universe

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  1. No, everyone is delusional. What you have to do is to hug the Hardkill you are right now, tell him how much he means to you and how grateful you are for him. Then you rip him out of you and continue on your journey to not be a wage slave. How many people you know have achieved this, what steps have you done to achieve this?
  2. Yes you need to be more specific. What kind of fiction book you want to write? What style? Who are the main characters? What is their story? Etc. If you just started your first step is to figure out the first step. Maybe it is reading other peoples books, maybe it is writing your story, maybe it is scetching your characters, maybe it is a mix of all, maybe it is something completely different. Only you can figure it out, even tho you might ask people who have already done it for help.
  3. This is very broad. Cut your life purpose down into multiple steps or milestones. Then ask yourself what can I do to get the next step done. You need to get very specific about what it is that you want.
  4. Settle for nothing less than what you want. Do you really have a desire to settle, to form a long lasting relationship, to maybe start a family? If not then don't even bother. Don't let society tell you how to live your life.
  5. Eh it's not too bad. You are probably younger or live in a certain spot where these women mingle. Of course many healthy women will not engage with a guy who appears overall needy or weak. Balance. You can shout out your love for her and shower her with compliments all you want IF you also give her the other stuff she enjoys. Love is something very frightening for most. I would start with accepting first.
  6. I'd advice on looking into yourself and finding where this feeling of guilt or feeling like a cheat is coming from. Why is it there and what does it want to make you notice. Then I'd take a deep look into my options to make the desired career change.
  7. Yes, you are that twin flame. And everyone is your twin flame. Everything else is an illusion. A super sweet and also seriously fucked up illusion. ❤️
  8. Nice experiment, it shows how important mindset is. I truly believe he could make another million, even if it might take him a bit longer than a year. @Gesundheit2 Im interested what you think about this guys work ethic (other video from same channel) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w47sY1sCWco
  9. What happens if you get hit by a car? What happens if you die falling down the stairs? Everything can happen. He touched her without saying anything to her, like twice. If you feel better don't touch her during the day. It is not even needed in the first 15 minutes. On the other hand, if you never learn this and stay shy your entire life, your chance of becoming like this guy are much higher.
  10. Hard to tell if we don't know what you are trying to achieve. What is your life purpose / goal here?
  11. Well you asked for exercises that you can do all by yourself. This is just one that came to my mind. Mediocre will be totally fine, normally people are bored and don't expect anything funny from these standard questions. So your bar is the "I work in a hospital, I live in Austin" kinda level. Very low and easy. In the end you should of course go out and talk people. Just by watching Leo's video and having this thread you have already enough theory. You have chosen to be more funny. Now it's just time for you to remind yourself of that while you are in conversation.
  12. Yeah well, don't believe him. The nice thing with compliance is that it gets guys to stop sabotaging themselves. Instead of leaving her because you think she doesn't like you, you push the conversation forward and have a chance to find out she IS into you.
  13. You've got some amazing replies already. Some people feel bad for marking up their stuff due to shortages others feel bad if they didn't squeeze out the last tiny bit possible out of the exchange. Whatever floats your boat Seems to be super chill to feel bad. You could say it's kinda in vogue. Ask yourself why do you need this drama in your life right now? Maybe you really crave this sensation. It feels so important! Doesn't it bring welcome excitment into this illusion? Makes it all too real. Otherwise let those 300$ go. You made someones day, maybe he couldn't afford the full price and you also learned a valuable lesson to do your research before selling stuff. Mark it as a win in your book and keep rockin your life!
  14. Which podcast? It helps to think about problems people have. What are some of the most urgent problems people have in this field, and in that field. Be very curious about the problems people have in general. Talk to people about them, study them. If you meet someone ask "What is the biggest problem in your life right now?" and so on. You will start to see opportunities everywhere.
  15. Facing your emotions may be the most difficult thing in your life. I know man. Trust me I know.
  16. Sounds very sensational. His Disability Didn’t Stop Him From Being Successful With Women, Career and Health
  17. In short: Accept and let go of that feeling. Ask yourself why does this feeling come up? Maybe it wants to tell you something. Don't judge it. Just be with it.
  18. Thats why I recommended you take your time to think about it. You need practice. Every skill you want to learn takes practice.
  19. Quit because I don't like smoking stuff and because I just don't want to take it. Pretty much just over with it. If you want to take it for the "right reasons", make it a ritual. While you are high only do meditation and walking in nature. Treat it like you would a LSD or Ayahuasca trip. The setting is what really matters.
  20. @somegirl Your problem is ultimately an illusion, to keep you in the matrix. Enjoy it while it lasts. Being lonely forever or having prince charming as a husband. Both equally enticing outcomes and highly sensational.
  21. Excellent question. I would say there are many factors that contribute to this, being on your purpose, lucky circumstances, love, (gratefulness-)meditation or psychedelics. What this really boils down to for me though is Emotional Mastery. Because when you do Emotional Mastery work, that means investigating(changing) your beliefs, healing and releasing emotional wounds/pain-bodies and practicing acceptance, your emotional state will rise naturally. Emotional highs are always fleeting, that is why they are highs. But because you will have less shit that is dragging you down you will be able to enjoy these grateful moments for much longer. Then just be open to whatever comes and set the intention to experience bliss. ❤️
  22. Read some books about becoming rich. For example "think and grow rich" or "rich dad poor dad". The classics. This will give you some starting point. Honestly, at your age I wouldn't put too much thought into it. Take some risks, making failures is the fastest way to learn. Find something that you enjoy doing and become really good at it. Seek to provide a lot of value to people's life and they will reward you for it. Have you watched Leo's videos on this topic? Mastering money really is a combination of different skills like -Emotional Mastery -Mindset (shadow work) -Being strategic -Vision