Anlib

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  1. @kurt on the map? When leo talks about them in his video he never mention that orange is high at all Clearer. But you mean that the external stuff in unneccesary then? Haha
  2. @kurt on the map? When leo talks about them in his video he never mention that orange is high at all
  3. No orange is not close to highest in the spiral dynamics model @kurt
  4. @Leo Gura do you mean that the lower level of conciousness you have when u take this drug, the more pain u will recieve? I mean u say to you audience that they should concider taking this drug, but I don't think that many people are more developed that Tai. I mean, I think most of you audience are lower consiousness than average. What type of person are searching on yt to get their problems solved by a video? Dont get me wrong, most of your videos are fucking awsome:) but i often feel like you often say thing's in you videos to make me/us feel like we have more consionusness than most of us have. This is aviously for marketing reasons so people subscribe to your channel, but if you're saying that thai would have a nervuos breakdown because of his "deluded belives" who would'nt? Would I have a nervous breakdown because I suddenly realize that im not a human?
  5. Hi, i'm a 20 year old guy from Sweden. My life in the past years has been a mess. I recently graduaded "high school" or "gymnasiet" which it's called in Sweden, different system, but whatever. I graduaded with very bad grades, due lack of motivation and ADD, wich kind of goes hand in hand, especially when we are talking school. since my early days it was harder for me to get good grades, I studied like hell, sometimes, but still got an E or a D. I got my diagnos when I was 18 and finally got some understanding of myself and why things has been harder for me. To the point, I have no idea what I should do with my life. should I raise my grades? should I work in a 9-17 job till I know what I wanna do? When I watch Leo's videos I often get the feeling on how fucking of track I must be in life and how underdeveloped I am. I've starded a daily meditation habit, but I always feel like i meditate wrong, btw I do the strong determination sitting. It would be awsome with some sort of guidance especially by @Leo Gura , and yes I know your purpose course exist Thanks
  6. @Leo Gura hi leo, what do you mean by years of therapy? Can't it just take one year? Or why would it take so long? Ive had a couple of ruogh years myself and kind of dysfunctional childhood, not as bad as her tho. But how can it take so long?
  7. Hey, is this really true? How can it be that it does'nt matter at all?
  8. If you first become enlightend, your desres might changes
  9. Why do you need self help so much? Why can't you just be yourself instead and tale the actions needed to create a powerful life. Sometimes I feel like selfhelp concepts get's dogmatic and ungenuine that I loose """"""myself"""""""""" and just become a boring overthinking person. Now someone in the comment section will say: why do you label "boring" as bad? It just creates suffering. Well, fuck you. I am not writing this to make someone angry, but more making people realizing that watching videos and theorizing about self help might just limit you. It's like you would say to the over-neuritic pickup guy that's been shy his whole life. Why do you need to make such a overdrive? Just go out more often and have fun and build a solid self-esteem. I hope you understand what I mean. If I would stop self-help I would still meditate for like 30-60 min every day. I don't really have any questions, just had to share my thoughts, since I kind of like self-help?
  10. Look at Leo's recent video. The solutionis not to make yourself more beautiful, it is to look deep in to yourself and past to see what emotionall trigger is there in the first place, that makes you obsess about it. My guess is that it comes from a relational trauma wich can be very subtle. Look at what your parent's values are. Do they think it's important, if so, try to distance yourself psycologically from your parents and try to see them from a diffrent angle.
  11. @The Alchemist Yeah, it's fucking awsome actually. But I just got that realization, like, why do I need to think so much about this. But yeah, some of Leo's ideas have truly helped me.
  12. For me, ir's more rhat I experience the music a bit better, but that after like, 1 hour.
  13. Hi, when I am meditating, I first try to let go of controll, but then I am controlling to let go, what do I do?
  14. Hey, Do you guy's have any idea on how to get rid of an abusive atatchment, in this case, it is my sister. I never meet her often but it's like her ideas on how to think about life can't get out of my head. She's a very compitent being, she is very social, studying in the top college in my contry, she looks pretty good, etc. When we meet nowadays she is super nice and always try to help me. But ALL the other years in out childhood she has been pretty abusive in subtle ways. The last time I met her I told her about much of the actualized.org content, and ofc she disagreed with everything he said, and yes she has her right to her own opinion. My problem is: how do I detatch from her ideas and build up a propper self that don't need her validation. It all just becomes a big obsessive loop. I hate her, lol.
  15. @Neo no, I mean normal enlightenment, that the illosion of the self comes back after like, five years of consistent enlightenment.
  16. Ok, I allow myself to feel. But do you have any mindset that help? Haha :);) @Ayla
  17. Do you have any more practical tips? Seem like you have alot of knowledge in this field. The thing is when im attatching to her every thought I have I question because when I whas a child she was a neglecting bitch against me and told me everything that was bad about me for years and I was always scared of being myself wich also has to do with my anger filled father that gave me money and things but not love, and then I became "the clown" of the abusive family to give them emotional validation while mine was'nt met. No one in my family has narc.personality disorder but every character contributes in the way of the narcisistic abusive elements. I feel so inauthentic and angry when I relate to them. It's like I love them but they are the worst people ever to relate to according to my psycological health. @Ayla