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I'm 19 man. I've been thinking about either not caring much about my body count and fucking girls whenever I want to or staying pure and having only 1 body count (as I have now) and looking for a 'that' girl that I can have serious relationships with. Unfortunately, we live in a time when it's quite difficult to find 'wife material' (quality) girl. Most of the women, in my humble opinion, are hoes. And also I live in a town where there are not much of quality girls, so there's only one option how I can have fun with them - fucking the shit out of them and then leaving. Basically situationships. But at the same time I'll look for a woman who had 0-2 men in her life. And if I would have 20-30 body count and she would have only 1, in example, that would be a hypocrisy as it seems for me. So I don't know how to solve this conundrum. What would you advice in my situation and what's your point of view on this case?

I appreciate your answers. Probably I'm too conservative for this forum in terms of women intercourse haha. You freakin' leftists!

Hey, while Leo deconstructs rationality, I`m at the stage of development, when I need the opposite. Because I`m quite green without strong orange foundation. So, question in the title as says. Thanks!

But usually women with high body count are really incompatible with long-term healthy relationships. Why not consider them 'low quality'? I'm an extrovert and if we're talking about my social skills, they are quite okay. I can cold approach a girl on the street or start a conversation with someone, no brainer.

But the problem is that I do not know what is best for me. And just 'trying it out' would cost quite a lot of time and effort.

Thank you, folks. After reading your answers it seems that it'd better to stay 'pure', perhaps. And yeah, I'm not religious at all.

Quite a long bump

Hello, everyone. I want to focus on money now and I know about concept of "locking in" or "monk mode". So I want to do it. Maybe for all of my life, because the most fulfillment I get from life is doing my work. How it locking in/monk mode look like? Any tips? Is it possible to work for 10-12 hours a day on a consistent schedule, maybe even for whole life?

Do you know already some examles of that?

Thank you bro. You know, the most fulfillment I get in life is from achieving my goals (usually in work). So why not work always if I'd feel always fulfilled?

When I lead a healthy lifestyle (meditating, eating clean, exercising, keeping good mental health, etc) I get used to this and forget how it is to live with unhealthy lifestyle. Then I fall back into bad habits like scrolling and my rut starts right here. I just forget how it is to live a good life. I look at other people who lead unhealthy lifestyles and sometimes I can think: 'Look, they are fine, nothing happened to them even though they scroll, drink and smoke a lot' and I fall back into rut here too. How to escape this forgetfulness? Appreciate your answers!

Thank you everyone!! What do you mean by that advice I get here is from people who dissociate a lot? What do you mean? Elaborate please

I asked similar question to this before, but I don`t have an answer. Please help. Now I`m searching for opportunities to make money. Sales, marketing are main domains I`d like to focus on because in future I will create some kind of business and these skills would be helpful. Also they make great money. But the main problem is the more I dive deeper into these domains the more I see how much you need to lie, cheat, con and manipulate. I`d better mop floors than do that. I tried it once and got burnt out very fast by working shitty sales job where you need to almost scam people. Question is - is it overall problem of these two domains or I`m just dumb and don`t see opportunities?

I`m talking about at my job. Where I`m dependent on my paycheck.

For me, I wouldn`t agree that it is a meaningful job. I would consider job of driving a truck for the rest of my life as a waste of my life, even while listening to Leo`s vids. On the other note, I find listening or watching something and doing other thing at the same time such as simple as even walking (multitasking) that it really decreases how much information I really understand. The biggest mistake I made with watching Leo is watching his videos at 1.5x or 2x speed. I just got brainwashed with his God and spiritual stuff without thinking critically about it myself. I thought I`m smart and I watch his videos two times faster, hence learn more faster. No, I was just dumb.

Any examples?

Why did you leave it? And what is your current job/occupation?

@Natasha Tori Maru Thanks a lot! Very useful advice. Yes! That`s 100% accurate. Now I think that`s close to impossible, right? Thanks! Yes, following Leo`s teaching I got better at seeing manipulations and tricks people, especially in social media, try to play on me and others. Also I work currently in sales so I got into the party with 'devils' and it helped immensely. I like that kind of marketing Thanks

Hahahaha Could you elaborate why please? What is that? Yes, embrace/accept but not let shadow rule our life Yes I always wear them

Thanks! Yeah, here one guy recommended him to me. I`ll check him out again

In Leo`s episode about 250 traps he stated that to really gain good benefits from meditation you need to do it hardcore. Like retreats, not focus your breath for 20 minutes bullshit. I`ve been meditating for around 3 years now. Would it be better to switch to something else, like contemplation? Or meditation gives good benefits and I misunderstood Leo?

Thanks!

I`m very curious, what do you do guys for a living? Specifically, what is your life purpose? If you don`t have one, what`s your job? Starting with me: for now, I don`t have neither.

From information that I heard you either dive in fully into kriya yoga, learn it deeply or not learn it at all because it can do more harm to you than good if you didn`t study kriya yoga properly

Yeah, I experienced big gains, but I feel like I`m missing out on something