Rafael Thundercat

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Give sugestions, say : I have a proposition: What if? Or you make a invitation and see if the person open up to it. If not accept that. I wanted to meet a girl but she was emotionally close to meet. Why would you want to be with someone by means of manipulation? Why would that be satisfactory? You could do like flowers do with bees, you takes care of the perfume and the polen and the bees comes to you. The flower sends a invitation and offers something that satisfy the bees needs, and by this process both get what they need. When you observe it in nature you see the pure harmony. You can project bussiness paradigms on in as you wish, but when you observe in nature you cannot say who is seducing who. Is the flower seducing the bee for its purpouses? or is the bee forcing the flower to be shaped in a way that allows the bee to get polen? Who is manipulating who? Symbiotic is nature, a participatory Universe. A infinite loop.

This the grip hard to let go. Even to answer a forum thread one must survive as a self, as a "I am this" and not "that". I am answering some "other" mind "out there "

I loved the video. One of the best things I ever heard in life. And I am greatfull that finally someone got the guts to say it outloud. The words still echoes sometimes when I remember " Is not that you are Alone, is that you are So Thogheter" ... and I see all around right now, there is nothing missing, nothing to add, nothing to eliminate. How to eliminate a dream? This would be a nice book to read. How to eliminate a dream.

I imagine how hard should be in the old day for yogis and zen masters to be able to do their practices and not having a forum to give them hints about every detail of their meditation. Relax you jaw. You can cosnciously do it. Dont wait for when you are in deep meditation. Do it everyday. Catch youself in tesion everyday. Sometimes I feel pain in the arms or neck due to the pressure in the buttocks. I think leo have a video on his blog about finding a good sposture to meditation. For me is a constant work of ajustament. Good musculature, yoga practice, detoxing the lympatic system is good too. But overall only you can discover the causes since nobody here can listen to your body better than yourself.

One experience I had resumes all this trap. I was so imersed in the ideia of Oness, only the ideia of Oness and not the actual Oness that is much more deep than only the idea. So one day sitting in a kitchen with this Ucranian Girl, a very developed girl that at that time was able to see through my spiritual bypassing. So she was trying to mirror to me some of my biases and I dont remember what was,but, my answer to her was " ahhh everything is one anymway or everything is illusion anyway!!" And her answer to me was : " Don't use Oneness to escape looking to your mistakes". So in a sense all this Oness stuff can be weponized to justify any shit the ego want to do and feel good about. And at same time this articles can be used by people to avoid going deep just because they decided previously that this can become a spiritual bypass situation.

Leo Gura have Online Bodyguards. How can Nobody have body guards?

Because God cannot be actualized?

That are the things one must read between the lines. I see it all the time. I even saw it in Osho style, he goes on speaking and is enjoyable and suddenly when one is not expecting he hits the hammer rigth in the head of ego. I notice in your videos that the hammer hit comes around almost in the end. All the butthurts and impatient spirits quit after the first or second hour of videos. The brave stay to recive the hammer. Dont change the style. Or do whatever you wish.

Likes and dislikes are the disease of mind. I also would love to be a Realitybender. Like the Avatar the last airbender. But no, is enogth hard the work to keep my diet in line, wake up early to get sunligth and taking care or the daily challenges.

One thing is getting the "Ahaaa!! is dream" . That by itself can super scary. Then comes the hard part " How is dream being created? The structure of it, including cold,hot, the humitidy in the nose,the pain in the neck, the noise of rice boiling in the stove, noise of the gate opening with the wind. I just described limited pieces of my actual experience. What I want to say is, the hard part being aware of the dream day by day while walking, eating,showering, talking,writing online, and so on.

Free Publicity. Nassin Talled said in one his books that he put controvestial stuff on his writings on purpouse because he knows someone will post critics about it somewhere in the news so in this way he will have free advertisement. It works. Is the old adage " Speak bad think but speak about me" When I was teen I remember telling girls about some guy I knew and I used to give warnings to them like " hey dont talk with guy he is an asshole" and in the end they end up dating the guy. So I was indirectly making advertisement to the guy.

