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Please manipulate me Thanks everyone Would you say that someone who has been humiliated a lot in his past will tend to control/manipulate other people once he got out of his victim mentality ?

@Jack River Trying to change using thought will never work, any type of intention to change is all part of that same movement and ultimately useless. True right ? @Charlotte

No one to be alone if this is all there is No contrast to feel alone.

Advanced in the sense that you need more awareness to do it yes, but those techniques won't bring better results.

No-self, god-realization.

You don't need a specific techniques except the one that feels natural to you. Don't need a complicated one too, just being aware and focused on the breath or like you do being aware of everything in your experience are techniques that are totally fine. There are no advanced techniques, except if you want to sell something ofc ?

Come on dude I don't believe you ?

I'm meditating between 30 minutes to 1 hour a day, I doubt it's the problem.

Did you try online dating ?

Like even reading science fiction novels, like Star Wars books. I don't know, nothing seems interesting ?

@MM1988 This is crazy man, I don't see how you couldn't find a nice gf for yourself at your point. ? Are you jerking off like 20 times a day to ultra weird porn or what ? ?

I was also curious about a lot of topics 2 years ago, but I totally drop any interest to understand anything. Will it ever come back ? ?

@MM1988 Are you sure you're still not needy/insecure/anxious IN THE INSIDE ? I don't see any other explanatation possible, because if you indeed have all that going for you, it seems impossible that you can't get a girlfriend, Unless you only go for the ultra conscious 10, it shouldn't be a problem. Maybe @aurum can spot something else.

Those guys aren't really more happy than you. They suffer of the same void feelings Inside, except they chase other things, or worse, realize those things doesn't work on lie to themselves about it. Even if you were successfull with women it wouldn't change anything, you would chase something else. You have to realize this one way or another, or you will feel like this the rest of your life. I suggest some hardcore meditation sessions on a regular basis until you have some epiphany, At the same time I suggest that you also learn what is attractive to women and actually get some experience there, because you don't seem to get how and why it works like it does. Just don't get lost in the love/sex chasing, it won't lead you were you think it will, do this very consciously. Leo has videos about all of this, it's literally at a click of a button, up to you to do the work or not.

Thank you ?

Just gonna leave this here, Because of reasons. @Caterpillar https://www.bustle.com/p/7-basic-skills-you-need-in-order-to-have-a-successful-relationship-28354

What did you expect ? Most people are selfish, so most conversations will be too. Just accept that and let conversation run their course normally. If someone is meant to be in your life it will stay, otherwise it won't, as simple as that.

Replace «coffee table» with «my car» And let's see if that logic still holds.

I think they put vulnerability in the conflic-resolution department, but yes, without admitting that we are wrong and opening ourselves emotionally is shooting ourselves in the foot. Can't truly communicate if that isn't properly trained and embodied.

Nice, Do you consider yourself as a couple now ? I heard in nothern Europe countriescountries that it's only after several sexual date that you might consider to see yourself like that. Could be complete bollocks ofc, why I ask ? I

Try to find the thing that is moving the ears.

Not at all. Except the sex part, everything can be trained with friends and family, and more importantly yourself.

The days after a relapse/wet dream In a nutshell

@Charlotte

@Charlotte ???