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That deserves some serious spanking lol

I just have to

Just smile in a very sheerful way, several eyes contact for like 1/2 seconds intermitted with 3/4 seconds of "I'm too shy to hold your gaze", if the guy has enough balls he will come to talk Like seriously, it's that easy (and so few women does this lol). And just a single tip that will save you some trouble (if you don't already know): If you sense a "bad" vibe in your stomach when you talk to a guy, even if you're extremely attracted to him, that's a huge red flag. He probably wants to use you, your choice if it doesn't bother you, but it could be worse than just meaningless sex ... If you keep having bad experiences despite knowing this, then you need more consciousness work to be able to feel this more clearly, it's like the number one thing to know for a woman.

The loveissue and the likability is the same problem at its core. It's feeling a sense of lack that you want to fill with either approval, or love, which is the same thing, just different in intensity and context. He needs to center itself inwards, then he won't need that anymore (ideally, but it can take a lot of time). What do you mean by that ?

If you want to ask something, just ask. If it was really a stupid question, you wouldn't just ask it in the first place

It's not just that. News fills your head with lots of subjects, and we already have enough monkey mind to deal with to want to add 20 differents stories on top of it everyday. There is also the "articles eating" bullshit, where you read too much articles on different topics, but those articles aren't substantials enough to have a deep understanding about anything, unless you laser focus on a certain topic. Even that isn't enough, there needs to be books to read on top of that.

Enlightenment confirmed ... ... or acting career found

I think he thinks that you can experience the absolute suffering entirely for a lifetime, and not just as a ritual passage. @Ocean We could say there is the one soul The beloved ! RUMI REINCARNATION INCOMING !

I'm just using the most common term used ...

@SgtPepper I feel the same way as you, but If I'm honest, I can't say I really know if that's what I really want ... As long as there is fear, how can we really know that ?

Probably Not working though, it's hard but I feel that going through this without going back will be worth it. @Sevi From your perspective maybe, from mine you're like 3000km away

I wouldn't have use shame in that quote, but I don't know for what word I would have replace it.

Well yeah, but you won't experience that. If you're talking about the dark night of the soul, not everyone goes through this (from what I read).

How is that terrifying ?

@Source_Mystic Did you try headspace ?

Plz tell me how to stop being stupid and move to the second group, it's been 2 years, it doesn't want to stop its messiah complex bullshit

Quick look at an enlightened person: Impressive

So, unless I have no desire to communicate that I am enlightened (when it happens, not if someone ask), then it is genuine. Otherwise, bullshit ?

A little reminder:

That's not a very enlightening answer ...

But have you the authority to talk about this, are you enlightened ? Are you the 0 of my 1 ?

I knew it existed (the term I didn't), I even saw porn about it, I just didn't want to see that kind of pictures right now ^^

You still don't answer the question you're like a politician who knows who can't answer but still wants to (no offense though) Well I don't really care that much, I'll see it myself soon enough (like in 1/15 years ).

There is still a fine line to draw here. You could want to be likeable to EVERYONE, by being extremely neurotics and unauthentic (a lot of people are this way). Or you can be likeable as much as you can by being authentic and constantly working on yourself in the area that you truely want to progress. We still have a distinct personality, and a lot of people just don't (want to) understand that and tries to change you to match their line of thinking (which is relative and biased for the most part).