Shin

Whatever you didn't experienced in your life is just a thought. So if you didn't see, for example, Paris, then it doesn't exist for you. You can even go deeper, everything you don't experience RIGHT NOW, is a thought, therefore not real.

Don't listen to your friends, they are the universe way to test you if you really want it. Just keep digging.

But you're extremely funny and sociable right ? You also flirt with them, even if it's not physical ?

@Shanmugam «You're so funny» = You're so funny

@Nahm I'm so going to die. I'm so scared.

Little kid = you ?

I don't know the books that helps with that, maybe the six pillars of self esteem. If you stay conscious of how those thoughts are unnecessary, it should sort itself out, but it will take some time. You will still have them, but you will hear them more as a guidance than an blame.

I don't want to spam the forum with an another thread. (If you think it's innapropriate I will hide the message). Compassion is rising at an exponantial rate, and I'm starting to fear it goes way out of proportion. Sometimes when I read some of the story in here, I literally cry, because there is just so much sorrow in them. I never been able to feel such emotions, let alone to be compassionate, and I don't know if I could control myself if it continue like this, I could just lost it and get way overboard. I wouldn't be so concerned if I didn't plan to start learning a martial art this year, but since at some point I could literally kill someone in 5 seconds, I think I should take some notes

I recall a day when I got home from a job I hated. I was thinking stupid shit all the way home, 0 silence time. Not a single second I was inconscious.

What do you mean by moralizing ? Can you give us examples ?

You could learn not to be so attached to him, while still being in the relationship You don't have to flunk the relationship, especially if it is great and you both grow a lot from it, just explain the situation and that you want to take some space to handle the attachement issue.

Why would it be an obstacle, explain plz.

Maybe I'm his reincarnation ... YOU DIDN'T THOUGHT ABOUT THAT, DIDN'T YOU ???!!!

Some post I shared on /r/NoFap that I think would be interesting to post here too:

You can compliment him, he has no soul, dead inside ! DEAD DEAD DEAD !!!

Because for a newbie, the finger (concept) is more important than the moon (truth). Until he realize the finger will never be the moon. And since most people confuse concepts for reality nowadays ...

Even the desire to realize the truth ?

MAYBE MY LIFE PURPOSE IS TO BE A STAND UP COMEDIAN WITH A SLICE OF SPIRITUALITY IN IT ????????????????????????????????????? No idea how can that be done lul

Oh you already live out of it ? Cool

Stop feeding our ego !

Nahm right now:

Why ? This seems to be the perfect forum to help people with that, if helping is what you want to do after enlightenment of course.

Stay strong brother, you can do it

Ok that's interesting, I'll see

So you can't do semen retention properly if you want to have sex ? So tantra is just bullshit ?