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Something like : I'd love a girl to be my partner but generaly it's simply too hard and overall complicated and I don't know you that well so I'm not sure you could hanble it...? Call her out on being needy for wanting a relationship too soon...act freaked out even...tell her it takes time to really engage and know each other Most likely will work if you are high value !

I was intrigued at first, but then I saw one of his free videos, where he not only BEGGED for donations, but made a moral arguments as to why we are supposed to give him money, because you can't alway take take take, while he's putting out a FREE video by his own choice. I was in utter awe seeing such bad ethics. Who wants to learn from such a whinny .... guy ?

You have to do it a lot and go trough the painful emotions. There is no magic pill here, you have to practice. That's it. There is nothing else. And also check your belief system for stuff like needing money or looks to get girls.

@reez Ten game is kinda dissapointing because there is only like 2 hours of content, the rest is mostly infield I haven't watched yet, so I wouldn't recommend buying it Just find a free summary online and read it, it's gonna be enough to grasp the key concepts ! Tyler's hotseat at home is really great though, huge chunks of content, 10 missions and lots of infields to come. After you've seen shift and Pimp don't forget the practice a LOT

The way you frame it feels negative because of the usage of words "cheater" and "faithfulness". I feel like you're almost asking, I wanna love this really bad person, can I ? As far as I know monogamy is needed for strong bonds, and if a situation of a not exclusive relationship arises, well you can feel in yourself whether your ego is detached enough for it or not.

You can find most of the big and excellent products ( PIMP, SHIFT by rsd julien, the blueprint by rsd tyler, and so on) on the web for free if you look up well enough. Most the products which are actually insanly good are so popular they get leaked for free, unless it's a really niche thing. If you really want to spent money then do it on a product which gets regularly updated with new content, such as Valentine university. Todd has plenty of free videos so you can see for yourself if you like him or not. If you have 200-500 dollars to spent, simply go to a hotseat for 50$. It's an unique experience and it can help you progress a lot Also more expensive doesn't mean more growth. You have to invest TIME - mainly for going out - for the orders of magnitude of growth, not money !

Honestly, children tend to miss percieve how their mother behaves and see things that aren't even there. Until you have lots of perspectives from different people, friends, therapist, forums with similar cases, don't do anything drastic. Once you're sure it would benefit you then yes, cut it.

Take viagra once so you don't have that stress anymore and then proceed to have sex and you won't have the issue anymore because it shall boost your confidence. If it doesn't work don't get hooked on viagra and go see a psychologist. No porn/ no fast and meditation for being more present should also help.

Honestly, as I've seen with my own parents, focus on the stuff that is really hard to repair later on : mainly unconditionnal love and support. If you have this one right the rest is not as important and can be learned later on once she needs it. There is no way you'll do everything perfectly because that's simply impossible, hence focus on the essential part and don't panic by blaming yourself too much. Overall don't worry about it too much and honestly just do your best. Start with yourself, and once you're in a really good shape lift your daughter up as well ! Best of luck !

Aside from the fact that from an outsider perspective you seem to be quite in a lot of pain, which you most likely are, what bugs me out is the multi purpose life thing. Don't blame yourself for everything "wrong" in your life and focus and upgrading one thing at a time. Writting a book drawing or being a life coach takes a lot of time and excellence which you have to invest. For the life coach thing there is a huge tendency of...giving advice while you shouldn't. You see guys basicly reciting all they have read on dating forum without even having talked to one girl. Everyone wants to feel clever and powerfull with their awesome advice and not actually help people. And theory is not enough in this matter : the reason I follow Leo is that he tried everything himself and I can see the practice behind what's he's saying. Actual experience. Myself sometimes I'm used to think I'm so clever and I know all this stuff on how to handle life while I wasn't getting any tangible results for it. Nonetheless I'm doing 10 time greater than I did before, but I'm never giving any advice for things I haven't settled yet or I'm not doing myself. I have seriously no idea how you will pull yourself together but good luck

@Natura Sonoris Well it could be a really nice way to jump start, just don't forget to follow up by talking massive action later If you're really serious about this 100 $ is nothing.

Simply get rid of those bad influences as fast as you can. I can't understand why you're listening to those people or keeping them arround. If it's your family, break ties as soon as you become independant.

Honestly you can achieve it by yourself and people see bootcamp as some sort of magic pill. It would be better if it was at least 4 day so you can learn something more consistent, but at least, you will get another professionnal perspective which can highlight any of your shortcomings in the area. That can be priceless. Otherwise, don't expect magic !

