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Nooo I'm suffering from it, I wouldn't be posting about it otherwise. I feel like they like the attention but some of them don't wanna go further than that and I can't undestand why. Or maybe I just went full retard mode, Sorry.

@reez Thanks for using the thread What are CoC and GS ? Simple Pickup is cool for taking action but it's too soft. I started with some French Websites I wouldn't recommend, because they use gimmicky game and are like..primitive to some extent. I have actually not read models, I've mixed it up with Mode One which is unrealistic. Models seems to be loved overall by the community and I don't yet know why. I'll read it sometime and report back I did my research on the spot. By going out a trying all the different stuff. And now by having some experience I can see what's bullshit and what's not. Just from the 4-5 days of going out per week and the 30 day challenge I recommend the RSD stuff ( Tyler Hotseat at home/ Julien Shift and PIMP are just the perfect products) that you find the most relevant to your situation. They really have great concepts and it helped my game tremendously. They have some sort of monopoly almost because of their great reputation and well..it's deserved !

@Samir It's not a permanent solution, but it's a permanent fix if you wish. Once you have sex once, your brain is gonna rewire itself and be like : oh wait it's actually fine I was full of crap. View it as some sort of behaviour therapy

@MelanieWalker You're welcome and best of luck. You have all my support, I know how harsh it can be.

@Niki Thank you I try to be the most pragmatic possible and call people out on stuff which I find retarded due to first hand experience.

I love how everyone is missing the real problem. Dear @MelanieWalker. Have you ever looked trough your window, and felt like : What are all those retards doing? I would expect yes. That's called being gifted. ( At least in Europe). I personnaly would refuse to suffer because of other people. No, seriously. Why are you doing this to yourself ? Cut it out. People do what they want. Don't care about them. Only on a logical level. But still. I cut all empathy because...well... it was bothering me, and I come first above everything. And if I wanna see any changes in this world, well, I have to handle my own shit. So do yourself a favour. Stop caring about the pain in the world and all the stuff that is out of your reach and you have no control over. Also, for the love of god, don't create a identity out of it. Consider it as not being able to master your own psychology and abilities. Being sensitive is simply a power and you should not be a slave to it. And it requires quite some experiences to be able to live with it normally TLDR : get as much egocentric as you can and once you have gotten less fragile you won't experience this problem anymore.

Hold on! Could you provide a full explanation for this ? I've played the game some time ago and I've had trouble understanding the DEEP meaning

Overall really great but I'm not okay with the whole : Expect ENDLESS shit from the women and also you can't ejaculate anymore because if you do you are weak.

The solution is really easy on this one : Until he solves his different psychological problems, just take viagra. Seriously. Simply take the blue pill. Once you will have sex and that's over, the whole issue will most likely dissapear. If not, break up, because it's gonna take forever to solve. It might sound a bit harsh but It feels necessary from my perspective.

(PS : @Leo Gura I'm not sure what the policy is in terms of PINNED Topics but If I may suggest this one ? )

No? You can meet pretty cool people there and not JUST for sex. @jasonjp1016 Go in with High intensity. Use your voice so you're heard. And then all interactions are like in an normal environement. Also wear ear plugs, those are a life-saver And You have to draw the energy from within, not the environnement @Phocus Way harder because it requires more calibration / the girl is not expecting to be opened and so on.

It will happen automatically once you trust the journey. Letting go is REALLY HARD and you will do so ONLY if you really really like really have to. So yes, go on and attract girls, and handle ALL the issues that pop up on the go

@zenny Hi dear Zenny, I'll give you a fully honest answer on this one, as I'm striving to be more authentic and many people are gonna benefit from it. At the start, I did it because when I broke up I felt like I'd never get laid again. So I did it for the sex and the girls. Inner issues appear in form of compensatory tendencies you will notice during the journey. But you will never ever fix them until you really need to do so because it's painful and hard. And painful. I still want the sex and the girls but I don't actually need them. Telling that you don't want sex or a hot girl or something like that unless you've had a lot of them and you're looking for some specific thing is a lie. You want something. But you don't really need it. I have this kinda blasey vibe after all the shit I've been trough, like " yeah it's cool but it's not gonna change my life ". In the end I got some great girls and had some great stories and...It fixed nothing. You have to pursue the superficial until you realize it doesn't help and doesn't fix shit. Then you finally realize you have to do the inner work. But that usually happens only once you've tried everything or most of the things. And you realize they're not gonna help and they're not gonna make you happy. They are fucking not. And it's really hard to realize. It takes lots and lots of painful moments until you become aware that the problem is not in what is but what is inside your mind. On the other hand, it gives you a lot of motivation which a lot of people lack. Pick-up is hard for this exact reason : there will be moment when you HAVE to solve the deeper issues, at least on a small scale to progress. Then you realize it was a big lie and your progress was actually really small...and you go on to fix the deeper issue. You will get to this OH SHIT moment at some point, and that's what this video confirmed for me. Really great. To some extent, it may seem strange, but you can't simply go and fix the inner issue, because often you don't what it is. Hence you're always on the right track because you're finding it ! You can't really do this wrong.

@Ross Doesn't happen unless you're in a small city. If you are, move in a bigger one or stop doing pick up.

I feel like you're on a point of breakdown and simply try to deny how hurt you actually are. It sounds more of a I'm trying to convince myself speech. Yes, it's gonna benefit you in the long run, but...you have to get there...and in the short term expect to deal with a lot of negative shit.

Mods where are you when you're needed ! @Ayla save us !

@Jesper I'm really glad you are making progress ! @8LanguageStud Usually I would say something on the lines of "Don't shit where you eat ". In this case, simply say have a positive non-creepy vibe and be calibrated. Just say hi and be curious. Something on the lines of : Are you like a celebrity/yoga coach/w/e . Just don't spam approach. Just a random cute comment with a nice vibe and calibrate from there.

@Rita The success rate is quite low for everyone at the start so don't get discouraged. Nonetheless I can't give any specific advice for a women because I'm not one

Girls get annoyed when guys start seeing stuff in simple friendly gestures. For me touching a girl happens most of the time naturally now but I've had to work a lot on physicality in my pick-up journey and well I'm not done yet. Even asking her about it sounds creepy, like...Hello there Martha, the way you touched me on that and that ocassion made me think maybe we should be more than friends ? *Poor Martha runs away* Actually, you never know, so if you want more from her, well, try to kiss her and if it doesn't work out, well, whatever, you were at least true to yourself.

Ask yourself the question, why am I a match to that ? In terms of vibration. If something exists in your reality some part of you is a match to it

This doesn't work if you're not attractive. Ahah. And you can't magically become confident either

Also : Watch some more of them once you feel like you need to keep going

He meant a random girl coming up and introducing herself to the guy Basically the girl picking up the guy.

@AlexB Wanting to heal it too fast is a way of resisting it, because you want it to go away. You can simply stay present with it as long as you can. Also, knowing how harsh a break up is, I recommend Teal Swan's and RSD Tyler break-up videos !

@Cabot Sorry, I should have framed it in a different way