of course it isn't placebo for them, their brain are heavily fucked up. @haai14 Depends what you mean by continuing. If you mean getting back to porn or masturbation, it's stupid since it's just a waste of time and energy. If you mean having sex with girls, then there is nothing wrong as long as you do it to make your partner feels as good as you. If you do it just to get some pleasure out of it, just for you, then it's a masturbation in disguise .

If it was a placebo, I wouldn't be that horny, and my balls wouldn't be that hot Even if it is placebo, just look at the daily report on the reddit. Would you not do it just because it's placebo, even if it works ? Sounds like self deception to me

You could be projecting. But if you're sure that's not the case, just let them be, and find people that are actively working to get their ego in check.

I personally think you should socialize at least 1 time per week for 2 months. New things you never done to meet new people. Then see how you feel around attractive women. It's important to know because in my experience, I wasn't able to focus on my life purpose untill I really experienced that a relationship can't fulfill me. Our culture make it looks like it's the only thing that matter, but in practice, especially for men, it's so far from the truth.

Sorry I'm on the phone guys --------

Did you consider this possibility: What if sometimes, apologizing is how more ego is created ? It can happen, I guarantee it ...

I don't know what to think about that. Bu I can tell you what he thinks ...

That's what I feel too, I don't even remember the last time I was bored. And I'm clearly not self-realized.

Isn't boredom impossible if you're centered ?

That's a great thing to practice, just be careful not to get addicted to it. Would be better to practice that with a gf though, because in the end it's still about you getting pleasure.

Depends if you truly grasped that a relationship can't fulfill you. Do you feel needy for a gf/bf ? Do you feel you need that love to be truly happy ? How do you feel when you're near a gf/bf material person ? Is there only sexual attraction or something else ? I'm not asking what you think But what you feel.

«YOU KILLED MY ENLIGHTENMENT !!!!!! WHY ARE YOU ALWAYS SO MADDENING ???!!!»

So on point @Shanmugam

What kind of spiritual practice do you entertain ?

You'll always want to fuck other girls The only way that worked for me is to meditate a lot on those lustful thoughts, at some point you don't really care that much. Also consider that you may have way too many sexual drive to be in a classic monogamous relationship and that in time it will both harm you. There are just people like that, and those people should really consider some alternatives. But be careful here, it could just be you being lazy and lustful as fuck, really investigate this, take your time both of you. So the questions are, what do you really value (putting your fears and conditioning asides): Sexual exclusivity ? Emotional intimacy ? Both ? Also consider that your current gf, could be not compatible with you in the end. She could tell you that it's ok and let you do what you want, but internally she is suffering and really don't want it. If you're really that attractive, you're most likely very masculine and she just wouldn't want to loose a guy like that, even if it means great suffering for her.

That deserves some serious spanking lol

I just have to

Just smile in a very sheerful way, several eyes contact for like 1/2 seconds intermitted with 3/4 seconds of "I'm too shy to hold your gaze", if the guy has enough balls he will come to talk Like seriously, it's that easy (and so few women does this lol). And just a single tip that will save you some trouble (if you don't already know): If you sense a "bad" vibe in your stomach when you talk to a guy, even if you're extremely attracted to him, that's a huge red flag. He probably wants to use you, your choice if it doesn't bother you, but it could be worse than just meaningless sex ... If you keep having bad experiences despite knowing this, then you need more consciousness work to be able to feel this more clearly, it's like the number one thing to know for a woman.

The loveissue and the likability is the same problem at its core. It's feeling a sense of lack that you want to fill with either approval, or love, which is the same thing, just different in intensity and context. He needs to center itself inwards, then he won't need that anymore (ideally, but it can take a lot of time). What do you mean by that ?