Shin

Happens all the time, you're just in synch with reality now

The only way for him to realise women are at best a nice (and beautiful) hobby to have on the side, is to be successful with them. How do you expect us to help him other than giving him advice on that ?

I answered you and you said nothing after. Nothing on the topic.

Sunday ...

@TheBeachBionic Just sent me a picture, and she is not ugly at all. Definitely a self-esteem/cultural issue !

You're all pussies for not telling the truth ! ???

No lol Just takes notes on the most important topic of the book instead of wasting time reading it to remember it.

You only force yourself in the beginning, then it become natural. If it doesn't, you're only doing techniques instead of also doing inner work.

Actualized.org summarized in 6 pictures lol

I was exactly like that. Yesterday I just make my smart and hot english teacher to miss 10 minutes of her next class because she was too mesmerized by my eyes. Sorry for the ego trip, but this is as true as it gets, and there is no reason you can't do that kind of things too. Unless you continue to lie to yourself instead of working hard on your issues, which doesn't define you AT ALL.

Can't you guys just answer the question ?

Almost every human being live their all life without living their passion. I should never live my passion, it is not normal.

Introversion is not what you think it is, and it has nothing to do with shyness either. Introversion only means you need time alone after socializing, that you think more before talking, and that you tend to analyse more easily things. See, nothing to do with any qualities necessary to become attractive to girls. So stop using this as an excuse, and build yourself up.

It happens because you will identify too much to the description of your stage, instead of seeing that you already have partially some other stage in you. You would focus too much on where you are rather than where you might be (or the reverse). It's interesting to know generalities about the stages, to know there is more than your current way of experiencing life, but that is the only practical purpose of it imo. More than that and it would just be wasted time that you could actually use to evolve for real. Also, the more you study a concept like this who classify people, the more your mind will have the tendency to judge and put people into boxes (including yourself), which is limitative and counter-productive. The MBTI test is even worst if you take it too seriously, you limit yourself even more to be a definite and static archetype, which is even more limitative than Spiral dynamic on some aspects. Of course all that would be done inconsciously for the most part, but that's what I noticed me doing when I study those concepts too much.

I didn't, a good friend of mine told me.

What do you not understand ?

And it's super easy to do, just let yourself say and do what you feel like in the moment without thinking if the girl will like it or not.

Too much conceptualization about Spiral Dynamic will hinder you greatly. It's just a way to know where you're at in general, don't think too much about it. Same thing with the MBTI test, otherwise you will categorize and classify everything and everyone (including yourself) and that is how life becomes very unsatisfying and dry. If you take the MBTI test too seriously, you will even inconsciously limit your emotional and intellectual growth.

Yes and yes. Ask a more specific question if it's not enough

No. YOU have no idea what introversion means. YOU even use it as a protection mechanism to not look within. That's quite ironic isn't, using a concept you don't even know to justify your lazyness and sorrow ?

What do you want to know about that ?

I'm introvert as fuck. And I have zero problem with women, and I'm definitely not unhappy. Stop bullshitting yourself for fuck sake.

I'm introvert as fuck. And I have zero problem with women, and I'm definitely not unhappy. Stop bullshitting yourself for fuck sake.