Spiral

Can she visit you instead?

@Psyche_92 No, I'm just saying that having lower standards can be a result of NoFap. I want that sweet energy! @blazed I did not necessarily mean it to be a good thing. It's just an observation. Does anyone have any tips for how to fall a sleep easier on noFap, that tends to be my main issue.

I suppose sleeping between 20.00 and 04.00 is the most optimal if you preform best after 8 hours of sleep. This way you base your sleep around the sun which should peak at midday. If you are less than 20 you might need more sleep. 9 hours maybe for instance. Getting sunlight lifts mood and is overall good for the body.

It's too cold and there is a basically a blizzard outside right now but it's actually rather nice during summer I do admit.

Not super familiar with this terms mid and end game in regards to pick up but I suppose it has do with the actual attraction part and making the girl want to have/ do something with you. I have a few friends of mine who do "pickup, at clubs mostly. They are kind of average, most of the time they fail but sometimes they succeed. What I've seen, what they do poorly is not so much the things they say but how they say it. There is no confidence, no sense of fun. It's mostly "I have to say these things in this order are to get you to like me". Very robotic so to speak. Try to focus on having a fun conversation instead of getting laid, with some flirting and so on.

I want some nuts now I keep these things to myself, because normies don't understand nor really want to understand. I had a friend of mine mine judged as recently as last night for being into horoscopes or whatever that stuff is called.

What did you do/say?

Me while not on noFap, all girls are kinda meh. My standards are way above everyone else. Me while on noFap, is she female and not super unattractive? Awesome let's do this. Also me on noFap it's been three weeks now, if I get some action it's going to be a short experience but if I fap I'll lose interest instantly and break my streak. #harddecisions

Got your attention didn't I? Now I've pondered this topic a little bit today. I have not myself asked for nudes, although I, as i'm sure many of you guys also do, appreciate nudes. But the thing is that if one would find themselves wanting it, surely an easier and better way would be porn right? It also seems like a common misconception that all guys want nudes, this is not something you necessarily benefit from thinking as a girl. While I don't mind, it's strange to get ones that weren't asked for and it comes of as desperate. I don't think there is anything wrong with asking, but I don't get it. Now maybe it's the personal aspect, which would make some sense. Feel free to discuses dickpics while you are at it. I had too big trust issues to make that mistake when I was new in this field For guys: Why ask for nudes to begin with? Isn't porn is superior in every way? For girls: How do you feel about a guy asking you for nudes?

@Max_V No more let life divide what death can join together! Fear is fine, that just means you getting somewhere

@LiakosN Oh shit(literally)! Well that's gross, in that case I suppose you both could start by showering before getting freaky as a habit. Although she should clean after herself anyway strange

Cut the sugar man, that what causes most of the time. All sugar if possible, besides fruits. Take cold showers and make sure you get omega3.

You mean she smells somewhat "oddly"? Yeah that is kind of a turn off in my experience, normally it derives from her diet and hygiene. It's lot stuff going on in there, not easy to control either as far as I know. Perhaps you can modify her diet for a while until it goes away, by offering to cook etc

Well at least our pursuers have great taste maybe you find mr charming or maybe you won't. You don't need anyone else to make you happy anyway.

@Sevi I wonder what those tissues are for

@Mohamad Tahmas I don't think that is what he meant. But you made progress so that's good.

@Marks199 Please make paragraphs when you write. If possible move out. Not for the sake of girls but for yourself. If that is something you are struggling with because of you anxiety. Know that you don't need to meet lots of new people just because you move out. Regarding sexual problems I also had that not too long ago, one of them was really really stupid of me so i'll tell you. In Sweden we have only one brand of condoms in the stores as far as I've seen, these condoms are for some reason smaller than regular condoms. WHY? So I bought these because I had a girlfriend whom I was sleeping with, problem was these condoms were too small(not saying i'm huge or anything either) so they caused erectile dysfunction. I took me one year to realize why this, one year of bad sex because of some lame condoms. One fucking year! She felt bad about herself because I was unable to get hard properly. Most sexual problems is caused because you are doing something wrong, trying to do tantra when you too weak causes premature ejection for instance. It's most of the time problems are fixable with some practice and studies on the topic. As for worried you'll perform poorly, most guys are really bad. Lot's of girl I've spoken to have been really bored with the guys they have had short term relationships with. So you are not alone they just don't know how bad they are. As with everything else practice makes perfect.

Idealism? No please, that's not rational nor realistic at all. Not that rationalism is necessarily a good thing. Green thinking... gross.

Here one of my classic topics, good times.

@Brandon Nankivell Not read the book per say but, whats with the Iron Rule of Tomassi #2? I mean I wouldn't say unless she asked but why is it advised against? That's a sad perspective, sure it's not perfect but that not the reason why. Feminine imperative? Is that some kind of MGTOW thingy? On one hand surely a lot of guys misbehave themselves, but on the other I do know of a guy(a friend of an girl I dated) who is in prison for a crime he did not commit according to her.

The ego is strong in this one no but I do similar stuff, despite it being rather unattractive.

90% of my humor is sexual. So i'm really immature apparently.

@BobbyLowell Well that sounds alright. If he indeed alright likes you, all you have to do is show him that you like him. The younger he is, the more obvious you need to be. Before high school you literally need to tell him you do for instance. If he does something good during whatever sport he plays you could compliment him for it. New Years is a greater opportunity to make a move if you know what I mean you could ask him what is doing for New Years maybe he'll invite or you could do with him Happy holidays!

If you can love yourself surely you can be loved also everyone can be loved. Your "horrible friend" is just horrible, don't worry about it.