Willy Phallicus

You need to ask yourself what it is you're afraid of - and find out. Honesty is the best policy. Lean into it and see where it takes you - then either befriend the dragon or kill it.

Which is fine and dandy because their journey will be different than mine. Some people have to slay dragons and others have to trek across continents if not both. They have to see it for themselves, that's how this all works. But make no mistake, no one is coming to save you and there's a damn good reason for that when you do the math. You've populated your experience with tons of heros both real and imagined relatively speaking and its not just for entertainment. You'll notice most every one of them had to overcome some personal shortcoming and then overcome a large obstacle in order to save whatever needing saving. That's the universe reminding you how things work around here. Ill also toss in that the only quality that makes anything worth saving is the ability of that thing to save itself. Again, the math checks out here, there's just the one uni-verse as far as you're concerned.

There's many paths to awakening or so Ive heard but for Willy here it was the tried and true trauma and suffering route. I can't say it wasn't effective as hell.

Be dominate (not in a toxic way) but worship her at the same time. And yeah, give her god realization orgasms on the regular. Other than that, its the basics. Take an interest in her interests, be spontaneous at times, etc etc

The hero in your story is you and it cant be anyone else.

I gave up psychedelic peak experiences for two reasons. One, I was "told" to stop chasing those particular peak experiences and just integrate them and two, they always tried to kill me. In that state there's definitely a part of me that's okay with letting go and actually works toward that end but then as I start to go I realize Im already where I want to be, everything is already perfect and even if I physically died I would just end up going back to that moment like it never happened to "finish" the Willy experience anyway. When you're blissed out, laying perfectly still in bed with your eyes closed in the silent darkness, that is death. Awareness with no form, staring off into the black void pondering what's possible to do and experience next. Life isnt about avoiding or even ending suffering, its how to make the suffering productive. We have whole universes inside us, none of us can extinguish or exhaust the potential within but you definitely want to connect with that potential before you exit the electro monkey suit ride. You dont want to enter infinity with a bitch victim mindset. For many, suffering is the catalyst that drives us to overcome all the bullshit. Cherish it. I know its hard to come to grips with but "at the end of the day" you really have nothing to worry about. Worrying about stuff is what you do for fun because that doesn't exist in your natural state. Break your mind and come to jesus my friend.

One of the deeper insights, yeah. I gave myself problems so I could tell myself I had problems so then I could do the real fun part of pretending I had problems to overcome and then work to overcome them or learn to love/live with them.

So please share with me what you learned from an atheist who lives off clicks and a pro religion guy with a book to sell (who is espousing religion as a mandatory obligation) as they discuss really, really, really old revelations yet somehow miss every single implication of what those revelations are blatantly suggesting? Alex Oconner said the same thing as Leo and Leo is saying the same thing that's been communicated since sharing knowledge became a thing thousands of years ago. Okay, and? That's not arrogance you are detecting its frustration with clowns and their bullshit. My question was basically asking when you are going to do your own work on what the implications are instead of relying on the external world to do your thinking for you. Im sorry, anyone telling you religion is an obligation should be regarded with extreme skepticism. Who did I attack and how? Its genuine curiosity - how long are you going to seek answers in the external world when the question answers itself and nothing is being hidden from you? "Hey everyone, this is kind of crazy right but that table isnt actually there - which implies nothing is actually here. But that would mean this very podcast we are having over this little snafu is also a product of Gods dream. Lets talk about it and while one party goes into denial and another one tells you to join a cult or else." Great stuff Im sure.

Dont you ever get tired of watching new people rehashing the same old news? Yeah, matter is imaginary. That means Im imaginary and so is everything else. That means I am a product of Gods imagination wherein I am wholly one with the holy one. Lets have a two hour conversation and overly complicate everything unnecessarily because the pay aint bad.

We need another Osho. I dont have it in me if someone else wants the job.

