Shin

I have the impression that I have offended you in some way, if that's the case then I'm sorry but that wasn t intentional at all.

Lots of judgments and rejection here ? Just don't read what doesn't interest you, as much the topics and the people posting. No real reason to leave «for good» If there is a time you don't feel like logging at all, that is totally fine and normal, the reverse too, but thinking about quitting entirely is just you being hurt or delusional in some way imo.

You can be romantic and not lying to yourself about why you're attracted to your girl in the first place. Nothing wrong with that ?

@tsuki Everything in this sentence is so wrong ? But he can't admit it without being slapped tonight ???

You wouldn't be with Mandy if you didn't find her attractive. You may loved her unconditionally, but you wouldn't be in a relationship. There needs to be a physical attraction from the guy to consider a relationship/sex, it's a biological need. The same need is there for a woman except it is about confidence and leadership abilities, again for biological reasons. This is just a fact, look around you and tell me how many masculine men are with a woman that is lower on the scale of beauty than them ? Very very few.

Love is tough ?

It's the same thing. It will be different as long as you think there is a difference though. Which is why you can meditate for decades and still not be able to be conscious during your day.

Give examples, because I can't understand your abstract explanation (seriously).

Unconditional love. Otherwise some people will confuse this with "cultural" love (attachment).

A man who is more feminine than masculine yes. @mandyjw I said attractive, that is to relative to every man to a certain degree. Don't resist it though, that's how it is

No, it's because for a man to be attracted to a woman, the woman needs to be attractive physically. This is how it is, and if we could be attracted to any women just for their personality, believe me we would. Would be waaaaay easier to find a suitable partner.

How do you know he wasn't ?

Maybe he was at your place and know exactly how it is, and exactly how to get out of it ...

When you see a member on the forum that remind you of your old self You want to help him, but remember that the only way for you to grow at that time Was to suffer immensely That sucks

Do self-inquiry 24/24 then If you truly want to awaken you will awaken.

You're not doing what is important, you're working spituality, not being spiritual. It doesn't matter how much practices, retreats or psychedelics you do/take if you still neglect that you are the seer behind your thoughts. Find what you are essentially, then all those problems will fix themselves in time. Just read again The Power Of Now and listen to Eckart Tolle on Youtube.

That's the point, to realize there was actually no limitations in the first place. There won't be a you, but there will be You. ?

What if it was the only way to be free ? ?

"I don't know you enough to give you that information" *gives 10 gold* "My husband is the criminal you're looking for !"

I'm not even 30 and you guys ask me to die. Fuck you all ?

They only have an influence on you. Saying you are a victim to them means you have no power to change and take your own decision. This is only true if you believe it. It may relieve you to be responsible, but the cost of that is to stay sad and depressed for the rest of your life.

Facing conceptual death. One hundred percent not about survival, that's for sure.

Are you cutting off those activities because you aren't enjoying them anymore, or because you think they are "low-consciousness" ? Are you sure you don't enjoy them anymore, or are you not enjoying them because you judge them as "low-consciousness" ? In the same way, are you doing all those self-help things because you think you need to, because they are "high-consciousness" activities ? How did you lost your connection with your family and old friends ? What do you mean by that exactly ? Also, in the first few years of self-developement and spiritual work, you tend to feel less happy, but this is simply because you are adjusting yourself to an another stage of your life, which always incorporate a period of adujstment and letting go of certain old habits/people that you were attached to. You will always feel sad when you let go of something you were attached too, and you do that a lot in the first few years. At that point of your life, those activities were all you knew about, but also, there was nothing wrong with doing only those things back then, because you were a child/young and just lived life. Now that you are an adult, you have to find your place in the world, and this means you can't just only do those things anymore, it can't be fulfilling anymore, you have to grow. Does that means you should let go of everything that is so called "low consciousness" ? No it only means letting go of the ones you only took part on because of society and family/friends pressure. The activities you genuinely enjoy should stay, but yes, you have to limit them to focus (way) more on what really matters to you. What are you passionated about ?