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In short: Accept and let go of that feeling. Ask yourself why does this feeling come up? Maybe it wants to tell you something. Don't judge it. Just be with it.

Thats why I recommended you take your time to think about it. You need practice. Every skill you want to learn takes practice.

Quit because I don't like smoking stuff and because I just don't want to take it. Pretty much just over with it. If you want to take it for the "right reasons", make it a ritual. While you are high only do meditation and walking in nature. Treat it like you would a LSD or Ayahuasca trip. The setting is what really matters.

@somegirl Your problem is ultimately an illusion, to keep you in the matrix. Enjoy it while it lasts. Being lonely forever or having prince charming as a husband. Both equally enticing outcomes and highly sensational.

Excellent question. I would say there are many factors that contribute to this, being on your purpose, lucky circumstances, love, (gratefulness-)meditation or psychedelics. What this really boils down to for me though is Emotional Mastery. Because when you do Emotional Mastery work, that means investigating(changing) your beliefs, healing and releasing emotional wounds/pain-bodies and practicing acceptance, your emotional state will rise naturally. Emotional highs are always fleeting, that is why they are highs. But because you will have less shit that is dragging you down you will be able to enjoy these grateful moments for much longer. Then just be open to whatever comes and set the intention to experience bliss. ❤️

Read some books about becoming rich. For example "think and grow rich" or "rich dad poor dad". The classics. This will give you some starting point. Honestly, at your age I wouldn't put too much thought into it. Take some risks, making failures is the fastest way to learn. Find something that you enjoy doing and become really good at it. Seek to provide a lot of value to people's life and they will reward you for it. Have you watched Leo's videos on this topic? Mastering money really is a combination of different skills like -Emotional Mastery -Mindset (shadow work) -Being strategic -Vision

What else are (desired) fundamental changes to your body and psyche other than having a stable feeling and being able to deal with your emotions in a healthy way? It would be like saying that light is very tricky so maybe the fact that your desk light works is based on ants rather than actual energy Of course your beliefs are important too, and so are your results. Have you seen Leo's video on "Fake growth vs real growth"? Maybe it will help you.

What is one or more things that you want to do in your life, if you had ultimate potential and enough ressources to make it happen?

Do you live in third world country, have children or something? Because otherwise I don't see how you can not save at least 50% of your income. So you could work 1 month and take 1 month off. Maybe try to find someone who pays you for a skill related to your life purpose? And if you want to have 10k there are many ways to a get a credit for 10k if you really must have it now.

What do you mean feeling nice and stuff doesn't count and is placebo? Would you rather have 1 billion $ in your bank account but still feel bad or just the same as you have now and feel good?

Oh my god these videos, jesus... Im dying Great examples!

@caelanb If you want to go that route then yeah do the association exercises. I would only recommend watching something light-hearted before you socialize to acclimate. Like in that CoC video. If you have enough time and want it badly enough you can also practice some storytelling and stuff like that. Have a funny answer to the most common questions "Where are you from" "What do you do for work" etc. You don't need to use them but you then have the option and it will set the mood for the whole conversation. The thing though, you are kinda trying to learn to swim by doing exercises and reading books. In my experience it doesn't work that way. @Nahm Yep, the truth is funny

You imply being patient while waiting for Love is a virtue?

A pretty easy thing to do is watch some comedy. Get yourself in the right mood! Then when you talk to people think about ways to make the situation more fun. Fail and learn from there.

It's direct and blunt survival and natural selection. Just the whole survival of the human race hinges upon it.

No, you don't need to feel guilt for that. Wanting good things in your life is perfectly normal. But there are a few ways to deal with your situation that could lead to growth. It could be interesting to explore why you want these thing. Is there a part of you that thinks it needs those things. Maybe a seeking for approval or security? Maybe some advertisement got to you, if yes it would be wise to question your beliefs. Or, you could feel deeply into that guilt that you are feeling. Feel it fully. Maybe it has a message for you. Only you can find out. Here is an Exercise, you can start at Step 2.

Have you watched Leo's video on YouTube about this topic?

Choice.

You are right. No outside source is needed. You where born with the innate ability to handle life. Tho at times it can be helpful to reach out and have someone point you in the right direction. Maybe it's comforting for you to know that there is no difference between inside and outside.

You want to ground yourself in Truth. That is how you become Spider-Man.

I'm sensing people pleaser vibes. If that is you, please look into it. People pleasing is damaging to both parties. Have you considered setting your boundaries? Be vigilant about them. Do everything you can to make her respect your boundaries (except physically hurting her). A crucial learning point is becoming comfortable with tension. See what happens. Maybe she will move out because she can't stand you, or you get kicked out. Or maybe you both can develop a wonderful and deep friendship. Where you are both authentic and learned something. Or you could just move out now, nothing wrong with that.

Facebook is a reflection of society. If we would collectively spend billions of $ on facebook to promote peace, love & healthy role models it would do exactly that. The video is itself part of the problem by spreading fear to an extent.

Anything that happens is exactly as you wanted it to happen, is happening and will be happening. So it's up to you. Do you want to feel regret?

You are trying to understand the dating paradigm within the male perspective. Which is why it won't work. The male mind is wired to solve those "problems" you describe. So when approaching, leading, planning and making sex happen as you say. Those are all tasks the male mind is destined to do. Build for that. As men we rise to those challanges and get excited about them. Or get lost... whatever. From a womans perspective this all doesn't even come to her mind. Her brain is not wired for that, instead it is wired to be very good at other stuff. Where she can rise to a challange and get excited about. But that stuff won't make sense to you and your male brain. So don't worry about it. If you want to understand women better you can start by watching this video and do the exercise towards the end. You can also take a look inside the brain of women by reading/watching dating advise that's catered to women. Disclaimer: These are all generalised statements. Some women can be more masculine and some men can be more feminine of course. And because we mostly live in a society that favours male brain wiredness, many women can understand men better than the other way around. Because they learned it from society.

@ValiantSalvatore Do you mean sth like sadness, sorrow, hate, anger? Yes, you want to go with all Emotions that come up. Give her a rollercoaster of Emotions. The whole range. But I'd say focus more on the positive ones. In the end positive or negative Emotions do not exist. It is just how we label them. A good book I like about Emotions is the Sedona Method. It's not about dating but will give you some powerful tools to explore and learn from your Emotions.