Spiral

Preparation is everything. You need to warm up socially. I’ll admit I also find this of kind of thing scary tho.

No, don't worry about it guys

Do not have selfies

I work in finance, terribly orange in all the worst ways

@CARDOZZO I Swedish, and yeah of course, there are exceptions. But I suspect you won’t find them at “Stureplan” where the video was recorded.

@CARDOZZO Never said they’re not great looking. Unfortunately you might find that’s all they have

I live in Stockholm, Sweden. I would prefer going elsewhere for woman. Even for hookups

Yeah, furthermore people tend to value what is difficult to obtain.

Build the sort of life a women want to be apart of. Doesn’t mean rich but fun, exciting somehow.

@mud It’s the same, be compassionate and listen to them. Help them if they want it. You can not carry the all the worlds burdens on your shoulders. If it’s your kids it’s a bit different. You are responsible for them in a different way.

Trying to change people(that don’t want to change) is not a worthwhile endeavor. Only being objectively right won’t change people’s mind. Regardless of the topic. Learn to tolerate them, try to understand their point of view. Be compassionate, towards their failures.

I’ve found that if you only interact or see content with women online, they seem pretty awful. However in person they are normally quite kind and friendly. Perceiving them as kind and friendly, is probably better for your chances with them. The truth about how they actually are? probably somewhere in between.

I think you’ll struggle to convince his audience with just being critical of him as a person as opposite to his arguments. The tricky thing with redpill ideology is that they not entirely wrong. Just like most ideologies

I’ve never heard of a (heterosexual) guy ever getting bored with of a particular woman. They just weren’t that interested in them in the beginning. Fell out of love, or desired variety for its own sake. I have no clue how gay guys operate however.

I do not have relationships goals, like marriage, kids or cohabitation. Might do those too, but they are not important to me. I want to met my dream girl and be with her for the rest of my life.

This is just a bunch of semantics and perspectives

Remember that commitment means not being with other people for as long as you are committed. Not you have to get married, have children and grow old together. Serial monogamy is the name of the game these days.

Good stuff

Easy, you are the average of the five people you hang out with the most. So spend time with masculine people. I used to hang out with a gay and feminine dude. People used to think I was gay too, even when they didn’t know of his existence. He moved away and people haven’t thought that about me in years.

It's rather simple, give them an emotional experience. It's like a movie, if it doesn't make you feel anything it's not particularly good. You don't go to see a movie to learn, do you?

I think men as group focus too heavily on women and money. I fall into this trap myself as well sometimes.

Please don’t use the color yellow on a white background

@Lauro Chapa If you do, let us know how good it is

Yeah and I’m sure most are giving their gfs some attention and confirmation. But is it enough? What if they have a fight and he doesn’t don’t give her any for a few days? She still needs it and a photo is real easy to take and post. I don’t think she’d would mind if he posted a foto.

Well let’s say you are a girl and you love your partner, however you do have poor self-esteem and his isn’t giving you the confirmation you need. For you it feels being starved of water. It’s not like you are intend to actually meet these people or cheat on anyone. You are suffering and everyone else is doing this, so why shouldn’t you? He never even said he mind this, maybe people will be jealous of him? Arguably I’d never date a girl like this but I can certainly see their perspective.