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@Olaf just go for it. you got an almost perfect recipe for a fulfilling business. i recommend to take action on it asap, that inspiration and motivation may fade over time.

https://www.actualized.org/insights/things-ive-been-wrong-about I found this blog post from 2017 where Leo lists the things he was wrong about before that, and one of them was: "I was wrong about the metaphysics of the law of attraction. I no longer believe the law of attraction merely works through brute mechanical means." He made a video in 2014 talking about law of attraction being just about shifting focus and attention, changing your thoughts and reprogramming your subconscious. which are practical psychological stuff. which is probably what he was wrong about. Do you think law of attraction works in ways more than just psychological and mechanical? for example: Your thoughts/emotional state literally interact with reality in some way and cause corresponding external events to come toward you. @Leo Gura I would really appreciate your take on this.

Pattern recognition without a propre epistemic foundation, leads to false interpretation of the observed patterns, which happens unconsciously, which then results in all sorts of stuff like spiritual woo and "vibration" bs, personalized and self centered universe, most conspiracy theories, meaning inflation from randomness like numerology, "Everything happens for a reason" and "signs from the universe" thinking, Synchronicity.... Basically when you see a smart person engaging in those things, and you feel surprised, it's probably because of how they interpret some patterns, and they mistake that for intuition.

also, you gotta find ways to get small frequent positive feedback that what you're doing is working. it acts like a getaway drug. it reinforced your behaviour which then updates your self image. get small wins frequently. even if you gotta take micro steps towards your goals so that winning becomes easy. good feedback architecture is how you'll "lock in" without needing too much willpower, be consistent and avoid burnout.

the movie is stacked with characters, but I'm watching ot only for Deadpool. idgf about the rest, it'll probably be some sword and hand fights even if they have powers. and some dramatic shit and character intimacy.

I don't get why most people don't go to the gym. It's the easiest thing in the world, yet the most rewarding. All you have to do is train more than 3 time a week, specific diet isn't even necessary. No mental struggle, no stress, no failure pr hard complicated stuff, nothing. After 3 years, you get a sick looking body, and a healthier one. you don't even have to wait 3 years, the benefits are almost instant, you get more energy, your skin gets better, your sleep gets better, you confidence gets better, you generally feel better...and I'm not even scratching the surface. Get yo ass to the gym

Also, when locking in, i suggest you read the book "the war of art", it talks about resistance, here's an overview of what it talks about: Resistance targets anything important. The more meaningful a goal is to your growth, the more resistance you'll feel trying to pursue it. It's strongest right before you act. Resistance peaks at the moment just before you sit down to work and eases the second you actually begin. It uses fear, not logic. It doesn't argue with you rationally; it works through anxiety, self-doubt, and procrastination. It's impersonal. It's not a judgment on you specifically everyone doing meaningful work faces it, so don't take it personally or as evidence you're not cut out for the work. It recruits disguises. It shows up as distraction, busywork, self-sabotage, relationship drama, sudden "urgent" tasks, perfectionism, or even illness anything that keeps you from the real work. It never goes away. You don't defeat resistance permanently; you just show up and outwork it, day after day. The cure is showing up as a professional, not an amateur. Pressfield's answer is treating your work like a job: consistent hours, discipline, no waiting for inspiration or the "right mood." Resistance is proportional to the stakes. The more resistance you feel toward a particular action, the more likely that action matters for your growth so intensity of resistance is a signal. Showing up as a professional means: You show up every day. Regardless of mood, inspiration, or how you feel professionals work on a schedule, not on impulse. You show up no matter what. Sick, tired, uninspired you still put in the time. You stay on the job all day. Full commitment during work hours, not just token effort. You commit for the long haul. Professionals think in terms of years and careers, not single projects or bursts of motivation. The stakes are high and real for you. You treat the work as if your livelihood depends on it, because in some sense it does. You are not seduced by applause. You don't work for praise, and you don't collapse under criticism either you stay steady through both. You endure adversity. Setbacks, rejection, and failure don't knock you off course they're expected, not exceptional. You self-validate. You don't wait for permission, recognition, or external validation to know your work has value. You persist through fear. Professionals feel the same fear and doubt as anyone else they just don't let it stop them. You act in the face of fear. Courage isn't the absence of fear; it's moving forward despite it. You accept no excuses. No blaming circumstances, other people, or bad luck for not doing the work. You play it as it lays. You work with the conditions you actually have, not the ones you wish you had. You master the technique of your craft. Professionals put in the time to actually get skilled, not just inspired. You do not identify with your archetype. You don't over-romanticize being "an artist" you just do the work, without ego wrapped around the identity. You keep it simple, keep it real. You strip away drama and mystique and focus on the plain discipline of doing the work.

damn, you want an immortality pill or something lol.

I never tried one, i learned everything on YouTube. but I've always been athletic since i opened my eyes so it wasn't difficult for me at all.

yeah that's the mindset. that's an insane physique to have at 40, i respect the dedication. hope nothing stops you from training.

Respect, that's insane consistency. almost my age lol

I'm just setting the bar very low, to show how easy it is.

That's a tough thing to go through, hope it gets better.

yeah. or stretch and do light recovery stuff.

That's a real pattern. I've been there myself

a secure person doesn't "need" to be in a relationship, especially if it has only been a week. also, be careful she might be in rebound territory, ask her how recently has she had a break up. anyway you're handling it in a mature way. good luck with your dating

I'm curious about your takes in this forum, that would be helpful a lot. Do you think INTPs lean more towards loose structure over rigid schedule, and they value solitude, curiosity, deep work over the more discipline like productivity? do you notice some distinctions about INTP productivity?...

These are huge signs of the anxious - avoidant attachment style dynamic. Her neediness (telling you please not leave her) and her constantly showing to you she wants something romantic might be her being clingy. your indecisiveness might be the fear of commitment that people with avoidant attachment have. also you listening to her early and letting ger open up and feel safe is classic pattern avoidants have. all these signs - on their own - are normal relationships stuff, but all of them combined in this case, especially since you said you're just getting to know her suggests that it might be this dynamic. you might wanna consider the fact that maybe it's attachment not love. I'm talking from experience btw, I'm not a psychologist.

Or course sellers on social media as well, especially ones that sell their own systems that they work with personally.

being in your head a lot without creativity is a recipe for staying in basements lol

God damn, i did not think this thread would be this insightful. I contemplated on it a bit and those 2 are accurate ideas about INTPs, especially with the modeling and originality part.

Being a content creator or create content in general either for you or for someone else is great way to monetize that in my experience.