Spiral

I lost my virginity to someone that was taken. Although I didn’t know at the time. Terrible sex and got a fungal infection for the trouble.

@Elliott You don’t need to be friends with coworkers

@trenton It’s quite unpleasant, it’s physically damaging for instance. Not to mention a lot of effort if you intent to avoid prison

@Emerald Doesn’t have to be immediately! She can suffer a bit first. However I have friends for none-sexual reasons generally

@Emerald Perhaps, I’ve just experienced this enough times not to try anymore. Better to be friends with benefits in that case, I suppose.

@Emerald In my experience, when a girl likes you things are great initially. Then after 3-6 months, she becomes rude and unpleasant. I suspect it’s the case when she relies it won’t happen

People who are a serious treat to me or my family. When other options are unavailable/exhausted. Luckily never happened to far I’m not prone to revenge however.

Woman who want you are useless friends

Give her a chance to take things in a sexual direction. Using plausible deniability

Phones are just magical stones. In the shape of rectangles

Bitcoin goes up when stocks goes up. So there is no point owning bitcoins. Wide and cheap index funds is the way to go. Throw in some bonds and metals if you like. Do not buy individual stocks.

I find that not allowing your girlfriend to do basic stuff is a strange approach to relationships. I have an issue with most of these anyway. I’m certainly going to have female friends if I’m in a relationship. Better to find a girl who doesn’t want to do those things to begin with and avoid the headache

It not a matter of all being a certain way. A lack of respect in Stockholm is so common that it’s unrealistic to expect. @LordFall I don’t mean in dating, I mean in general. Not saying that they are rude necessarily. Like holding the door for a stranger, I don’t trust that she will say “thank you”. Because a lot don’t. I do except a guy to, because almost all do.

I do think a lot of men don’t trust women. I certainly don’t trust that they’ll act politely and respectfully. It not really about being honest or not.

I would not assume that. It could just as well be that she explained what she needs/whats but I’m not going to give her that. So she cries, so that may have a change of heart

I’m very empathetic so I get sad myself. If it’s a stranger I do nothing. I live in a big city.

For a lot of guys, saying that they don’t want to date etc. Because they can’t find the right one, is 9 out of 10 times just cope. Because it’s hard. Harder then getting a degree and a decent job. Maybe the hardest thing you’ve ever done. It’s easier to say that girls are kinda awful and not worth investing in. Because a lot of them are. Not necessarily mean or cruel, just a pain in the ass. A lot of the time the juice is not even worth it, if it’s given for free. Still your subconscious is draw to environments and situations where you might meet eligible girls. Bars and clubs, single events or dating apps. It’s not rational, it just the way things are.

Needlessly risky behaviour

You can make the argument that sluts undermine other girls ability to find relationships by offering sex easier. While nice guys offer validation and companionship without requiring the perks of a sexual/romantic relationship from the girl. Thus undermining men’s interests.

Nothing wrong with being a slut More certainly wouldn’t hurt

@Leo Gura Throw in some authenticity and you’re half way in

Don’t tolerate disrespect or people being rude. That’s how you find yourself as a nice guy. Endless tolerance is a path to being treated horribly.

Anyone tried a more hardcore approach, by leaving the interaction completely if shit tested? I.E The two of you are on a date, she shit tests you. You don’t reply and instead tell it’s been nice seeing her and leave. Not in some angry or rude manner just calmly, relaxed manner.

I think they make for good friends. All of my close friendships hade been with girls. Or gay guys, but well close enough.

What if they find something that belongs to you at their place. Or miss something that’s probably at your place. Or find out they have an std or a baby? Or something like this?