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Simple litmus test: If you’re unable to hang out and meet attractive people IRL; instead of seeking those connections, you’re constantly going back to PMO to avoid that, then yeah… make a conscious effort to work on your relationship and communication skills while also reducing your PMO habit.

Two attractive people locking eyes with each other for the first time is pretty paranormal, wouldn’t you think?

I also just discovered this quote:

That song is silenter than The Sound of Silence

If your friends are bullying you, then your best bet is to have an exit strategy and be open to making new friends. People that bully you are simply not worth your time, and giving them your attention will only make it worse. By doing this, they will eventually leave you alone and find someone else to abuse.

Be careful about being too overly cautious on matters like this. Next thing you’ll know, you’ll find an article that mentions how heavy metals are found in your food. What are you going to do then, test everything you eat? https://www.canr.msu.edu/news/heavy-metals-in-food A quote from the article that should be considered:

Yep. Here’s a great example of taking “food addiction” to the extreme.

Leo actually made a blog post about this recently: https://www.actualized.org/insights/is-esp-scientifically-real

Is a magician being pure in intention, or are they being deceptive?

It’s nice to know that sex brought us all to-fucking-gather

Literally me in an alternate timeline. Love it!

@StarStruck this documentary offers some insight

Based on the example you gave, it sounds like the fighting is actually a cycle. The relationship is predicated on this cycle repeating itself. Wash, rinse, repeat. The dam is bound to burst any day now. That’ll lead to a serious reevaluation of the relationship - and it certainly won’t be easy to clean up.

I wonder if there are any health benefits to eating that thing

Yet depending on one’s upbringing, sexual cravings and desires can become distorted. For example, consider how a religious person relates to sex compared to an atheist who’s much more liberal about it. I was personally born into a Roman Catholic conservative upbringing which severely limited my ability to understand and express my LGBT/queer identity. I also have BDD (body dysmorphic disorder), which I’m also currently addressing. I believe the BDD also stems from bullying at a very young age about my body. I was frequently judged about being too skinny while simultaneously suppressing my curiosity of exploring a more feminine side of myself. Consequently, I’ve used PMO in a neurotic way, primarily as an escape. It was way to cope with not being able to express my authentic self and desires, because I was trained to believe that it was wrong. Decades of doing this will clearly have ramifications on one’s sexual identity and behaviors, their relationship with intimate partners, and how they view sex in the grand scheme of things. Now that I’m addressing these issues seriously and breaking down old ideas I had of myself, I’m only starting to learn how to relate to these aspects in a healthier and authentic way. So jerking off and sex is not a problem in and of itself. It can be a problem when unconsciously used as an escape from serious emotional and psychological traumas.

Paradoxically, there is also Source outside of you. Oh yeah!!

Both can be used Shalom

Humans are absolutely a reflection of Love from a higher point of view. Even without uttering a single word, the deepest human connections can form. In the name of Homo sapian, please be open to experiencing Human Love.

Damn autocorrect

Good idea. That’s also great advice for dealing with intuitive thoughts as well.

You can probably PM a moderator to help you. In any case, thanks for stopping by! Wishing you the best on your journey, wherever it leads is yours to own.

Love is allowing yourself to be fully YOU. Everything is also a self-reflection of YOU!