Rafael Thundercat

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  1. Yes, is possibe, is also possible that one of the parts involved in the relationship grow more than the other in beauty,heath and wealth and break apert for the differences in Value. I remeber having a girlfriend that today I consider being Low Value, Physicaly, and Psycologicaly. Today I would never ever Date her. But when I Dated her I was not so aware of some aspects that I am today so I dated her. Value Awareness can grow with time, and the more you grow your Standards more grow the Standards of Who you want to Share a Bed or Even a House.
  2. @Princess Arabia This one too: We all have blindspots. No matter how we rationalize, in the end of the day some primitive forces win the Game, the good news is that Men can Increase their changes of Sucess or Susexx. The Guys try all they can to Mate :
  3. @Princess Arabia two videos for your consideration. The truth is to raw and dry, more true and dry than our cosncious minds want to accept. Nature is smarter than our Bias.
  4. If I was a Lion I would have no Problem in Jumping in the Neck of a gazele and feel the blood in my mouth. If any moralist would come preaching non-Viloence to me I would eat the preacher too. What is will be what is. The Bias comes later. There are even some frogs that eat their siblings Hungry Frog Eat His Brother https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DI94lz8Xquk No Bias, No problem. Survival is King
  5. There are come Christian Mystics Who do this think Called Contemplation Groups, based on the Original Way of Life of the People of the Desert, the Essenes and possibily The Zoroastrians and Sufis. Just Imagine, all we know about the people of the Desert is that they were not Involved with the Bullshit of the People of Babilon and other Warmongers of the past, if there are some Sane style of Commuinty to emulate from the past I would bet into the Schools os Mysteries and This Essenes and the Nazarenes. I was making a research on it sice some of my Hippie Ayahuasca Friend are always speaking about the Egipt and Godess Isis and thing like this , but I rememeber reading in the Upanishads that for the Vedic Masters the Egiptians where people who lost their minds in adoring natural forces and idolatry, but Even before Egipt there was more simple people who could recognise the duality but still know the Unity of All, one of them was Zaratustra: look one of the prayers of this guy: ""When I conceived of Thee, O Mazda, as the very First and the Last, as the most Adorable One. as the Father of Good Thought, as the Creator of Truth and Right, as the Lord Judge of our actions in life, then I made a place for Thee in my very eyes"-Yasna, 31-4. (Translation by D. J. Irani.) Comparing with the sermon of Meister Eckhart stated it in one of his sermons, “The eye with which I see God is the same eye with which God sees me: my eye and God’s eye are one eye, one seeing, one knowing and one love.” So what this all have to do with building a Community of likeminded people and contemplation? Here are some links to get some ideias : https://cac.org/ Center for Action and Contemplation (cac.org) https://cac.org/events/ https://awakeningsinc.org/ Awakenings | Connection Inclusiveness Love (awakeningsinc.org) If you want to have fun to discover a bit of the Zoroastrian Heritage this very simple website is a golden mine. I suspect that this Guys are the decendents of the place called Gobekli-Tepe a place that is Older than even Egipt and maybe even older than Sumerians https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Göbekli_Tepe Why, is important all this. Well, the truth is. we are naturally communitary beings. We are ment to live together, commute and to conect in small groups with a simple living where people REALLY know each other personaly for a good period of time. Where there is initiation rites, the elders live with the teens and childen. This Worldwide Virtual Community is a Myth. It work because the Internet but without Internet we would be limited by our local Environment. Belonging to Nature and to each other.
  6. You Nickname match exactly with your Vibe, Dont you Love your Parents? Work with Them, they Gave Birth to you Man.
  7. Well, she is stating her taste. You can assume she uncousciously still will fall fpr badBoys and It must be the case, but in the beggining of the thread I didnt say we are not allowed to express our personal preferences. For example, I am not attracted for promiscuous girls. Promiscuity is a subjective thing so would be difficult to make a list of all behaviors I would declare as promiscuity, but to give an example, there is a girl, a german girl in one of my circle of friends that in the vision of another girl is the model of sensual ,sexually liberated woman yadayada. And for me her usual behaviors totally repels me sexually. This is the Girl that is hitting in this girl boyfriend. For me what is atractive is a bit of elegance, sensuality yes, but not a performative exagerated archetype of the Lillith or what some NewAge Hippies call the SacredWhore or whatever. For me just be a human being, nothing of pretentions. So, is ok to have preferences, and to know how one wants to be treated. The women attracted by Assholes, let them be, they maybe lucky and the Asshole was just a fake mark or the Asshole was a real Asshole and she will harvest dissapointment. The focus as a man is to train yourself to cut througth bullshit and be honest with what you want and dont get disappointed yourself.
  8. I have a friend that is Atheist. And I gave him this exact Challenge: Forget asking me or others Who is God, first Try to find and prove the existence of "You" This is what I feel when I see many futile debates in this part of the Forum. This video speak all I want to say when I see some debating here. So I am posting then I will not say more anything.
  9. I studied Many models, Astrology, Human Desing, Gene Keys, Brigs Mayer, etc... but what this guy say here is true. In the end of the day we undertand others and even ourself by asking the carrot and stick question. What pleasure are you looking for and what Pain are you running away from. In other words " INCENTIVES"
  10. Is importat to give more context, at least about at least what State or City you are located because Geography play a lot in the matter. If you are young and life in isolated contryside you of course will have less expousure to new oportunites. I lived in the Mountains and the nature was amazing but socially I was lacking a lot so I moved to the city and next to the Beach where I can still have good ocean baths, clubs, social events if I want. So what you want if optionality. Options, so you will expand your soul. For now be very precise in you routine, diet and information consumption so you dont get distracted with unecessary bullshit that will not directly change your life. But again, if you want more help from people here you need to give more precise inputs of your context.
