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I agree. That's what is feeding it It's like the mind obsessing over something. @Kiko If you let it go, only then you'll have the power over it.now its controlling you and its hard.

That's amazing thnk u. ❤️?

Wow, it's amazing what a single thought can do to you if you give the power to it. But I'm so sorry for these years of suffering. Deep down you know that you have the power in your hands, nobody has to touch you, you're perfectly fine. Let that go and start believing in your own magic ?

@Kiko first and foremost, lol, how do u know that she doesn't like you? That doesn't say anything in particular.

@Chris365 don't act on these feelings.

You've already done so much! all u need to do now is to appreciate. That's what is lacking only.

@Forrest Adkins omg this mde me sad. Poor men. ?

You should've already known that you're no different than others. We are all one. Not separate. And the belief that you hold that you're better more aware or awake lol makes it look that you have to reconcile with your lower self. Recognizing it is the first step to freedom.

@Amit Ew grow up now okay? Only the thought that you're better makes you not better. Stop comparing.

@Kiko you're judging and guilting too much. Also stop comparing like you're superior and others inferior. Gain self compassion. Calm down, open your mind and see that only thing that matters is a good soul, not money not status. Also don't fight your ego, reconcile with it. It's not the same. Fighting it will make it worse.

What you need is compassion and love in order to change those behaviors

Dude, I get what you're saying but you know that's not applicable. You always need to sense the separate one even though the highest love is for "yourself"

Why are you breaking up. Seems you don't match. 5 weeks is too little. Still the good phase.

Perfectly said. I agree. @Chris365Also if it makes you miserable you can go but growing happens in staying sometimes. Loving someone and accepting them for the things you said that are bothering you is the hard part but it's gonna pay off someday you'll feel that you loved and accepted this person and deep down you'll feel good because accepting her is accepting you and everyone. And that's peace and freedom. Not everyone can do this. When you get old you'll remember all the things that you did and how you treated people. I'm not trying to make you feel guilt or something - if it's sounds like this - all I mean is that you'll feel grateful for what you've accomplished in the future. You'll be fine and content with yourself. But the thought that they bothered you, they didn't accept u or something or you couldn't love them is not gonna make u feel good. anyways. If you don't resonate with this, ignore.

@Chris365 that's not healthy. But it's a joke right?

What to do now

@Preety_India thank u very much preety. You made me feel better because I was afraid to block. I felt guilt or uncomfortable. Yeah it doesn't mean that I hate them, we just don't vibe. Then again that doesn't mean I have to block them, just let them be. But I see your point. Thank you. It made me feel good.

Maybe ask a friend to live with you for sometime, a person that you trust other than your family, and then let them go. See it as a process of reconciliation with your fear. Ask them as a favor. You'll get to know them better if you live together too.You can slowly slowly make yourself feel comfortable with the emotionally hard thing. Then you'll feel comfortable on your own.

Facing your fears is hard but will be beneficial to you. Try a relationship or only sex. If both of them is that you fear, try one. Make it easier for you. One step. Find someone to get laid with. Then you'll only have one fear, the intimacy/relationship one which is waaay harder to cope with. Lol yeah at least try one. Sex is easy, you'll see.

THIS and..... This Best advice I think... Follow it It's fucked up because if you let her have a reason to cheat you, she will rationalize it as the previous guy said. And that's fucked up. (you being jealous, even though supposedly it's predecided and it's not even your fault at all-we all are responsible for what we feel) but if you show her that you're a serious person that values good trusting relationships and it's not in you to cheat or play games, then I guess she'll feel a lot of guilt and trust you even more than before. She'll respect you more 100% maybe she'll be even proud of you showing such maturity and decisiveness in a relationship. Let's see how it goes. It's up to you.

It's hard but don't let this destroy you. You can try to not show jealousy if there is any hardcore jealousy (because it will destroy you and her and what you have) and just try to feel good about yourself. Maybe it would help you do the same, as you may feel like what she's doing is unfair or something. Try to do the same with a colleague or someone else it doesn't matter. Then spend your day off with this person. See how it feels. Do you feel any freedom by doing this?

I see your signature yes by matt. It's so difficult to do this in my opinion. Acceptance?! Love? R u kidding me super Huge accomplishment lol but yeah hard road.

I don't know. All I know is you have to be surrounded by people that won't take advantage of you

Matt knows. He had similar experience yes. He's now super loving

Hahaha hah I love this So classy and sassy