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And women who don't shave like in the 40's.

https://fightthenewdrug.org/5-ways-porn-changes-your-brain-and-body-for-the-worse/

You don't want random hookup, nor dating, nor prostitute ? Then just masturbate because that's the only thing left ?

Goodbye life

She's joking. I've literally been with 3 women in 3 years

Sexual urges are mostly psychological, even for men. Everything that is psychological can be transcended. It's not because you feel the rush of energy in you that you have to do something about it You can just let it happen and enjoy it, there is no need to act on it.

If you mean not having any pull/attraction for the opposite sex, that's not gonna happen. If you mean being ok with or without it, yes you can.

I disagree, what do you mean exactly when you say transcending sex and the desire for having a beautiful girlfriend ?

Accept the feelings you feel inside, that's the only thing you can do. Accept that they are there, don't cling to them nor push them away. Also there is 2.999.999 other women in this world Everyday more of them are born You'll be fine

Looks like enlightened dudes become more and more moralistic by the day !

I wish I could not know I'm avoiding it. That feels horrible sometimes

Then maybe it's a good idea not to walk outside I wouldn't consider watching the self inquiry video from Leo if I was super tired now, more like watching a movie or sleeping

No sorry, I don't think it was a post of mine If you're sure about it go through my post history, I didn't post much those past few days.

Can't even walk outside anymore without making me super tired the rest of the day Summer equal worse version of winter ?

You subconsciously think they should be attracted to you but they don't. On top of that, you think that the love and/or sexual interest of women are necessary for you to be happy in life. So you hate them because they don't give you a fake need in your mind, which you think they should when there is zero (true) reason to support that in your mind. It's a big mess ?

Yeah but to find balance you (most often than not) needs to go through excess on one side of the spectrum.

My body also have trouble to enjoy heat LOL Fuck this shit ?

When you studied enough for the day But the website has a leaderboard ... #male_instinct_triggered Important to understand:

That's what most people do and stay trapped on the rest of their life. Abstention isn't supposed to be used as a guideline for the rest of your life, it's only useful to go through the addiction mentally and physically to finally have meaningful and satisfactory sexual experience. Complete abstinence for life and overindulgence in sex are both huge trap And none of them work for real on the long term.

It's not the symptoms that are a problem. If I stay indoor, It's fine about that. It's being constantly mentally and physically tired, and unless I live in a room where no outdoor air can pass in, there is no solution except living somewhere where there isn't grass pollen. @mandyjw Thanks for caring though

No wonder I'm so unproductive in the summer There is 5 level for grass allergy, I have 5/5, literally tired directly after waking up. At some point I'll need to move somewhere this isn't a thing, I can't pause my life and feel like shit 2 months every year. https://www.healthline.com/health/allergies-and-depression

You will stop trying to get a meaning out of life and you will stop feeling empty.

But he probably needs to see it for himself. The trick is to be conscious while doing it.

Sexual mastery, in the sense of being able to be in complete control both of your body and mind is really not an option if you want to have amazing sex and/or a healthy relationship (I will explain later on what that means exactly). It's just so blablantly obvious that the only way to not see or accept this is being either addicted/extremely deluded or ignorant (but that's ok, I mean we all are on so many subjects ). So there is two points on which that it is important to have sexual mastery. The first is that you can't have amazing sex without it, not possible. This is the case because sex is mostly composed of teasing , you can't do proper teasing as a man if you are a slave to your sexual urges, Whether it is physical, which means your body moves almost by itself, by compulsions without you being able to stop it, Or mental, which means you are so aroused that you become unconscious and are totally lost, a slave to your mind and raw emotions, that is more subtler, but your woman will feels that you are lost, and she won't like it. Those two overlaps and reinforce each other of course. Now don't get me wrong, I'm not saying that letting yourself go is a wrong thing to do as a man in bed. What I mean, is that your girl will feel if you either let yourself go, or if you are just a slave to your impulses. This is a critical distinction, because in the first case she will 100% trust you, in the later she can't, you're an animal without consciousness ... Sex is all about the girl trusting you and letting herself go completely for you, The same for the man of course, but when he chose to, after foreplay and the intercourse teasing phase, And even after that he can still go back to control mod if it's needed, because even if he totally let go, he can still chose to be fully conscious by intuition. The second reason is that a woman can't respect you otherwise It's about the girl trusting and respecting you more generally in the relationship. Basically, if she can feel that you can't help yourself by always having sex, even when you shouldn't for some practical reasons, whether it's for her or you, then she will not trust you. You need to understand that what makes a woman really wet for you, what she needs to feel of you to respect and trust you as her man, Is you being able to handle anything that comes to you, and not budge at all, because you are the one who decides what happens or not, not anyone or anything else. You need to be able to refuse her whatever she wants if that doesn't make sense to you, she might not appreciate the decisions you make, but she will respect them. This is not that obvious as it seems, because it's more about your mental state than anything else, she will know if you lie or not, are overdoing it or are genuine. So this includes way more than just being able to refuse to have sex with her, even though it's a crystal clear sign that she won't be able to control you. And again, don't try to do that if it's not genuine, she will know if you struggle internally or not, don't play mindgame with a woman, you're gonna lose trust me Another thing, your woman will always test you, because her greatest pleasure in the relationship (and that should be obvious by now) is to feel that you're the man, the rock, the anchor that she decides to be with. The more she likes/loves you, the more she will test you. Don't ever expect her to stop testing you. The only reason to say to her to stop, is if it becomes toxic and starts to go into the contract of your relationship exclusivity. If she doesn't, then break up, because that woman is just a mess and will only rip your heart appart in the end. Bottom line Do Nofap and consciousness/shadow work and read about masculine/feminine psychology (David Deidas books are great for that). If you want amazing sex and a healthy relationship You don't have a choice.