felixk_priv

This . Is literally . A dream come true for me . I didn't even think this was going to happen and I wasn't even aiming for it and it suddenly came . I was experiencing a level of shock for hours . I experienced the internal change and all of the emotions of the change internally and I sort of knew it happened before I even had any external evidence . That's when you know ..

The way I found to become higher integrity was to sit down and tell myself the truth . It goes like this , tell yourself the truth , tell yourself the truth .. and so on . Now , because it's been so great to be higher integrity , it's what I keep doing. Now it seems like I am doing what Leo said , which was to tell yourself the truth of every moment of every day .. or something like that . So let's goooo Has anyone else implemented this ? And how is it going for you ?

@Rafael Thundercat thank you

So , back in the game . Unfortunately broke up with my girlfriend but it was best . I really want to know from everyone's experiences , how to simply approach 10 women in a set . Is there something to learn here to do this ? Can that be done consistently ? What is required ? Also if you do it by yourself is it super hard ( solo game ) ? And .. let's say I have a friend with me , that makes it easier ? Does it I don't know . How have people done it here and is it consistent for them ? Cheers Luvers

@felixk_priv but doing it when it is natural , no need to force it . Then you are assertive naturally

I think letting go helps on being assertive

Wow , this telling myself the truth habit . I don't know if there has been anything special about it , but there has seemed to be a change . Hmm maybe it's the integrity right maybe it's the integrity or , actually it seems like my contmepaltiom is more powerful . Right it seems like my contemplation is more powerful hmmm . Maybe more to the point . I swear to fucking god , I am constantly getting insight and seeing things maybe huh . Something is different , what is it right . Right something is different . More so to do with my experience , why the hell is it more effective oh shit . Oh shit oh shit oh shit another fucking insight

I just wanted to share a potential powerful truth habit for the newbies out here ( me ) .. That I think will be super powerful for me. It might have transformed me if I had done this sooner and everyday . We have feelings about what is true . I wasn't living by them . This system I think is helpful because you are becoming so conscious of these truths over repetition and processing that you will naturally start to live by these truths . spend ten minutes a day telling yourself the truth

Why would I not scratch every idea I have about something when contemplating a subject . The truth stands clear . The truth stands clear , ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh . Clearer then if ... Then if ... Then if I were to not scratch every idea right or ? Maybe I'm tripping

Just noticed there is a big difference when one does this . It's like everything is so much clearer when you start . Remember that place where Jack sparrow is in the third film where he has ' died ' with all the other Jack sparrows , it's basically a Minecraft flat world but in ' real life ' , and everything is white and in the distance it's all white . That is how fucking clear it feels , like a breath of the freshest air ever by the ocean . O-m-g

For me no unfortunately :(((

Reality is infinite . Is this in sight for you ?

With all of this talk of the good life , is anyone here living the experience of a wonderful life ? Despite all this talk of the good life , I haven't noticed Leo expressing how incredible / wonderful his life has been . Its almost like there is a missing expression of how amazing it is , when I think about the amount he has talked about the good life . But this isn't just about Leo , so I invite anyone to express how wonderful their life has been in thanks to their process . ( Starting with me ) With all of the actions I take , I feel pretty good . Maybe my life hasn't been absolutely amazing but there is more time to come and my integrity is awaiting a nice little upgrade . Which is on my doorstep . So yes I have seen results and that is amazing . ( To the forum ) What are your experiences of life being incredible , having created that , and the wonderfulness going deeper and deeper and deeper .... And deeper ... Or is this actually just a thing that doesn't happen ?

@Olaf thank youu man for writing this . I love approaching I can't lie .

Haha thank you guys . It was funny reading the advice here after having already discovered the same thing to do through me

So there are lots of points of question , that I have in this relationship . I am unclear on a lot . I am not sure if I would choose her as a partner . I am not sure if we fit so well . I think we wouldn't really be friends and there is more . I am unclear if these things are important and relevant , they of course sound so . What also seems to be happening is that , when I contemplate these things since they are important to the existence of the relationship itself , I lose feelings I have for her , rather than if I left these things alone I am sure we would just be a normal relationship . But we haven't been normal , because now to both of us it seems like I am constantly getting clear on whether to end the relationship , which in a way it sort of is like that . But emotionally she is not a okay with that , and also this questioning I feel will be ongoing as questions in life come . So 1. I think I fucked up the framing to her as in framing it as breaking up rather than learning and discovering new things potentially perhaps . And 2. This questioning seems to take me emotionally out of the relationship when I am unclear on these things and questioning the serious truth of them . So a-n-y points , help , experience , traps , or thoughts pointed and given are greatly appreciated . Thank you actualized gang

@Leo Gura misunderstanding , I simply meant do 10 approaches .

Back in the game , in the game game game

Btw in other words this is a way I found for myself to have higher integrity , telling myself the truth means when I do , I end up going along and taking action with it . If anyone has low integrity reading this , then I think it could be a pretty good idea to try the method I wrote above .

Tell yourself the truth

@LordFall congratulations man , what is your life purpose ?

@enchanted exactly , ignoring my feelings

@Yimpa that is a good question , what is truth ? What is it ? In this context I meant what one feels it's true . So when you hit the paper and ' write down what is true ' it might be your Intuitive feelings . These ' truths ' might of course not be true haha . But the point of this : is yes to become aware of new things you really feel are true and to put them in your awareness so consistently that you make decisions off of them , but also you may be like me and have been fully able to have grasped these truths comfortably , but you weren't taking action on them , and this method might with help with that . I tend to not write full sentences . It's almost like a farmers English skipping words and parts of the language . At least I don't have the accent . Also I don't even know how to use commas

I am pretty productive in my life as far as I'm concerned atm . And in a sense I have a life in terms of what I am doing . I respond quickly to my girl , and often , because I am just always by my phone . Could something happen where she just finds it unattractive , or it might seem like I am very invested in her without a life . Or she's the centre of my life . Is dis bad to do 😳

Okay , so I am contemplating what to do myself, but I think what would be great is some guidance as well . The title sums it up . I question so much , I don't know why . ( Working on getting clear on that ) I am unclear about lots of core things in a relationship . If my partner enquires about it should I lie , and then just keep lying and making up stories ? And not give away my lack of clarity about core important subjects regarding relationships. She told me herself she'd rather me lie keep back these subjects until I am clear on them , which tbh I see myself always being unclear about core subjects going forward . And there being always new things . Basically I didn't tell the full truth , but she kept asking questions deeper and deeper , my standard of being dishonest was crossed and I came clean about what I was unclear about . She was really not okay with that , and she is not okay with me coming out every now and then with thoughts about how unclear I am about core relevant and important ( to her ) things about the relationship . So it's basically a break up if I keep doing this unless something changes for her . She doesn't feel secure . But I really can't keep lying and constantly lying can I , just lying about all of this stuff I am unclear about . I know there isn't a lot of info and no examples but can someone relate to what I am saying and has experience here in this subject ? Cheers