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Could also be what Joseph said. You always says the harsh truth, and that piss 99% of people off, because they don't want to know how they lie to themselves on almost everything.

Listen to Matt Kahn and read his books.

@TheBeachBionic Why do you keep pming us saying the same line over and over again ? Stop that and actually do the work some of us told you to do. Either you try to get out of your mess or you don't You try to solve your issues or you don't You keep lying to yourself or you don't But nothing will be solved until you do Something.

Are you sure you're not overthinking this and cherry picking situations when in fact it doesn't happen that often ? If it's really all the time, you carry some dark energy Inside you, and everyone is feeling it. They may not be aware of it, but they inconsciously feel it and this is the reason they attack or ignore you. People don't want to be near someone who gives them bad vibes, their life is already full of drama and negativity as it is. Try video call the person who wanted to help you, just to see what he/she has to said.

Don't sell yourself short just because you feel lonely. Don't worry, you'll find those "Green+" guys, it's only a matter of time. Work on yourself for a while, you'll be better suited to handle that kind of Relationship, And when you'll least expect it you'll meet someone lovely I promise

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Do you mean guys are interested online but don't want to meet in real life ? Or do you mean that no guys approach you in real life ?

My brain obviously ?

Feel the love homies

I kinda fear that my lack of genuine desire to find out the Truth, Means deeper suffering is coming. Please don't

The master needs to be warry of Fisk though

The issue is that you think there is a special technique that will "do it" for you. Also, you think that you need "to do it right". You need to drop those assumptions. There is no special techniques, and there is nothing to do except being conscious. It doesn't matter if you lost it, even for a few minutes, the point is to keep going, everyday, for the time you chose to sit. It doesn't matter what technique you use, except if you're a beginner, because some techniques are too hard to maintain for a crazy monkey mind. Just pick a technique you like and that resonates with you, then just do it for at least a whole month before switching to another one.

Is it not kind of the same of when you realize you're dreaming, And the guy with a machete that pursues you, screaming at you that "I will kill you" and you're just like :

So true. Life become so amazing when you don't judge anything, it's like being a child again

Except there is no external sleeper right ? From what I understood, it's like being permanently lucid dreaming, except there is no part when you can wake up in a higher "reality", because all dreams ARE reality (as in it's all there is, dreams).

I think it depend of the time. If the break up is very fresh, going to a party where you know you'll see your ex with someone else is masochism in my opinion. If you had the time to grieve a little (a few weeks), then yes definitely, you can't just put your life on pause because some girl or guy isn't in your life anymore. Most important rule about break up though, is to let yourself grieve, and not avoid the pain by distracting yourself all the time. Let's say you have 6 hours of free time, then untill you feel neutral you should spend at least 2 hours in solitude. In this time of solitude you should be accutely aware of the emotions that goes through you, without feeding them more with mental scenarios of why it happened and holding on to the person. If you want to heal you need to let it go, which most people don't. They cling to the person even though this person won't ever come back. Let it go means a firm intention to release that person in your life, not by anger but simply because you understand that you need to go on (you can still be friend later, but not in the first weeks/months) So when that happens, you block that person on all accounts/phone/laptop you have, all the pictures of him/her must be erased on your phone, and put in the trash if you have one that are physical. Every objects that person gave to you, same fate. That set up the place for true healing, otherwise you're just being masochist with yourself, clinging to a girl/guy when there are hundreds of compatible partners in your city.

How is he egoic ? Does his humor offended you ? ?

Not complex in the sense that it's hard to understand. It feels like he struggles to explain simple things, and write dozens more page about a subject than it is necessary because of that. Which in the end makes the comprehension harder than it needs to be.

His book is way more complex than it needs to be. Not only that but it's long as fuck.

He's so enlightened, he does not need to breath anymore ?