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Do it. Many young people make the mistake of valueing money too high. Your time is the most valueable resource your have. If you can work on your life purpose from a van then do it. Otherwise find ways to both fund your lifestyle and find time to invest in your life purpose. Also sometimes I see people always complaining about not having enough time. This mindset can be detrimental as it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy and it's not very inspiring.
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I don't understand the ending of your story. But sounds like this was their way of flirting with you.
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In other news there even exist man who exchange their money for beautiful woman. Isn't that shocking?
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Locked as there is already a recent thread about this. Link:
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Be a hard closer but also be an authentic, emotionally mature and charming man. The stuff after the "but" is important. I think most people looking on the internet for dating advice usually fall into the category of closing too little/not at all, so there is that as well.
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If a guy says he only works out for himself, what do you think? It's the same. Nuance.
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The person who edited this should be hired by Leo as new video editor Sedona Method is gold ❤️
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Needyness is tricky and comes in many ways. You can be needy in virtually every possible form imaginable. Speaking, not speaking, asking questions, not asking a question, connecting with someone or not connecting with someone. The key here is Emotions. First step is becoming aware of it. For example you shared your experience and didn't get validation for it. Because you did not get that validation you felt rejected/bad. This is an emotion. Notice the reaction on an emotional level. Now, if he would've given you validation by telling you how great your experience was you might have felt validated/good. This is also an emotional reaction. In both situations you would have a need for validation. So in essence we can say being needy is a form of anticipating something outside of you to give you certain emotions. The second step now is to free yourself of that need. As for as long as you have that need for validation still inside of you it will show itself. It will come slipping through one way or the other. Freeing yourself means Growing out of that need. Feel into your emotions and let them go. Realize that you can never get validation from someone else. You have all you need right now, give yourself as much love and validation as you want. And even if you don't give yourself validation and you don't get it from the outside. You are still o.k. This realization is powerful. If you share something and do not react emotionally to what others say, you know you are not sharing to get validation. ❤️
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Only me. Being here imagining everyone. ❤️
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That is for you to find out. Everyone is different but some research has been done and some dots have been connected. Check out this website or this course for what they are. https://www.coursera.org/learn/the-science-of-well-being You can learn from other peoples experiences just make sure to get their authentic and true story. You would be shocked to find out that many people who you think are happy are actually feeling miserable on the inside without anyone noticing. There is a book called "The Top Five Regrets of the Dying" which I can recommend you to read or maybe find a video explaining it. One thing I would recommend you to learn and get into now is emotional mastery. Learn to accept and feel your emotions. Yes and no. Sex is kinda like money or alcohol. You will feel great for a while but it doesn't last. And definitely get a girl that likes you for who you are. You will resent her otherwise. For dating, don't think about success too much. Think more about character traits that are masculine. Girls are more attracted to those masculine traits in you than to your success (which would be merely a reflection of those traits). They want the real deal. As for success, you better find your own definition of it, if you don't agree with what society or the commercials tell you.
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Self-Love. If you cannot love yourself, how love others? Be a good role model and others will follow you ❤️
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I don't see the problem, just go out listen to some audiobook and when you get home implement them and take action. You can even take notes on it while you walk.
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@Brittany Just because they don't act on their attractions doesn't mean that they are not attracted. We have the ability to control ourselves. Like if you become a catholic priest. Your religion forbids you having sex. Still I think every non-asexual priest will feel attraction when there is a certain spark in the room. At least that is what the evidence points towards.
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Well it's not that you are poor and that is why you don't have a successful business. You are poor because you don't have a successful business. And because you are not a prolific artist and because you are paying credit card fees. These things you listed aren't even so bad. Wait until you are wealthy and see what kind of shit you have to deal with then. You will pay a lot more taxes. The top 1% in the US is everyone who earns 500k/year. Other countries have it easier, for example in Australia it would be 250k. If you don't know why Leo has become financially well off you haven't been paying close enough attention to what he teaches. If you create value, you will get value in return. Guess what he has been doing in the past? The way is simple. Find something you love to do with a purpose. Get really good at it. Create massive value for society. Let society compensate you for it. And even if you don't get rich, you will still be happy knowing you are doing what you love to do. To integrate any Spiral Dynamics stage you have to dive deep into it.
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What is even the most exciting thing? If you think being on a yacht and flying charter jets is exciting than maybe. But you can go sky-diving and have sex in the park for way less. Then maybe watch your girl give birth to your child. Whats the saying, the best things in life are free or something. Even rich people worry about money. Stopping to worry about money is an emotional mastery first and foremost. And if you live in a first world country your basic needs you need for Maslow's hierachy are met from birth. 1% isnt crazy rich. You are talking about over 3 million people in the US alone. And no there is no success or wealth requirement for enlightenment as far as Im aware of.
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This question is answered in this video. Of course it's not just black and white and you got do define what success means to you.
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No they are not but somehow society manages to worship them in a strange kinky way.
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Define what success means to you. Be wise with the definition. It's ok if your definition of success changes throughout your life.
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Congratulations! You have been a good worker ant and made someone who is playing this game a little better than you a nice stash of money! I don't mean that to diminish your work, it's certainly honest and a good service you are doing. But if you want to implement yourself better and get more involved with your work you need a vision for what you want to do with your life. What is your plan? Do you want to keep working customer service your whole life? I've never been to Kroger but the idea that grocery workers would overly socialize with me sounds ridiculous.
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What do you want to achieve? Habits can be nice to get shit done and to develop mastery. But you can achieve many great things without going to bed early and other habits. Make your goal something worthwhile that is big enough to sacrifice freedom. Or let your life become a mess if that brings you closer to your goal. Look man, you already have habits. Everyone does. What you are afraid of is changing these habits. Because if you want your life to change, you need to change. That means some part of you has to die. Death is inevitible for change. There is no getting around that. Accept the death of that part of you that needs to let go. Or don't... and stay where you are at.
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@tatsumaru You are reading too much into it. Saying "I want to be with you forever" can be true if that is how a person feels like in the moment. Of course they might love someone else later, how should they know? Also getting a divorce doesn't have to be embarassing. Not everyone thinks that the state/church is this almighty entity without failures. In fact, many people cheat in marriages or get a divorce. Marriages, like religions are traditions that helped the survival of certain communities. I'm neither for nor against marriages but there can definitely be logical or emotional points be made in favour of them.
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love is just neediness and attachment for survival purposes. Love is all there is and everything else is imaginary. ❤️
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1. Constant stress, for example from work/school will cause your cortisol levels to increase in your body. Which in turn lowers testosterone. Get rid of that stress. Meditation is good. 2. While this constant tension and stress on you is bad - stepping into tension for short amounts of time will increase your masculine energy through the roof. So see where you can play with tension in your daily life that is on par with the level you can tolerate (or just a tiny bit above). 3. Clean up diet (less sugar, fast-food, toxins). 4. Sport (especially heavy and HIIT). 5. Good sleep.
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Highly personal question. I'd buy one BTC. In a year or two you would have 100k again. The rest invest in yourself and in your purpose. Either in training, equipment or marketing.
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I'd still love her. Say no to robot hate. Still waiting for part two of Alita battle angel