This reminds me of a lucid dream I had where I was inna debate with a guy inside the dream and I was telling him: Dude!! Can yoi see it!! Look to me, I am dreaming and you are just a image inside my dream! I was all excited trying to prove that guy that he was nothing but a image in my dream. And he could say a word. He reamained silent as a zombie, silent as a GTA character. Than I wake up, and realized the stupidity of what I aas dong in that dream. How could I expect that guy to answer me? Hahaha

Wow, language is very tricky..

Correlation is not causation.

I personaly dont force myself to feel empathy for sufferings and I also to force myself to not feel it. It all comes naturally. Like when you watch a movie and a certain scene where someone is experiencing suffering brings you to tears. You feel naturaly the tears coming, you dont need to analise if that was solipsistic or not, you felt it, and as far as you know nobody is crying but you. I feel no intention to descontruct suffering or pain. Sometimes I even miss to cry a bit. i pass days without being moved by something beautiful,like an act of Integrity, and then when I see, it moves me and tears comes down. This is also part of life too. I watched the Solipsism vídeo a couple times, is amazing and deep, but still while one is living on default mode is sane to live in the mode one is living. At least for me. Last time I felt this empatic connection it was with a documentary called "Doing Good" .This old man healing people with his hands. You see and you feel the love involved in the interactions. Asking if one day I would make peace with the suffereing of others, animals or humans? Why would I desire to be in peace with the suffering? While I am alive I want to feel everything possible to feel. I am in peace that I never will be able to end suffering. My sister had a baby, and there as suffering involved. I personaly did not feel anything from her childbirthing, and this dont make her birth any less real just because I didnt see it. Rigth now I am not seeing any animal suffering in front of me. If the experience to see it will come one day it comes naturally and if I feel like make intervention I will do as the moment ask. But suffering feels very real when is with me, physical or emotional.

I watched the video below days ago and I found very informative. And today I found out it was age restricted. Is really justifiable this kind of restriction or is just Youtube really not allowing the zombified to have any chance to receive dezombification vaccines? This world is weird. I can watch from the saved video in my Youtube accont but I cant watch via the very link I posted.

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A Man Convinced Against His Will, Is of the Same Opinion Still https://quoteinvestigator.com/2021/05/15/convinced/?amp=1

Maybe this Joke moode is the pendulum swinging to the oposite direction. We can stay to long in the rigid anal state so what I see in me is that after a very stressfull day or days in life , i usually need to vent out all this tension and comedy, nature walks, music, playing my favorite intruments( drum and harmonica) is a way to keep the balance between seriousness and playfullness.

@Leo Gura I was thinking about the word Forum and I know that it came from the old greeks. And I know there is a guideline where the members can read and be aware of the purpose of this forum and how to navigate it so everybody wins here. Is just an ideia, what about a video? one of this long ones you do, encasulating the core principles and nuances of everything one need to be aware about this Forum and how to make the best of it. You said you manage this for 7 years. Would be amazing to have a destilation of your takes on this work. Good to have a broader notion of how to make the forum usage optimized and I think many principles of forum managenment could be usefull when one is leading communites and large group of people. I say this because I had last years experiences in comunities and there were moments when one dissident stared to corrupt the whole harmony in the community and was even harder than here because we needed to interact with the person daily till he or her decided finnaly that he or she was not serving or being served by the community. So ifnone leads a community there is this balance of letting things flow and stoping derails early enougth so the whole system dont colapse in a chaotic Reddit or Twitter. A video about the Forum wise usage. Just an ideia.

@bambi amazing video on non-violent communication. Rigth in the begginin the topic of non manipulation of others and no coercion is brought up. Thanks for the Natural Giving.

Leo keep saying the same thing again and again. And maybe is one of the most important things he say in all videos: You need to derive Truth by yourself. Or you can become conscious of this things by yourself.

After all these fuzz these days about Tate and lack of Integrity and Character. I face myself with this movie on Netflix about this old man that heals by only putting his hands on his patients and talking with them. I used to dissmis such stuff as paranormal, but after what I saw Amazon healers doing, very humble old men that with their simple ways are able to do stuff that for other looks like magic. For me is simply Love flowing. Worth checking. The vibe of the documentary is very relaxing. Sometimes we think that to do good we need to make amazing heroic stuff, but look to this man, just living with his simplicity. Just imagine what kind of experiences lead to the cumination of such being. Try not cry

Leo gave a whole video class https://www.actualized.org/insights/how-to-plug-psychedelics