Spiral

I fancied a girl many years ago, turns out she’s a lesbian. I was, at the time, surprised that she showed zero attraction towards me. She had a boyfriend and everything.

It is impolite to do so. So I try to avoid it

In my experience getting numbers and such at a club is pretty easy. However they are useless. She wants it now, not later. All about the mood. Day-game is probably different.

Why? Perhaps there are other ways to achieve the underlying reasons

Eq is were it’s at

Having options doesn’t mean you need to act on them. Like just because you can buy every type of cereal doesn’t mean you should

I think as long as we compare, we won’t get anywhere. We want a society were woman are happy to have kids and men gladly protect. Not every man and every woman, but generally. That’s not really the case in many places.

He is clever, I’ll give him that. Framing men/boys issues as issues for women/girls is effective. Even if a it’s bit sad.

Having a fun life for her to be apart of is something guys neglect. Like having Christmas decorations greatly increases you attractiveness. Of course being handsome af helps too.

I got a big one but I’m terrible in bed regardless

Personally a fan of bio-feminism, or at least the types I’ve heard of

Do not reach out to your ex and exploit them like that

People do not treat you worse than you let them

@Leo Gura nice we have our election next year and I’m confused

By Swedish law even if you are agree in advance, it’s still considered rape if your wife wakes you up with a blowjob. Because you need to be able to give consent in the moment. It really harsh here.

I get sexually harassed at work from time to time. It quite tolerated in my culture (if towards men), but I don’t really mind either. I need something to complain about and tell my friends after work.

Nah it’s fine, don’t worry about it

Vitamin b and magnesium helps combat the negative effects of alcohol

@EternalForest would you be against simping? To get your foot in the door.

I see it as an indirect show of attraction. Giving a girl a compliment isn’t flirting, because it’s not indirect. Giving her flowers or taking her on a date isn’t flirting for the same reason.

@Emerald personally I find the balance difficult. When I was younger I was very feminine, to such a degree people thought I was gay. I used to hang out with girls almost exclusively. Right now i’m probably a bit too masculine and struggle to make female friends.

I’d focus on friends first. Doesn’t need to be deep and amazing friendships but something. The lone wolf is weak, a man with a tribe is strong.

My ex told me a year into our relationship that she had it. Don’t think I caught it tho.

Being a bit more playful helps, if you’re not quite comfortable touching “unnecessarily”. Like if she asks you where you are from you could tell her your North Korean and here on business trip. I’ve never had these sort of comments go poorly.

I prefer shoulder as a first contact point or kissing I suppose.