Shin

Yeah, from the pov of an ego that wants to feel significant it's horrible. The good thing is, the ego is not what you are, and what you are don't care about being significant or not ?

Why is it tragic ?

Enlightenment be like ...

You did what you did to do to protect yourself and other young people. You don't have to blame him for that, but protecting yourself was the right move.

Human being is made of consciousness.

I second that, it works really well

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What's important to understand Is that those benefits aren't just popping around only after enlightenment You can have many of them (but not to the same degree) waaaaaaaay before enlightenment. (If you care about changing yourself and not just chasing an experiences of course)

It all depends on her opening up and trusting you. Doesn't matter how long it takes really, cause you can switch hand if necessary anyway.

Don't be afraid to say exactly what you want to say (unless it's just plain mean) Don't be afraid to be an ass (unless it's overboard) Don't be afraid to be physical (when you sense she wants more) Don't be afraid to look feminine or emotional Don't be afraid to lead where the afternoon is going

It's not because it clashes a lot with the standard seeker that he is necessarily trolling.

"You're not gonna lose anything real" *praying hard*

You're on to something there. It's not because everyone do something that it is smart or effective. You only think this way because your parents/friends/mentors and culture tells you so. What if they are all wrong ? What if they are just doing what everybody else told them to do (just like you) ? What if it was a vicious circle like that for the beginning of time and the default position is to be sad and unfulfilled if you follow what most people do ?

Being happy ? You do realize those things are not happiness, just things you think you need to be happy ? Not only they won't make you happy (for long), but they will make you miserable the longer you chase them, because when you're chasing them you're not being happy with what you have.

None of that is about being a man. Read "The Way Of The Superior Man" by David Deida. Everything else you do is just you trying to look like a man.

Ok, but that's even worse then It will be Thailand all over again Nowhere is safe ?

They don't. It's not because you're rich or famous that you're happy and joyful. Life is all about this, not anything else

They look beta because you're beta in the consciousness department of your life. Which is the most important aspect of your life.

Nothing in particular, just that sometimes he losts it and becomes too insensitive and harsh, and it's not helping anyone, especially himself.

I'm a fan of Leo and this forum. Being a fan and a fanboy is a different thing. It's because I see so much potential and goodness in Leo that I'm that critical Not for any other reason. I actually love Leo I'm just not so foolishly in love to the point of accepting to be abused and treated like shit