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I would say it has more to do with certain types of people in general, not just women. The more someone’s image (or identity) is built around being , "highly conscious", more developed, unusually compassionate, wise etc the less I take that image as evidence of those qualities. Character is revealed much more reliably by how someone behaves when their values become inconvenient, especially toward people they dislike, disagree with, or have nothing to gain from. Authenticity is something that cannot be faked.

@LordFall She did the same thing with me. Just ignored my main point, pretended like she didn't notice it. She made me repeat it and for the 3rd time she just said "declined" and did not go any further. I thought it was just with me, but looks like it's a pattern.

Of course! @LordFall is a rare gem btw, his advice could not be more true. Notice how he totally ignored the @yetineti troll and recognized that he added no value. You can't win with discussions with trolls, they force you to step down to their level and thus bring you down with them. Ignoring users like that is the best approach, it is not possible to have genuine discussions with them.

I don't need to read the private messages to understand what that user is doing in this thread. Reading the last 20 pages of this thread alone is enough to make this conclusion.

I thought the issue was resolved by now, yet I come back 12 hours later and there are 20 more pages. I decided to go through all the pages and this is what I found: The same user @yetinetihas made roughly 70% of the all the posts in this thread, with seemingly endless trolling and attacks. He literally gave himself out earlier by calling @Inliytened1 old man twice, among other things. When he was called out, he toned it down and continued with more sophisitcated trolling. For the last 20 pages, this appears to be the only person who has had a problem with the thread. No one else. It is sad that @Natasha Tori Maru has not been able to spot this. @Leo Gura Please review @yetineti 's post history in this thread.

I come back here 14 hours later and it’s still going, with even more white knights piling on. As has already been said, people who accuse others of being judgmental are often some of the most judgmental people themselves. That’s the irony of it all. You got a user yetineti straight out calling @Inliytened1 old man, while demanding apology and accountability from him, are you kidding me? Only one woman has actually come forward saying she was offended, and she also happens to be a mod. For some reason retraction and apology is not enough for Natasha. I think @LordFall nailed it when he said this thread has triggered a lot of shadows. I don't think I have seen this much projection in a while. As I said, the title of this thread makes it obvious what it is about and what type of content it will contain. You don't have to read it and get your feelings hurt, if the language that it uses is not acceptable for you. Simply don't read it, you don't need to torture yourself. Hopefully the thread can get back on track and people can answer the question: Where have you fucked the girl?

1) & 2) You are now again being dishonest and changed the meaning of what I said. I never said that people can't criticize. All I said was that for people who find it offensive can choose not to read it and then they will not be offended. Same thing as choosing to not watch a video that may be offensive to some viewers. 3) You are the one that uses the terms "right", "wrong" , "low quality" , "lower consciousness" , etc. I have never once used any of these terms, or anything similar. And yes, saying that I accused you of being immoral is a lie in this case. 4) Before throwing around terms, you should at least know what they actually mean. You clearly don’t understand what constitutes a personal attack. None of those are personal attacks. This is my last reply to you.

I will not accept anymore lies or BS from you. 1) You either don't know what "policing" or "accusing" means, or you are just making being totally dishonest. 2) All I said was that a person has a choice. If you don't like the language used in the thread, nobody is forcing them to read it. 3) I have never accused you of being immoral, all I said was that you were petty. 4) I have not made a single personal attack against you. Show me one example.

I have presented my argument TWICE, and I repeated it for you already, yet you conveniently ignored it. Here it is for the 3rd time:

Who appointed you the arbiter of truth and morality, and put you in charge of policing this thread?

Their psychology is mind boggling to me. They are struggling with getting laid, yet here you are with such vast experience in exactly that. Instead of learning from you, asking you questions, and trying to understand what works, they choose to engage in this petty bullshit instead.

First of all, he already retracted and apologized for anyone he already offended for those two terms. The fact that you continue to bring it up after he has apologized says a lot more about you as a person than it does about him. Second of all, those terms were used for past experiences, and he didn't insult anyone in particular on this forum or someone he is engaging with now. Who appointed you to be arbiter of morality and truth? If you put as much time and energy into your dating life as you do getting offended over pity things, you’d probably have a lot more success.

Who made you the voice of truth? Who are you to say what is right, wrong and "higher values" are? You must be a masochist for continuing to engage in such "low consciousness" thread and torturing yourself.

Majority on this forum are men. Certainly threads like this carry a lot of value for men. And as I said, nobody is forcing women or anyone else to read this thread. Why are they torturing themselves, I have no idea... If you notice also, a lot of those men that choose to get offended usually don't get laid at all and have serious troubles. Hence why they don't have the answer to the actual question that was asked in this thread. Go figure

Over 2k views in 24 hours! This shows that this thread was really needed. I really appreciate the fun and not serious vibes from @Inliytened1