Spiral

It’s a societal issue. You can think of societies as creatures, some dominate others are sickly and weak. Demographic collapse is like the disease that kills a society, after all societies typically last 250 years. We are overdue and it will get messy, but better times lay ahead. It’s a disaster for the people who live today but not for our species as a whole.

Bring silent is a trap as a man. Might avoid the immediate issue, but over time you’re pacified and relinquish your power and any respect people might have for you. In Swedish we have a term for this. Being a “toffla” it means slipper. Because people step all over you and well you get the picture. Sort of pussy wiped but not necessarily a men by a woman. And sure complaining is not going to help, but if someone’s sprouting unpleasantries best speak up. At least most of the time. A short term pain for long term gain, although you need some skill at it.

If you’re are too attractive for her it just gets messy and complicated. Better find someone else

It is impolite to do so. So I try to avoid it

In my experience getting numbers and such at a club is pretty easy. However they are useless. She wants it now, not later. All about the mood. Day-game is probably different.

Why? Perhaps there are other ways to achieve the underlying reasons

Eq is were it’s at

Having options doesn’t mean you need to act on them. Like just because you can buy every type of cereal doesn’t mean you should

I think as long as we compare, we won’t get anywhere. We want a society were woman are happy to have kids and men gladly protect. Not every man and every woman, but generally. That’s not really the case in many places.

He is clever, I’ll give him that. Framing men/boys issues as issues for women/girls is effective. Even if a it’s bit sad.

Having a fun life for her to be apart of is something guys neglect. Like having Christmas decorations greatly increases you attractiveness. Of course being handsome af helps too.

I got a big one but I’m terrible in bed regardless

Personally a fan of bio-feminism, or at least the types I’ve heard of

Do not reach out to your ex and exploit them like that

People do not treat you worse than you let them

@Leo Gura nice we have our election next year and I’m confused

By Swedish law even if you are agree in advance, it’s still considered rape if your wife wakes you up with a blowjob. Because you need to be able to give consent in the moment. It really harsh here.

I get sexually harassed at work from time to time. It quite tolerated in my culture (if towards men), but I don’t really mind either. I need something to complain about and tell my friends after work.

Nah it’s fine, don’t worry about it

Vitamin b and magnesium helps combat the negative effects of alcohol

@EternalForest would you be against simping? To get your foot in the door.

I see it as an indirect show of attraction. Giving a girl a compliment isn’t flirting, because it’s not indirect. Giving her flowers or taking her on a date isn’t flirting for the same reason.

@Emerald personally I find the balance difficult. When I was younger I was very feminine, to such a degree people thought I was gay. I used to hang out with girls almost exclusively. Right now i’m probably a bit too masculine and struggle to make female friends.

I’d focus on friends first. Doesn’t need to be deep and amazing friendships but something. The lone wolf is weak, a man with a tribe is strong.

My ex told me a year into our relationship that she had it. Don’t think I caught it tho.