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In theory, but how do you describe that? Seems doubtful anybody could communicate such a thing.

How you feel could be clear signs that you are not the social type and may have find peace, joy, and personal understanding in solitude.

Start with empathy towards yourself. If you do not wish to bring poison into your body & mind do not violate those values. This is the basis of self respect. Empathy begins with oneself & upon full expression so too does it end there. That does not mean you must stop caring for the people you love. But become aware that certain situaltion become toxic and destructive without your least recognition until the damage has already insinuated.

Please use your words with more care and tact around these parts.

No need to suppress anything. Allowance of emotion is how it passes through us. I think for some individuals, a healthy outlet is hard to find. In which case I feel it necessary to minimize anger. Not via suppression, but via conscious awareness of what may cause it to appear, and how to avoid these situations. If a situation is inevitable and unavoidable, utilizing the most healthy, conscious outlet possible can minimize the ravages that could come as a result of these types of emotions. There is also an aspect of increasing ones own internal tolerance for anger, which requires definite awareness and internal groundedness. Through awareness of our own internal mechanisms we can subtlety 'control' how we react, and in doing so begin to raise our emotion bandwidth.

@JoshB Just keep working toward accurate understanding, perspective, and Actual Truth. This has nothing to do with your minds imagery, thoughts, or beliefs. Actual Truth. This right here. Reality as it actually sits. Do not get lost in fantasy or delusion. Now move this conversation to another thread please

Organization is an important thing with these. I also agree a highlight or check mark ✔️ Of some sort, is a crucial feature.

My intuition is that categories, sooner rather than later, will not only help to keep everything organized, but also save you a huge pain in the ass later. I understand that categories are hard to create and maintain, especially with clips that may have overlaps, I just forsee a huge chaotic mess later on if they are not dealt with to some degree now. Even just rough categories will do to start. Worry about the fine distinctions later, if ever.

The real deal come of within

@Basman Don't assume sex/gender based upon no clues at all.

Nice one @Joseph Maynor What exactly is this argument meant prove?

So you imply you are no longer being abused? That means any suffering you feel in regard to this is of your own creation. You have now become your own abuser.

The blindspots of our own are the hardest to spot.

@JoshB If you can see that than you have seen passed victimhood to at least a certain degree. You probably need more practice in the art. If victimhood continues to arise in pervasive amounts, than it is probably a clear sign that your active circumstances must be changed.

@Joseph Maynor What is your best argument for anger being sourced outside of egoself?

Excellent question. You seem well on your way.

@JoshB Take a read carefully of what everybody is saying here. You seem to be misinterpreting everything to suit your own worldview. Seriously sit down, read, and fully understand what exactly is being said.

Im saying you ARE the source of the reaction & the emotion.

Thats not the suggestion. I personally suggest harnessing egoself to break free of abuse. Do not tolerate that shit. Just realize it is not the dropped ice cream cone that induced your anger. It is your reaction to it. The anger is aroused of self. That is perfect and beautiful. Utilize that survival mechanism. It is placed there for a reason. Do not tolerate abuse.

This is an insight of self transcendence. It is not that you as egoself becomes an all supreme being & can do however you please. Is it in recognition that egoself is falsehood that consciousness expands to include all authority imposed upon your limited self. You merge with God, but not in the sense you may initially imagine this.

It doesnt seem relevant until its time to wake up. And then youll wish you took the time to understand dream mechanics

There you go now you're onto something.

Nobody is saying you must be selfless in the face of cruelty. That's counter productive. We are simply attempting to provide you the pointers to see within yourself the very source of your own upset. It is none other than?

Don't assume what I or anybody else here has been through. You are operating from self right here as we speak. That is the source of your anger. Your anger is not a magical spell placed by anybody else. It is a spell of your own mind/body ego unit. Regardless of circumstances. A child drops his ice cream cone, he gets angry. Is the anger placed within him magically by the ice cream cone itself? Or does it arise of himself? Of his own internal workings?

Yeah if that arouses anger that is out of ego reaction. Anger arises of the self. If you were completely selfless you would not need to defend yourself from abuse. The reaction of anger would not need to arise. Anger is an internal mechanism that forces reaction.