Martin123

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  1. @Bronsoval Whenever there is an emotional trigger, observe it, follow the emotion. Think about what annoys you and question the shit out of it. Think about what you desire and question the shit out of it. Think about your childhood - what was dysfunctional there? Remember any times you felt uncomfortable?
  2. Is it just me? Or has anyone noticed that Leo is following the same path as NARUTO UZUMAKI! He shall train his sage mode, perfect his sage art, and BECOME HOKAGE!
  3. @JoseM Tai looks super fake and autistic. I don't know why but he comes off as very inauthentic in all of his videos. If people say he's charismatic im like "u joking? This guy cant even hold an eye contact."
  4. @Leo Gura After doing lots of consciousness work and research, would you consider yourself to be a more quality life-coach? (even though you don't do sessions anymore), and if so, what would be of greater effect - expanded awareness or more knowledge?
  5. @Motus OH CMOOON GIVE US SOME SUgAR No like srsly, the more "out there" your stuff is, the better for this forum.
  6. @Stoica Doru Oh btw my dude I just remembered one more thing. Find a nice therapist. Ideally a trans-personal one who is famliar with the concept of the awakening, but don´t dwell on that point. A decent therapist, if he or she is familiarized with your situation should be quite helpful, it helps to talk it all through, as well as having someone mirroring to you.
  7. @Stoica Doru Well... I moved to a different country to study, but that doesn't necessarily correlate. Be careful. DO NOT DISCIPLINE YOURSELF HARSHLY! You're changing your whole inner game here. Surface level changes are of little value. Live rather from day to day during this period, and do what you "feel like doing" Feel loke excercising? Go Feel like eating a bucket of ice-cream? Go Feel like staying in bed and binge-watching Tv? Go ... u get the point. edit: Dont let guilt motivate you. Dig deeper, let go of it, guilt is a ver unnecessary and dysfunctional form of self-punishement
  8. @Stoica Doru I went theough this several months ago. Just know it is going to end, and after it ends your whole perception of reality will be renewed. I tried many techniques to help myself to pull through. Self-love is crucial. Allow yourself to feel and to do anything that occurs. Also Leo's self-love visualization helped a lot. Osho's simple mantra "I am." (You are the "am" and not the "I") And remember. This is one of the best things that's ever happened to you. It's a period of enormous growth! good luck
  9. @Leo Gura I have no idea if its real, but hey I have no idea if my parents are actually ma parents and they werent just lying to me since the beginning. I know nothing. Which allows me to introduce manz interesting topics and think about them deeply. I liked the law of one, enjoyed it, thank you.
  10. @Debbie B Tears of joy for the nature of reality doing SDS meditation. FLOW... kinda permanent thing I got there BARKING SNIFFING ... although those aren't too powerful now are they. I'm pretty sure I will be getting some real soon.
  11. @Leo Gura Isn't desire there to drive us towards the realization of impermanence of things?
  12. @brovakhiin I do agree with that. But he still has a real big ego. Not in a materialistic sense, but he's very much wraped in his intelligence and concepts. But that's not an issue here. He's making great things. Limited, but great nevertheless.
  13. @Tancrede Pouyat When you experience inconditional love for existence, "primal activities" will be put into context. But don't worry about it. It is part of the journey. Just remember to keep an open mind.
  14. Yo I realized that I'm a peoplepleaser. Or that I was. The emotions I was running away from are being let go of, nearly finished with that. Interesting is though I have lost motivation to have social interactions, since it was based on the principle "get validaiton, be liked >>>reward". Now as I let go of the need to be liked, my whole motivational system needs to get rewired. Anyone any experience with that, that I could learn from? peace.
  15. You completely dismiss the compassion factor in this. Something for you to look into man.
  16. @ajasatya I suspect it is because those are the things I lacked in the past, so I am naturally motivated towards experiencing them. Only with one exception. The "being a positive force" has been always a no-brainer for me. I never even thought about working for myself as in getting money and good life for "myself" without having a positive impact. Now the question remains, is this a left-over people-pleasing instinct? Or is it an authentic value to build on. But I worry not, it shall be answered when the time is right :-). Thank you, you made me get my thoughts a little bit more straight.
  17. @ajasatya In other words, I am not in a rush to get this. I will just wait for life to unfold itself in a natural way. When there will be action needed to take, I will be strongly motivated towards it just out of my own "gut feeling" and "desire to continue the flow".
  18. @ajasatya Peace of mind, emotional stability, being a positive force, and conscious loving home. But even then, I will not say "now I am ready to die". In a way, the illusion of death should be acceptable at any given moment.
  19. @ajasatya Im not in control of that.
  20. This has been like the biggest red-flag I've seen in people who made the "click". I like that point a lot actually. It is a great tool for self-deception.
  21. @AxelK What do you mean by that? The bread is perfectly fine. The click should help you out greatly if you're stuck in a rut. @Emerald Wilkins Would you share on what basis you're gonna build your argument on? Im super curious how "spiritual enlightenment people" will argue. Because he doesn't operate on that level. He operates on concepts, not direct experiences of reality. (The only thing I'd tell him is that his click is helpful, but you can go deeper with consciousness... much deeper than that, only it requires more effort).
  22. @Schulzy Sorry but that's not how arguments work. I can debate my therapist into thinking she's wrong about me only to realize she was right later.
  23. @Schulzy @AxelK There's no doubt about Athene's insaaaane ego. But that doesn't take away any value. Take it or leave it. if you are homeless and get bread from a man who gives it to you just to validate his ego, will you not take it?
  24. @Bebop yeah one of my "aha" realizations was "why the fuck do I hang around theae people they give me nothing"