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Can we make this thread official please ? @Leo Gura

You need extraordinary courage to show and accept all your insecurities, especially to your partner. Only a real man would do that ?

I only have time to thrust one princesses vagina at a time, that's my policy ? If she breaks my trust and fucks everything up it might be you next though ???

Who told you that ? And how do you know it's true ?

When you will be tired to want something (through suffering), you'll let it go psychologically. Or you will get it and realize it's not that fulfilling. In both case you'll let it go, and won't need it anymore. Then you'll be able to experience that in a healthy (and more beautiful) manner Because at that point the attachment has been severed. What life tries to teach you is to let go of what you don't have and enjoy what is there It's never gonna stop, that's how life is designed. You're never gonna have more than what you have RIGHT NOW. You can resist it, but that's only gonna make things worse (for you).

Yeah, now you know you have no choice and that it's only a matter of time. Be ready or not, that's your problem

You can't understand it, you either die or you don't Everything else is a belief

We don't need that anymore. You can know everything there is to know on internet and by reading clear spiritual books. Practising with other people and asking if "x" experience is legit might slow you down quite a lot depending on your path and your personality. That was mandatory for the vast majority of people before, because there was no clear informations about what all that is, and how to do it, now that's not the case, there is reddit, there is quora, there is youtube, there is amazon, there is forums like this one. That's a huge trap, thinking you need to be part of a community or having a guru, That's also a trap to isolate yourself on purpose thinking you can do it all by yourself all the time There is a balance in between, which means no path are better than another, and also that none are required at the same time.

You do that too, but not nearly as the same frequency (and not for the same reason) It happens more in the dating phase (and even prior to that), to see if she's worth your time. If she doesn't handle/accept it, then she's just not a good woman and still a girl with layers of unhealthy ego to peel. Usually you do that without her knowing it though, so she doesn't necessarily know, but it's good to check

That's what a toxic and unhealthy woman does (cold hearted), she only receives and gives nothing except her body, which she only does because she likes sex, which is ironic because with that attitude she's not going to have the best sex she could have. A healthy one (warm hearted) will be receiving but also giving. She will just give without even thinking about it, in so many different ways, that goes beyond just the physical and even the mental. She will automatically stops if you're an insentitive ass to her though. Being tested is not a problem at all though, don't see this as a problem, it's a dance. If you're secure in yourself it won't affect you and it will be cute of her. You can even go to the point where it's just fun and comical, because you know she's doing it, she knows she's doing it, and you both know that it won't work @Psyche_92 It only feels fearful because you're not grounded enough. It's the same as life, you will always have to deal with its challenge, except you can't escape life, so might as well handle it perfectly. Your woman is your daily challenge, you will learn to enjoy it at some point

Depends on the woman. Some are very toxic and unconscious, which of course will reflect and how they do it, and also not being compassionate enough to let some slacks to their men. Some are healthy and know that they are doing it, so it's more consciously done and they know when not to do it by feeling how you feel at that moment. But again, never expect them to stop, that's not gonna happen Or you're dating a woman that has a masculine core and just don't do that.

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But Leo ...

There is people that are genuinely poly but shamed by our culture, and without proper guidance and/or consciousness they stay in an unhealthy cycle of trying to stay in monogamous relationships. This must be really hard for those people, because our cultural stage of developement is too immature to fully understand that it can be something that is real, and not just some people that are selfish/lustful. There is also people that are genuinely monogamous, and have zero need to have more than one partner, either emotionally or sexually. It is not like there is a definite and more truthful way to embrace relationships, it depends on our own personal inclination. We just need to be honest with ourselves and not cling to one particular way because of cultural conditioning, or social influence. Not so easy to know, because what feels wrong or off, can be determined by those things, even though our personal preference can be what we feels is wrong/off. The mind is tricky

We're fucking God right now Just look !!! It's right there you dummy BTW, I'm into east european girl now

I wish you a good enlightenment ?

@ajasatya I was genuinely interested by your point of view, so let's share in-depth here To me, being a man means knowing exactly what you want out of life and relentlessly aligning yourself to it. If it means insane suffering so be it, if it means being all alone for years or even decades so be it If it means in the end, dying for it, so be it. Totally self-reliant, both psychologically and physically, he does not need any friend or woman in his life, but knows and appreciate the help and beautifulness of those things, and seek to be the best friend and husband possible. He does not care about other people opinions, he knows what his problems are, what he wants, but also take them into account because he's open minded and truly humble. He genuinely care about other people emotions, and does not manipulate anyone or anything if it means going against someone else agenda, he prefer to take the risk to no get what he wants if it means taking the freedom of someone else. Being a man means having no shame of what you are, being totally open about your weaknesses, dreams and emotions While at the same time being grounded enough not to put any of those as a burden to anyone else but yourself. He does not fear to say what he thinks, even if it hurts people, while being careful not to hurts people needlessly too. He's also hyper sexual when he feels like it, with no uncharted water about what he likes to do, and zero holding back in bed, either emotionally and by being as dominant or soft as he wants to be. He's so open about it that he lets himself go and let his body and mind totally merge with his partner, to the point he does not know what he's going to do or happen. He has an intense burning to go beyond him, to help mankind in its full possibility and not for petty personal gains In fact, he does not want anything but giving himself to life, he sees other happiness as his own gains. He has no shame to express his inner child and to be playful, even if it is to the extent of being seen as feminine To him his feminine side is as much important as his masculine side and doesn't reject it at all. Even if he is deeply hurt, either psychologically or physically, he still remains fully open and has the courage to let his heart be open to life. No matter how much he is getting hurt, he never stops trusting God.

Even Leo is a devil with this. See, you can't trust even saint about this . ?

Are you talking from direct experience ? ?

This is why I don't care about psychedelics ?

We're not talking about what the mind likes or not, but the raw reality which is experienced as such. There is no real word for it though, so we have to use some that are close, but yet infinitely far.

Hell is just a misconception of heaven ???

That rilles me a lot

No Gura will save you from you.

How do you know that ? The only way to know would be to experience that enlightenment thing right now. This is all your beliefs about what it is, not what it actually is.