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"If you have a problem, that means it can be solved. If it cannot be solved, then it is not a problem. It is a reality to be accepted"

If you aren't weird, you probably aren't acting authentic enough. There's a real desire to act goofy and irrational within us, and many people suppress that in their shadow. If you are actually authentic, approval and conformity wouldn't be as important as expression. being weird is just part of expressing oneself.

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a simpler way: pattern recognition that leads to synthesis. how? by living a polymath's lifestyle.

This post would be cringe if no one posts on this megathread

this is some conformity type shit fr fr, you low key got it on point my g.

What would happen if we give truth seekers and philosophers 100× the normal amount of drive for achievement and creation?

Synthesis. Once you create in so many ways, and are interested in so many things, that shapes you and how you see and approach creativity. you start to see patterns, you develop analogical thinking and a unique taste. Originality and style in my opinion are a bit advanced because they require a bit of holism and authenticity. the people that are naturally talented that can be original and authentic easily are a unique case.

I might have found a way Leo, just keep an open mind lol: https://www.instagram.com/reel/Dbj6mf-Rscq/?igsh=bW13emh0eXRtcjU1

people that think that can't be bothered watching a video that long lol

Lol, as a Moroccan, this would never happen in a million years. shit doesn't happen like that here.

That's why i actually said that, because many spiritual truth seekers transcend Orange stage consciousness and don't care much about material stuff.

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The title has a general intellectual sophisticated esthetic, might not even be that people care about depth.

My guess: It has more comments, more shares and most importantly more saves, more than average. why? probably because it's a broad and fundamental topic that anyone with small or big interest in intellectual stuff would be curious about. it is also a huge claim that needs contemplation, which might explain 800+ saves. and because of the captions having clear niche keywords (epistemology and ontology) that help the algorithm know which audience to show it to.

Persuasion at the big picture, is just due to passion for truth.

The most important distinction when it comes to trauma is this. Trauma and Complex trauma. "childhood trauma" is too broad of a term. I'm too lazy to explain, so i asked Claude instead, here's the response: "Trauma (sometimes called single-incident or "big-T" trauma) usually stems from one discrete event — an accident, assault, natural disaster, sudden loss. It has a clear before-and-after. The nervous system encodes a specific threat memory, and treatment often focuses on processing that one event (e.g., EMDR, prolonged exposure). Complex trauma (C-PTSD) comes from prolonged, repeated exposure to harm — usually in childhood, and usually within relationships the person depended on for survival (a caregiver, a family system). Think chronic neglect, ongoing abuse, emotional invalidation, or growing up in an unpredictable or unsafe home. Because it happens developmentally, it doesn't just create a fear response to a specific memory — it shapes: Identity and self-concept — often a core sense of being "bad," unlovable, or defective (toxic shame) Emotional regulation — a nervous system wired for chronic hypervigilance or shutdown, since there was no safe caregiver to help down-regulate distress Relationships — attachment strategies (anxious, avoidant, disorganized) built around managing an unsafe or inconsistent bond Sense of danger and trust — the world itself, not just one event, feels unsafe So where PTSD is often "something happened to me," C-PTSD is closer to "this is who I had to become to survive." Treatment for complex trauma usually needs to go beyond memory processing to address self-worth, emotional regulation skills, and relational patterns — which is part of why it takes longer and often needs a phased approach (safety/stabilization first, then processing, then integration). 6 Complex trauma examples: Chronic emotional neglect — a caregiver who was physically present but consistently unavailable, dismissive, or unresponsive to the child's emotional needs (no abuse required — just absence of attunement). Domestic violence exposure — growing up witnessing ongoing conflict, intimidation, or violence between caregivers, even if not directly targeted. Childhood emotional abuse — repeated criticism, humiliation, conditional love, or being made to feel like a burden or a disappointment. Enmeshment / role reversal (parentification) — a child forced to manage a parent's emotions, become their confidant, or take on adult responsibilities (caretaking siblings, functioning as a parent's therapist). Living with a caregiver's untreated mental illness or addiction — unpredictability, instability, or having to "walk on eggshells" for years because a parent's mood or presence couldn't be relied on. Chronic school bullying — sustained peer harassment, exclusion, or humiliation over months or years, especially when adults didn't intervene effectively."

There is a regular amount of fear of being seen, and there is an extreme case that's caused by toxic shame, which was my case. and apparently, it is an advantage. it works like a rubber elastic, the more you are pulled towards the extreme end of the spectrum (fear) the most likely that you'll end up on the other extreme (courage and audacity) if you worked on it. i experienced this personally and observed it on so many individuals. or like a strange loop, white becomes so white it turns black. fear becomes so intense it becomes audacity.

His book, the pdf version is free: https://thedankoe.com/purpose One of his articles where he explains his philosophy: https://thedankoe.com/letters/making-money-is-spiritual-if-you-learn-these-unethical-skills/

If you read one of his articles on business philosophy or his book "purpose and profit" you would understand his approach.

This is the best creator i found that talks about attachment, complex trauma, relationships and specifically fearful avoidance and toxic shame/CPTSD. https://www.youtube.com/@heidipriebe1

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@Natasha Tori Maru all this time i thought you were 26 or something, what?

seems like next time i wanna make a post, i gotta write a whole argumentative persuasive long article about it, because the casual way is vulnerable for misinterpretation and it's loose and not precise.

How's Dan Koe not mentioned yet? He's basically Leo if he decided to do content about business, branding and entrepreneurial lifestyle and philosophy.