How to be wise

@alberto good for you ??

Of course, in duality there is. We live in the mind.

Why are you searching for a hot girl/guy, when you know that you are them. You can’t join the girl/guy unless you realise that you are them. Penetration/receiving will never work. For you to pickup a girl/guy, you must first assume that there is somebody else who wants them? Who is that? Who are you? If you inquire long enough, you realise that there is no you. There is only them. And in that is peace. End of searching. Why go after them, when you know that you are them, and there’s no you. Pickup your true identity: there is no you. Become her/him. That is true joining.

@SerpaeTetra it was a subtle change, but when I noticed it I already had the awareness. I just noticed that I had my permanent experience changed.

@Matt23 for me it was very subtle. The change happened over several weeks. I noticed all of a sudden that there was no me.

Relationship is illusion. End of story. I don’t need to be in one to see that. You’re right. I don’t know anything. That is true knowing.

As I said, I’m still working on it. And if you thought that relationships have wisdom, then you definitely have some work to do.

I still have my impurities. But I’m working on it. And so should you.

I never said it matters to me what others are doing behind closed doors. It’s just that, I want to tell people that there is something beyond relationships/sex that is far more worthwhile. If they’re ready, then I can help. If not, then go to a different thread. Are you ready for this?

I have no intention of experiencing or applying illusion.

@Shin @flowboy @nistake @Key Elements @JohnnyBravo @Dorotheus Perhaps you’d be more convinced if you heard all this from Leo himself:

I of course watched that video a few weeks ago, and the phrase ‘machine gun of truth’ stuck with me, so I used it here. Unfortunately, there’s no ‘me’ to troll. As I said earlier, this is an advanced thread. Most people are not ready for this. But if you are, then you’ve wasted enough time. I’m here to cut the bullshit out of your life, and lead you back to what you really want in life. Sorry, but no wisdom comes from something that isn’t real. My mind is not fooling me anymore. That’s a good stepping stone. If you’re not ready for this advise, go somewhere else. But if you’re ready, then get started quickly. You’ve wasted enough time. I’ve realised them experientially, and I’m still here. I’m enjoying myself far more than I would’ve if my mind was still fooling me in a relationship.

And where is that you. Have you ever encountered it before. It’s a belief formed by your mind using your body sensations. But if you observe carefully, what exists is the body sensation only. There’s no ‘you’ anywhere.

@Shin Yes, we share the same philosophy. Except for one difference. The bear couldn’t separate the inquiry from his personal life, hence he found it hard to make friends. I on the other hand, have specifically created this thread for the inquiry. I wouldn’t do it in a place that isn’t appropriate.

Who isn’t sure? Can you see yourself. Notice that you only exist as a belief.

But I said that there is no you. So who is sleeping with the girls.

Of course I’m not done purifying myself yet. I do The Work of Byron Katie for 90 minutes every day. I may very well be a zen devil at this stage. But, who said that I’m forcing people to change? I wrote a topic, and you guys came. Nobody forced you to come. So I assume that you are my dear seekers. Any post in my thread will be annihilated with the machine gun of truth. If you’re not comfortable having me expose all of your ego’s lies and deceptions, you’re not ready yet for this thread. This may very well be the most advanced topic that this section of the forum has seen.

This sounds obvious enough wouldn’t you say. And who isn’t in search of happiness. I would be surprised if I discovered such a person. As for why people aren’t thanking me, nobody likes it when their precious belief system is hacked to bits with a machete. And that’s what I do. I destroy all knowledge and beliefs until you reach infinite bliss and happiness. Of course most people aren’t there yet. Which is why I need to keep hacking.

@flowboy Why do you want sex/relationships? If you keep asking yourself why, you’ll come to the conclusion that it is for happiness. So drop all the relationships baggage and just go for happiness. The Work of Byron Katie gives you just that.

I did not assume that.

@Shin so carry on, but reduce it. Cut half the time you spend on relationships away and use it to do The Work of Byron Katie. Also, try and convince yourself of this:

@flowboy to get you to see that you are wasting your time. Everything you want from them you have, because you are them. Practically: reduce (or stop if you can) chasing relationships, and chase enlightenment/emotional mastery. Very very very worthwhile.

All the above points are occurring within the mind. You can not realise your true nature without transcending the mind. Break all barriers between you and the external world, until you become it.

Well, the beauty is that without a ‘you,’ there’s no doer. So the question of ‘what will I do’ no longer makes sense. The future is an illusion. There is only the now. What are you doing now? You’re already doing it! End of story.

@Anton_Pierre Well, after you lose the identity as the self, there’s no one left to feel the pain. The pain just exists, but it isn’t happening to anybody. So how can you suffer it.