  11. Well, we all know that If an Animal is acting out of its niche and is trying to accomplish what his natural capacities didnt fit him to do he will fail. Or because the Niche is Wrong or because he is trying to offer what he are not fit to offer. Imagine a Jellyfish tring to survive in a desert. Based on this, How do you define a niche, what are the important crucial questions to make? How to find out if what you decide to offer as Value, have really Value or is just a dream?
  12. Is amazing we have this today. As someone who was present in a person dying in front of me recently I can say to Observe it is a big experience. To see someone who you was talking with or even having breakfeast in the morning and in the afternoon you are there seeing her inert in the flow with the eyes open with that profound static stareing is very humbleling. The experience was for days in my mind, realizing that one day, this biorobot I am will eventualy turn of and this is it. A whole life gone in a second. To die is as normal as to born.
  13. @James123 bro, you are boring. You sound like this idiots who pretent they know it all with this Absolutist short answers. Why not give life a little more brilhance. Have you ever experienced Infinity? Have you ever did at least a good amount of 5Meo or other psycadelics end hit the rock bottom? Take your head out of your butt and go do some work. You make questions to people not knowing that maybe the person you are asking maybe in fact experienced what you are asking. But the way you ask sound like you are just asking like a troll.
  14. Maybe is because you have secure attachment and a healty knowledge of your own psyche and know your boundaries. Some people as the girl I know had a father that used to ignore her and dont give her appraisal etc.. so now this father wound makes her get attracted exactly by man that reenact the way her father use to treat her. Weird but true. And the more crazy is that she is aware of this factor but she say she cant avoid. So even knowing consciously the cause of her discontent she still end up following her subconcious patters.
  15. As clear as possible What dosent kill you make you wiser.
  16. https://www.actualized.org/insights/persistent-non-symbolic-experience The whole Leo Post is great and for me it is about the only thing that I being working my whole life to understand: Distinctions. Duality and Oneness Merged as it never was separated. We live by making Distictions, you could not even know the difference of a cup of poison or a juice without learning distictions, distinctions that where giving to you by others who also made distictions and survived by it. No distictions and is all a unified indistinct something. So I started watching this video about the Gnostics Essenes, the video explain that Jesus or Yoshua was not a Christian. Of course. He was a Mystic. And there is a point in the video he brings the history of Adam and Eve and the two trees, one is Eternal Life and the Second is the Tree of Knowledge of Good and Evil. So, here we have the original Sin, the fruit of Distinction. Who to say what is good and what is Evil? Good, help me survive, Evil can Kill me The video is amazing if you are able to see that is teaching somehow the exaxt process of cutting distinctions till there is only pure objectivity, pure Isness.
  17. If you are not commited with Virility, then there is no Hack that will help.
  18. Now one knows where humans learn how to control each other. Who was really the first sheepeards?
  19. Our direct experience is biased by our present organism. If you could have eyes like that crazy ocean lobster I forgot the name you would have a totally different reallity. As far as my experience goes I was able to see things after 3 cups of Ayahusca that I could now say that is nuts, fairy tale stuff. So when we go day by day navegating reality we are ignoring by defalt a huge part of what is really going on. All for the sake of our sanity
  20. Yes, I ego nature thar is the same to say that is human nature. Yes I hard to reject, for us man is hard, for women even harder because they are use to be the ones who are used to make the picking, and being rejected must hard to the self-esteem
  21. I think the easy way to create your own ecosystem is to create a community, not online, really in real life, a space where there are frequent meeting to share topics, drink something that dont involve alcool, have pre-planed topics that the participants will study during the weeek and bring their insigths. Almost like a book club but not necessarialy about reading a single book. Almost like a chuch but less the dogma and rituals that have non sense. Maybe the Websites Perspectiva, The Stoa and similar movements are a model for it. Something like a third place a Philosophy Club with defined rules of conviviality and a moderator do have some order or a guide leader.
  22. One nigth in a Club I hit on a girl and she rejected me. Later she Saw me dancing with another Hot Girl and she came fixing me, I ignored her. So she spill her drink while trying to dance with me and suddenly started to scream: Idiot!! You spill m drink!!! She got ready crazy, and tried to even punch me. I could see what was going on, and she was of course drunk, so was the subconscious playing its tricks. Since that day I avoid clubs as a place to look for girls. Smoke, Drunkness and Noise. I will not look for girls in the Trashbin.
  23. I know a friend, a woman who keeps declaring that she have a crush for assholes and badboys, but she keep in loops of wanting to tame down them to commit only with her and she cant. And when she push the guy to it he say " I am a free man!!" The guy in this specific situation end up having affait with one of her best friends. In the end people need to compromisse some fantasies if what they want is Happiness. But woman want the whole cake. And there is a reason for it. Delusion, yea, but a suble reason that even they have difficulty to explain themselfs. We all will have all we want one day, and this may be Awakening, or for some, when they die.
  24. sometimes we create very strong intellect as a coping mechanism to not dive deep into our fellings. To avoid where it hurts. The thing is, when a wound is not treated it dont vanish, it pesters. Yes, there are enviroments that are better to our brilhance, but never forgeting that wherever I go, I take myself with me , my guts, body and all the things it carries, included traumas.