Rafael Thundercat

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  1. I had read a bit of this book in the past and made no sense to me, but now with a visual explanation i think it hits into something. I know, better the model bigger the problem. But this in amazing.
  2. They have their own side of the coin. We have our difficulties they have theirs. I know some cases personaly. Compassion for God Sake
  3. Around 33:00 of this video Mark Mason hit the point. Of course what most people want to to have their feelings validated. Need we validade all? No need we hope validation for all ? No but if you are in a relationship at least a bit of listening to each other is needed, they point the obvious ideia that you need also be aware if the person you are open your feelings are in a space to recive it or they had demostrated by actions that they are not good recivers or space holders for you. There are a lot of good nuances in this videos. As always, sometimes videos repeat what we always knew but in a different perspective so it end up expanding our understanding of ourselfs and the world.
  4. Is our path of Love there are a big space to grow in our emotional calibration. I've being noticing some patterns in some people around me about this issue of emotional invalidation. Of course that to look for validation from others is a slippery slope but as social beings we need to be aware of sharing our inner states with people that are at the minimum open to recieve us when some emotions need to be expressed, other wise better not trust this people parts of our souls. Everyone wants to be recieved as they are with ligth and dark. So the question is : Do you have someone in your family that keeps invalidating your feelings? Do you have any safe space or sactuary to share your emotions without being judged or deflected? Is really healty to you expose yourself to some people who dont give a shit about your inner landscape? We are all in the journey of self acceptance and acceptance of all out parts. And the more self-reflectiong one is the more he or she tend to think that all depend on her. But a good balance is to know that others have their share on the issue too, and you know calling them to be more gentle ans sensible are not helping them to grow. Check you boudaries on and on. If you expect others to do it you are expecting to much. https://psychcentral.com/health/reasons-you-and-others-invalidate-your-emotional-experience#recap
  5. Funny Video on Late-Stage Capitalism. Is Late-Stage Capitalism even a real Topic or just a Perception?
  6. For you guys. And of course for me too since I am in this journey of being the man I am mean to be. Focus on your Animus, in learning and embodiement of all that means to be a men first. Good to know a bit here and there about the femenine ups and downs but if you distract from your inner game, no amount of bla bla bla will help. Go to men circles, study, apply, cry, do the work and pass any challenge life is callimg you to be more present in your being.
  7. The man is using AI cute images of himself to get votes from the young generation. Prabowo Subianto: Indonesia's 'cuddly grandpa' with a bloody past. https://www.bbc.com/news/world-asia-68028295 Indonesia goes to elections this Wednesday. The use of artificial intelligence, which turned a candidate into an animated puppet, is seen as a test for elections in India and the United States. Prabowo is Indonesia's defense minister and a fierce nationalist. But his chubby-cheeked AI avatar already has around 19 billion views on TikTok. A poll conducted in January by Indikator Politik found that Prabowo had more than 60 percent of the vote from Generation Z.
  8. Wow, for a journalist of the Telegraph to quit his job because we could not repeat the status-quo narrative is because he understood something.
  9. https://www.discoverwildlife.com/animal-facts/insects-invertebrates/why-are-moths-attracted-to-light
  10. The balance is to be able to study and understand the shadow sides of the feminine and masculine ands still keep the heart open to the ligth sides too. Is to be able so observe the Devil in the Face and Love the Devil instead of Hate, and to see that the Devil is just acting like that because it serve the Devil as a Survival Tool. To be able to see all shit going on and still keep the Pose and not losing the mind on it. For me is what NotSoErudite is able to do, She is able to be Still and calm and Mindfull even in the Middle os Storm, is a capacity even memeber of this Forum are not able to do.
  11. There is HOPE. and No, there is not hope in negation of a Social Issue. When we will take care of the problem, after there is more Mass Shottings, more Suicides?
  12. Here a video of some people actually trying to talk or find Structural solutions for it. The Thing is , when there are a problem in the Gardenm, for example when Flowers are not bloosoming, we will blame the flowers first? or maybe we will check the soil, the enviromental changes, is raining? There are a toxic element in the soil? Not to say the Incels dont have a part on it. But the truth is, is they exist and there are loneliness, suicide etc.. is not just a choice
  13. Lucky there are some girls out there open the eyes of some other girls about the pitfalls they can enter
  14. @Danioover9000 this channel is the pool of drama.
  15. The age of the boy reacting and calling Andrew Bitch give me Hope for the Future of Humanity. The True is that Drama Sell, or in other words Drama call attention. What can be more boring as a man in deep meditation for 30min video or a Video of 3 hours of Waterfall sounds or even White Noise. What people want is Noise. And the more noise there is less signal people listen and by signal I mean the sound that comes from inside, can be a voice telling them what to do with their lifes. Drama is self-generated noise to avoid observing the Truth and Contemplating the Nature of Reality and Awaken. And even is not about awakening can just be noise to avoid to notice psycological issues like Shadow work etc.. Humanity is Spining Webs of Bullshit to keep Itself Entraped in whatsoever they need to be entraped into so they dont see Reality as it is and Fall in the ground rolling around. Exactly what ine see in this videos of people experimenting 5Meo with a Shaman. Drama is Noise to avoid Silence
  16. This made me remember a post by Gura for those who think Religion have no need to exist anymore : Why Religion Persists By Leo Gura - January 23, 2017 One reason that religion persists is because it provides genuine psychological benefits to the practitioner. It is the original self-help. To those skeptics who dismiss religion so quickly by saying, “But it’s just a bunch of fairy tales” — the only way you can say that is because you lack experience with it, and so you misunderstand it. You misunderstand it, but not in the way you think. The reality is, there’s no way in hell a collection of purely fabricated stories could survive for such a long time. Religion survives because it WORKS! It’s because it works that it becomes a problem. It’s because it works that people aren’t so eager to abandon it as your models would predict. People feel the positive effects and get seduced into thinking that everything in the religion is true because of the psychological or spiritual benefits they feel. And then that is take as evidence of the religion’s exclusivity: “My religion must be true because look! Look at all these great benefits to my life!” The problem is not that the benefits are not real — they are REAL! The problem is that the benefits are not exclusive — but people hold them as exclusive. This cannot be seen without a more experienced, more cosmopolitan meta-perspective. It’s not possible to see the universal psychological and spiritual principles at work in a religious tradition without practice and study of other traditions and non-religious self-help techniques. If you do undertake such a study, you will see the common threads unpinning all traditions, from Mormonism to Islam to Judaism to psychoanalysis to Yoga to Scientology. But the false exclusivity that many religious adherents subscribe to becomes a huge burden. Religion becomes dangerous when it feeds tribalism. ANY ideology becomes dangerous when it feeds tribalism. And virtually all ideologies do! How many ideologies or religious traditions say: “We don’t care which other traditions you study or practice. In fact, let us help you study the vast diversity of ideas available in the psycho-spiritual marketplace.”? Ha! Good luck finding an ideology like that! How can we tell if an ideology is dangerous? Very simple. Just ask, “Is it feeding tribalism? It is putting itself on a pedestal?” Is it encouraging tolerance and unity with self and other, or separation of self from other?
  17. The true suble war was a war of Ideias, the killing of the physical body of someone or a whole group of people is just a ephiphenomena of the war against the Ideias carried on by this individual or group
  18. another problem is this : Privatizing profits and socializing losses refers to the practice of treating company earnings as the rightful property of shareholders and company losses as a responsibility that society must shoulder. In other words, the profitability of corporations is strictly for the benefit of their shareholders.
  19. In this case non of the people involved had survived. Ironic