universe

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  1. There are thousand reasons that do not really have to do with you. Women oftentimes are not sure if this is the right time to even date someone / anyone. It has not so much to do with respect and more with her inner world. The best thing you can do is not to think about it.
  2. The consequences are more like a missed lesson. But you don't jump SD stages as quickly as this. The more common situation is that the society you grow up in is stage Orange and you haven't integrated purple, red and blue thoroughly.
  3. Very good answers in this thread already. It's true, you do not need to be optimistic in order to get something. And you do not even need to get something. However, if you want to get something, it will become easier when you are in the right emotion. I'm referring to the consiousness/emotional scale (see for example David Hawkins). You could start logically debunking your belief system. Which is helpful, but not necessary. Instead, just come into feeling. Feel the fear. Become present with the fear. And come into being. This will move you up the scale. I wrote a whole thread about this here One other thing I've found helpful is doing gratitude practices. ❤️
  4. This is not a problem. Right now you are here: O This is where you want to go: O /|\ / \ ❤️
  5. This is common advice in marketing. And it's true. There is nuance to this. It's good for checking if the problem you want to solve with your business is big enough for people to do something about it. Once you know that it is a big problem for people, then you can work on solutions. Or you might already had "a" solution and just needed the right problem. It also depends on whom you show your offer to (that's the next step, finding the right market) and how you present it (e.g. the copy). Then you can use this technique again to check which product/service is the most wanted. It is a very much client oriented approach.
  6. You also have to consider that 2,6 million will only be worth 1,2 million after inflation (assumed 2% p.a.). It could also be closer to zero with maybe a 1% chance. Doomsday Szenario. I would rather invest money into my business or into my hobbies and increase my income sources that way. Seems more fun. But if you don’t know what else to do with your money, investing is always a good idea.
  7. If you live your life very low consciously that might be true. But this place is about self actualisation. You self actualise by taking things into your own hand and take responsibility. You live life to your fullest potential. That doesn't necessary mean you have to make a lot of money but by avoiding a lot of the material traps and illusions laid out by society, your financial situation should be better than 70-80% percent of the population easily. And why do you define yourself by the low conscious standards set by society?
  8. If you just want to make money, yes. But that is not a smart goal to have. Letting money define your skills is a very bad idea. You can take it into consideration depending on how much you value money in your current situation.
  9. This is true. Especially if you follow your Life Purpose and develop a valuable skill. If you live in the west, have a somewhat valuable skill and still find it hard to make money, you have a mindset problem. And right now with inflation you just have to become used to higher pay checks. No way around it.
  10. For the same reasons there is grass growing outside... It is magical. A true miracle! Literally, grass is growing right now: "whaaaat". Ask yourself, why is there grass growing outside? ❤️
  11. Contrary to men, who will always deeply ponder the things that he finds attractive in women. That's why men can't be manipulated as easily.
  12. @RendHeaven Focus on your own sense of status (the status you perceive your self to have) and on releasing your need for attention, validation, love and sex. Chris Hemsworth would probably not show up at your bar and if he did, he probably wouldn't be interested in 99% of the women there.
  13. Have you made any small bets? Like working on someone else's farm or growing food at home?
  14. Coaching is all about transformation. If you can do the transformation yourself you don't need a coach. Sometimes something else might be necessary for that transformation other than coaching. Or coaching can be an additional aspects in your transformation. Coaches tend to cater to people with higher income. Just because those people will pay more for the same coaching as someone who is unemployed for example. So in that regard they could be seen as overpriced.
  15. Imagine a woman who desires this Jeremy because of his looks. They meet for a date and all he does is trying to get her to like him, he is super nervous and fake laughs to everything she says. He doesn't hold eye contact, instead he looks down most of the time. His voice is like Mickey Mouse but very quiet and he talks very fast. He doesn't display any passion, ambition or interest in life. Whenever he opens his mouth either a lame ass joke comes out or he is too much in his head to even say anything. He doesn't listen to her. He acts very surprised that she even likes him. And at the slightest hint from her, he thinks she doesn't like him anymore. He doesn't feel comfortable in his skin, he scratches his arms all the time and looks over his shoulder as if he assumes everyone is out to get him. And most importantly he doesn't lead her. He waits for her to make a move, he waits for her ask him out, he lets her pick a date for them, he waits for her to show him where to sit, etc.
  16. That is what you get, when you have good looks and can fill a stereotype. But if he would display unattractive behaviour/personality any woman would leave him for the next ugly guy who has a attractive personality. It is just, that by his looks you would imagine he also has a attractive personality. Compared to someone who looks like he is coming for the last magic the gathering community event or something.
  17. Yep, that and much much more. It is about overcoming all your fears. ❤️
  18. This is the whole essence of spirituality. Not beating yourself up and accept and cherish reality for what it is. It's practical to practice acceptance because it will lessen your resistance towards the present moment. You become more and more aware of how everything in reality is infinitely perfect and miraculous. Even eating something unhealthy. Also Emotional Mastery is huge for the day to day living stuff and feeling good in general.
  19. Lusting after validation will make you dishonest. Women have a radar against dishonesty, because it is threatening to them. It's wiser to learn not to need validation from women and be authentic and honest.
  20. Your feeling is most likely correct I'd encourage you to go deep into your beliefs and contemplate on them. Go back to your childhood. Any ideas your parents gave you about money which you could have adopted as your own without questioning? Imagine a group of poor people and a group of rich people, which do you feel more drawn towards? Why?
  21. Are you selling your quick response time? If not, just tell them you answer questions only on Thursdays. You might not be able to maintain all of them but it's worth it, because now you are getting what you want.
  22. The only entity with the power to take away your bliss is yourself. If people are trying to convince you that their delusion is best, they are doing so out of love. Because they think it would benefit your situation if you would change your delusion to another delusion. See for example my first sentence. I see your post, and I notice how you are giving power away and not taking responsibility. Which, my delusion tells me, are some of the core principles of being happy and in bliss. And I sense from your post that those are things you want. It's all lovely delusions here.
  23. Matrix comes from latin "mother" or "womb". You do not have to escape it. You go through it. By falling in love with it's infinite intelligence and beauty. ❤️
  24. I've found in my own experience, that whatever I think about life will become my reality. And that by thinking that "living a good life is hard" we are putting imaginary barriers between our current state and a state where life is good. Because sometimes we might catch ourselves being in the zone, being happy and living the good life. But then, our mind comes in and asks "hey, you know this is supposed to be hard? What have you actually done to get here?". And we start "backwards rationalising" to ourselves that we can't be, in fact, happy and living the good life in the moment because we haven't done anything hard recently. ❤️