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Imagine a woman who desires this Jeremy because of his looks. They meet for a date and all he does is trying to get her to like him, he is super nervous and fake laughs to everything she says. He doesn't hold eye contact, instead he looks down most of the time. His voice is like Mickey Mouse but very quiet and he talks very fast. He doesn't display any passion, ambition or interest in life. Whenever he opens his mouth either a lame ass joke comes out or he is too much in his head to even say anything. He doesn't listen to her. He acts very surprised that she even likes him. And at the slightest hint from her, he thinks she doesn't like him anymore. He doesn't feel comfortable in his skin, he scratches his arms all the time and looks over his shoulder as if he assumes everyone is out to get him. And most importantly he doesn't lead her. He waits for her to make a move, he waits for her ask him out, he lets her pick a date for them, he waits for her to show him where to sit, etc.

That is what you get, when you have good looks and can fill a stereotype. But if he would display unattractive behaviour/personality any woman would leave him for the next ugly guy who has a attractive personality. It is just, that by his looks you would imagine he also has a attractive personality. Compared to someone who looks like he is coming for the last magic the gathering community event or something.

Yep, that and much much more. It is about overcoming all your fears. ❤️

This is the whole essence of spirituality. Not beating yourself up and accept and cherish reality for what it is. It's practical to practice acceptance because it will lessen your resistance towards the present moment. You become more and more aware of how everything in reality is infinitely perfect and miraculous. Even eating something unhealthy. Also Emotional Mastery is huge for the day to day living stuff and feeling good in general.

Lusting after validation will make you dishonest. Women have a radar against dishonesty, because it is threatening to them. It's wiser to learn not to need validation from women and be authentic and honest.

Your feeling is most likely correct I'd encourage you to go deep into your beliefs and contemplate on them. Go back to your childhood. Any ideas your parents gave you about money which you could have adopted as your own without questioning? Imagine a group of poor people and a group of rich people, which do you feel more drawn towards? Why?

Are you selling your quick response time? If not, just tell them you answer questions only on Thursdays. You might not be able to maintain all of them but it's worth it, because now you are getting what you want.

The only entity with the power to take away your bliss is yourself. If people are trying to convince you that their delusion is best, they are doing so out of love. Because they think it would benefit your situation if you would change your delusion to another delusion. See for example my first sentence. I see your post, and I notice how you are giving power away and not taking responsibility. Which, my delusion tells me, are some of the core principles of being happy and in bliss. And I sense from your post that those are things you want. It's all lovely delusions here.

Matrix comes from latin "mother" or "womb". You do not have to escape it. You go through it. By falling in love with it's infinite intelligence and beauty. ❤️

I've found in my own experience, that whatever I think about life will become my reality. And that by thinking that "living a good life is hard" we are putting imaginary barriers between our current state and a state where life is good. Because sometimes we might catch ourselves being in the zone, being happy and living the good life. But then, our mind comes in and asks "hey, you know this is supposed to be hard? What have you actually done to get here?". And we start "backwards rationalising" to ourselves that we can't be, in fact, happy and living the good life in the moment because we haven't done anything hard recently. ❤️

Start here. Come back if you have a more specific question.

You are doing the emotional labor right now. Push through these old beliefs you have about how something bad will happen if you follow your passion. This is the emotional labor. Life doesn't have to be hard.

@bebotalk Posting links to your YT on FB or X is not best practice, as this would limit your reach on those platforms. Of course you can promote your video everywhere and some people might stay around. But the problem is that the algorithm won't acknowledge these views. And Youtube is just far better as you are at promoting your video. If the parameters (CTR, retention, session duration) are good. It will do the job for you, every day, without stopping.

Either you do it or don't. Or you could try psychedelics if time is of the essence.

I'd advice against it, instead focus on creating good videos that youtube's algorithm will think kindly of.

ADHD is so widespread you can mark it as normal nowadays. I'd say continue. Awareness will likely lower your symptoms, so you might want to watch the ones about this topic. If that's something you want.

They pay how much they value your work. A boss is not your friend who helps you out when you are in need for help. Just as much as you wouldn’t help him if he wouldn’t pay you. Also imagine you’d be paid 100.000 per month. Would you still be working there after a few month? Or would you start going on a long vacation, building your own business etc. If you are not happy with your job guess what. It’s your responsibility to change something.

Old thread is old. Closed.

This test doesn't prove much. Other than that if everything else is equal, the better looking guy gets the attention. No one would argue otherwise. Looks matter in Online Dating. Because women have nothing else to go by than looks. And with that knowledge you can increase your matches drastically by getting good pictures taken from a professional.

This is the way. Cleaning your room and finding your power. ❤️

The person you have been in the past has materialised this life situation you are in right now. What kind of person is required now to change it? ❤️

If you really set your heart on your life purpose, you can move to another country. Many people have done it. For that, a high paying job might be your first step. Good luck on your journey! ❤️

Last time I checked, my parents didn't make millions of dollars but I'll check again. Thanks for sharing this life hack with us.

I meant that there is a trend right now with anything training / qualification related. You can get anything Yoga Certificate, human design Certificate, Spiral Dynamics® Certificate. Just like there was / is a trend with university degrees. What I am seeing is people who have many of these certificates but not a stable business as a coach. Instead they go on and get another certificate. On the other hand, I know some coaches who have none of these certificates but they've helped hundreds of people and have a good business going. Of course, they have teachers. But more in form of books and courses that are not designed with the teaching aspect in mind. So ask yourself, what do I need to do/be in order for my clients to make the shift and "help them fix their broken arm". Do you need more knowledge in a particular field that you might get with a certificate or is this something you do for yourself to feel better? What did you do to get out of it?

Depends on where you want to go with this. There is a huge wave of coaching programs. Because there is such a high demand. And people are willing to pay much more for a training to become a coach rather than just for coaching itself. I would ask myself if the difference is worth it.