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Indeed. It is easily possible to damage our minds by feeding it selfish thoughts constantly.

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Maybe you can create earplugs specifically engineered for nightclub and pickup.

Ultimately, accept that which is out of your control to change. I’ve had a medical mishap happen a week ago. Instead of blaming the nurse for what had happened, I am looking at it from a place of compassion, empathy, and understanding. She was clearly in a lot of stress, as was I. I accept and forgive her. Update: my doctor private messaged me today and said that thing’s will start healing on its own without any intervention. What a beautiful Christmas gift!

Your focus should not be to cheat life; to cheat yourself. Instead, realize that you are capable of handling experiences you assumed you couldn’t out of fear. Continue to challenge your beliefs and ideas about yourself. This is not merely about living a good life, it’s about living a holistic one.

Wearing a seatbelt is also common sense, but there’s a small percentage who don’t care.

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You have 48 hours to edit

it’s obviously the Xbox’s fault

I trip and found a RIP on my t-shrt.

With everyone sharing the same exact values, there would be nothing to value at all.

Expand your mind and be flexible with your thinking. Is your way and ideas adaptable; are you open to seeing things in new perspectives?

Agreed. No satisfying growth would be possible if it came too easy or without any hiccups.

it’s easy to convince yourself of that, but it’s simply the case that 7 years ago you were not as mature as you are today.

Too much love and everyone on this forum might transform into beautiful snowflakes. All speculations aside, Happy Holidays you lovely weirdos

@BlueOak thank you for clarifying, I wasn’t aware of point number 2. You are definitely an asset with your direct life experience. And I like how you also expand that with point 1. My ego is resisting point 3, but it’s important to have diverse perspectives and insights!

Reminds me of that Leo blog post where he shared a video of a man squirming on the pavement like a worm that’s been stepped on. I’m not gonna bother finding the link to that one insight, otherwise I’ll go into a wormhole of bold insights. Maybe someone more organized than me will happen to find that link.

Don’t forget that family doesn’t necessarily have to be blood relatives, unless you strictly define family as such. How you interact with blood relatives will be different from, say, your chosen family. Just like how the fingers on your hand function and behave differently than the toes on your feet do. Nonetheless, they’re all still part of the same body. Maybe the family you’re identifying with is like a broken hand. Instead of giving it the love and support it needs, you’re rejecting and judging the hand for being wrong and stupid. But, yes, sometimes it is necessary to have your foot amputated.

I just opened this brand new Water flosser I’ve actually had for 6 months; never bothered to unbox it until someone amazing on this forum inspired me (you know who you are)

Chris… I’m going to this place called Kind Clinic soon. Thanks for ruining my excitement Christ Chrise Rise up from the dead and transcend

I certainly didn’t imagine that aspect! YOU did!

The problem is you’ll only be helping from your own relative perspective. A person who never had the thought of wanting to engage in a mass shooting will never be able to fully comprehend what it’s like to actually be a mass shooter. So really, any kind of help will fundamentally be coming from a place of ignorance.

There would be no Actualized or forum if it wasn’t for his marketing genius. That crazy sun of a….