The big bang that supposedly birthed this universe was a random event that happened out of nowhere and for no reason. Then it coalesced into super complex life forms that can feel emotions and question things purely by random and even the science mans math says none of this should rightly exist - the odds are astronomical and thus paradoxical in nature. Then you resolve the paradox by finding out it doesn't really exist and the mystics and scientists are speaking the same language. Its a dream - a complete fabrication - a very convincing illusion. Dreams have beginnings and endings but the dreamer does not. Direct experience. Here's what else I know. No one can answer the big questions for you. Get it? QUESTions. Its your quest and yours alone. No one else can experience you on your behalf. If any guru could answer the big questions and wake the walking dead then this whole shebang woulda started wrapping about 2800 years ago. Just look at or for what theyre pointing too and eventually you'll get it.

Matter is made up of imaginary particles. This conversation isn't really happening in a material world somewhere. Its both happening and not happening at the same time, that's the genius of it. Its also paradoxical as fuck.

Paradox means something that's sounds totally illogical and beyond reason but ends up being true anyway. Like how nothing creates everything and is both nothing and everything at the same time.

Are you trying to balance out the praise being heaped on Ralston in this thread? lol

On the subject of "teachers" I rarely think inside those parameters. But if you want to force me into making that distinction I would just tell you all the best ones are long dead and their musings aren't behind a paywall. Bad for me would be the all the huckster bullshit that pervades the spirituality space but that's true of any mass movement. I wouldn't go that far but I would still put him way ahead of Ralston in terms of communicating what cannot rightly be put into words. And for the record, I got nothing against Ralston. I'm not into his brand self help but if he is working for you then that's great but eventually you gotta go beyond Ralston - and Leo for that matter. If you're still looking to the external world for that validation or assistance you're doing it all wrong and the most obvious clue is you're still following a teacher and not really listening to the lesson that you have to go within. Its internal "work". Its all inside you which is a solo and extremely personal discipline because how could it be anything else? The universe only has one mind. Yours. Working with your assumption Leo has zero good intentions even if that's the case he's not forcing anyone to watch his and content and still not making you buy a youtube channel membership for the privilege of watching members only videos like a book author does and again, you don't need Leo and Leo can't save you anyway. You gotta save you so whatever those intentions are I suggest you make good use of them like Leo is and maybe come up with some of your own. I took an interest in Leo's work because he was the first ever guru type active in the space today who actually said something that gave me a slight pause - when in his solipsism video he referenced the drama and the horror and said "You love this shit!" which was actually saying something really nuanced in a very simple and honest way - which I recognized as true. Whatever else he is up to is of little interest to me.

Whether its real or not wouldn't really matter to me. It would be the difference between whether its a gift being given out of generosity because it would indeed look good on me or whether you're just trying to sell me a watch.

Depends on how good it actually looks on me which was the pitch.

Hope its got a long battery life because suffering is going to continue for eons to come.

Ralston isnt the problem its the people that get snowed by him. Same goes for every other guru thats got shit to sell you.

In order to keep that wily snake chomping on its own tail for eternity you gotta spice things up a bit.

This dream reality does provide the possibility that will allow a human being to maintain the integrity of their individual essence beyond the veil of death. Its the promise and the miracle of the Infinite. You are the infinite. The infinite can do whatever it wants. Its one of the perks of being I Am. I remembered I was God and that came with the remembering that God can do whatever God wants to do and/or experience. If you Know Thyself to be God then you know that it's true.

Some return to nothing and some go on to become self referencing nirvanic bliss and everything in between. If you have achieved full on sovereignty and sentience you will get to choose your next experience based solely on the experiences of this one. In other words, death is whatever the heck you want it to be. If you're just another flower that didn't bud death will be the end of the texture that is you but the good news is you won't be around to care. Sounds like a win/win to me.

I can't call it a technique but silence, stillness and solitude.

Hello me, its me again.

You're not following me. The stuff you're referencing is for people who haven't figured it out yet and in plenty of cases secretly never want too. Im talking about those that have experienced the deepest and most profound truth about the big mystery and accurately describe direct experience of Absolute Truth as 'solipsism'. Who are then subjected to what amounts too bush league snark. My beef is saying solipsism is heavily dependent (and just about negated) on thoughts and concepts than direct experience when the thoughts and concepts are being employed to metaphorically explain the direct experience which can't be communicated to "another" without the use of thoughts and concepts. That's not the solipsists fault. Everyone else has to work out their own salvation. It would be more honest and courteous to say 'I haven't had that experience' instead of 'solipsism is essentially bullshit'.