In Toxic Shame, John Dradshaw talks mentions the fact that masturbation is used as a emotionnal relief and to numb yourself from feeling your emotions. That's why so many people are addicted to it, they simply need it not to feel the bad emotion underneath. But that also means if you handle the emotionnal issue, for instance by letting go, the desire to masturbate will naturaly dissapear

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Honestly unless you run arround scaring girl after girl... Even if 10 or 50 find you weird it's fine in a big city. Nothing to worry about. It's almost impossible to creep out an entire city unless it's 5k people small !

Thank you It was last summer, I met a really awesome girl. The best chemistry I ever had at that point. 36 hours of hot sex when we met, then one month of romantic chatter in like 15k messages. Then after another month it all went down the drain for reasons ( Could write and entire essay about it) and it felt really horrible. I spent a whole week listening to taylor swift unable to do anything else than experiencing the pain. The memory of the pain almost puts me in pain. Hilarious. Either way that was a really beneficial experience and I've matured a lot since ! In the dating/relationship forum.

If you can do it right and without creeping out the whole city - yes.

Could we provide bans for people who target others with massive downvotes ? Reputation is meant to underline post quality, not get back at someone because another user "dislikes" a piece of my content. Would you look at this : The reputation system should be as unbiased as possible.

Best one ever. I watched it myself COUNTLESS TIMES

Get a wingman to go out with you. Doing it alone most of the time is annoying and counter-productive. 100k people is still a lot. You're gonna most likely have trouble with girls forgetting you rather than remembering you. Either way as long as you're not creepy and don't feel creepy about talking to girls they're never gonna label you or anything. You shouldn't worry about anonymousity all that much. If you wanna get meaningful results it's actually hard to talk to more than 10 girls per night (because you have to stay in set to screen the girl, get the number, etc which can take sometimes HOURS) and let's say that 30k girls are in your age range. You'd need 3000 nights to talk to them all ! You're not gonna run out. If you live in a touristic area a good trick is to go to the bars there because there is always the tourist's inflow and outflow and you can practice on it all you want Same for a big city. Simply don't : open if you see a girl you really like in a parc or something, but otherwise work on your projects and move out into a bigger city. Unless you a really really into game doing it at night should be enough Or simply on the large shopping avenues, there usually always are a lot of people ! There are no specific places aside the ones with a high traffic. You don't have to sign up to any yoga clubs or anything. You are a bit less anonymous during the day but as long as you don't run arround every day opening every girl you see again there should be zero problems ! You simply need a wingman. Or enough wingmen for everyday you're going out. Having friends that aren't into pick-up is not gonna help improving your skills. I can relate to you. I've had the same close friends for a while and we just hang out at each others or eat together at lunch. I never ever go out and drink and just talk to people. There is nothing judgmental you're simply taking your success seriously. Sometimes when I'm out I bump into people that are gaming since I know most of the community here and I'm amazed at guys drinking and just talking to their wing for hours. And In my head I'm like : If you wanna fucking talk to your friends do it at lunch or play monopoly with tea on a sunday evening but don't waste your time drinking and not learning anything. So yes, the normal "socializing" is just sad. Getting drunkn for 8 hours and talking garbage meanwhile just to feel better while it can be achieved just with some 40 minutes of meditation. Lord. Either way, friends are cool and can invite your to parties and events, don't worry about that. You need 1 or 2 cool wingmen to learn game and that's it. No social circle. Nah honestly it's prefectly fine. It's not a small (10k people) village or anything. And in terms of time all you need is 30 minutes a day. Often the most complicated parts is wanting to really change and evolve, not the situations itself. for the routine : the best way of doing it is 30 minutes a day to get used going against your emotions and learning to open. ( As stated in Julien's shift). You will shift your whole personnality and once you get used to it you'll feel free to open any girl you like. Then take numbers and go on dates. If you sometimes watch content and stick with your daily 30 minutes you can get decent within months. If you have more time to spend stay longer during weekends and try to pull It's impossible to have statistics in pick-up as there are too many variables. WIth enough "if's" you can always and never get laid at the same time. Let's say if you get good at this you can have an abundance of girls you really like, feel more free and happier overall. And when you go to a club most often you won't finish your night alone

There is enough material on it already and even though you're given advice you need to act to stop being needy hence another video on the subject is pointless.

It's not, they simply cope with it because they have no other options ! You didn't get my point here : I asked you to go and experience that first hand yourself. You can use pretty much any argument and elaborate complex theories but once faced with reality there are no other options : it works or it doesn't. For instance, everything I'm saying on this forum comes from my real experience of going out and talking and sleeping with girls, practicing social skills, reading a lot, doing experiments, etc, what's called first hand experience. So when I said if you want proof, I actually asked you yourself to go out and pick-up a non religious girl and trying to get a official relationship without having sex with her ! Once you do that I'll be like okay I was wrong, but I can't agree with something that doesn't seem quite right in my experience PS : I usually don't trust statistics

Well, unless you pull But never use it as an excuse to do nothing ! Massive action is required for results.

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