Sincerity

Did You find a theoretical answer, or did You find it as an experience/"object" inside your mind, directly? Nevertheless, good job. I'm learning to deal with procrastination myself and I still haven't fully seen through its source. Sloth? Avoidance out of fear? Insufficient love/desire, as You say? I'm not sure yet. I find that the answer to it is consciousness & movement. Consciously noticing that I want to avoid something and then deliberately doing it, out of desire to be better and active.

Not easy. Profound change in attitude is very difficult. In fact, I'd say changing yourself is the hardest thing the is. But when You do change and learn to choose what's right, it's easy then. And creation becomes easy, then. You are the hero/heroine. You are all the obstacles You encounter on the path. You are the dragon to defeat. And YOU are the HOLY GRAIL. It is ALL your mind. One giant labyrinth. Choosing the right thing becomes difficult because there appear obstacles such as pride, hatred, sloth, gluttony... and they are hard to overcome because they feel like they are You. And then it feels like You are fighting yourself. And it feels hopeless. But there is a light at the end. And what You find is what You've always wanted. So don't give up. Heaven IS awaiting, and it's going to be HERE.

You would be wise to look into it.

@Sabth This is going to be THE real heaven. If You choose so. There's not going to be anything else.

Yes You are. And remember the guidelines. Because this is really getting boring.

That's right. The more You surrender yourself, the more yourself You are. And then everything is fine.

Exactly lol. Dude You are so insecure and obsessed with this topic it hurts to read. Look at yourself for once and not at "others", these pesky women who wish You harm. You see in others what You yourself are. You are making no progress. You are coming to a self-improvement forum whining and spitting your venom. Surprise us someday and show some willingness to learn.

Yes, You can create heaven in this life. By which I mean, your everyday life will be synonymous with heaven. Reality rewards consciousness and right behaviour. Do the right thing. Follow your dreams and they will come True, literally.

The more conscious You are, the freer your will. This is incredibly intelligent design. God is not going to give some utter fool complete free will. The more evolved (=God-like) You are, the more agency You have. In a sense You are rewarded for evolving. Also, God is Free Will.

This post is especially for those of You who are struggling. Have faith. It may seems pointless and hopeless sometimes, but let me assure You it's not. There is light at the end of the tunnel. And when You go into this light, You will find out that Life has Meaning. And it's so, so beautiful. Life is Beautiful. It's Unique. It's Perfect in its supposed imperfection. And You WILL discover the Magic of Creation, sooner or later. It's going to be awesome. Follow your dreams and they WILL come True. That's my message to You. I love You.

Intelligence.

Maybe You are scared of aloneness? Just a guess. Learn how to deal with surges of energy. Maybe Reality is trying to tell You something. Perhaps make the effort to understand what it is. Focus on it and try to hear what it's telling You. Observe the patterns.

I still have much fear. I am afraid of going through hell again. Because You do have to go through really difficult shit to eventually become more conscious. It is very scary and hard sometimes. But what helps is faith and giving it all away to God. Being present. "This will be a cycle of learning, and forgetting, and relearning, and forgetting again."

There is no randomness.

@Javfly33 You are going to heaven and it's going to be right here.

Thanks! A cool 1000th post if I say so myself haha. It has Meaning. Have faith. It's all worth it. Never underestimate the Intelligence. God is not stupid. It absolutely is Meaningful.

Let this also be a message of unity among us. We all hear the calling. But we are on different paths. And it's okay. Don't let the arguing get in the way. Everyone is fighting a hard battle. Look primarily at Yourself and love one another.

Post of the week LOL Just me, my mind and coke ?

Dunno, I'd draw the line intuitively. Sure, that's just plain stupid if true. It most likely would. If I noticed that, it'd be a red flag. But I don't know whether that was the case with the girl from OP's story. It could also happen that a mind perceives someone as "completely uninformed yet judgmental" when that person doesn't share their perspective on some matter. You know, a defense mechanism. I'd be careful with making such assessments about others. And when You're triggered by judgementality, there's probably some in You... Fairs. Overall I think we're mostly in agreement. ?‍♂️ No reason to split hairs. Or at least I don't want to anymore.

Depends on what You mean by "really misaligned". If let's say she was into conspirational thinking and hating jews (I assume that's what You mean by strong opinions about them), no I wouldn't be fine with it. That'd say a lot about her level of development to me, even though I don't give a damn about jews. But if for example she didn't like Leo specifically and held strong negative opinions about him, of course I wouldn't fucking care. Even though I really like Leo's teachings. I don't think it's fair to equate strong opinions about Jews and Musk lol. Besides I told the guy that his attachment to Musk is something to work through and he agreed. Yes, no attachment towards some figure or bullshit like that is necessary. Burn it all to the ground. No I'm not in a relationship but I am close to people that have very different beliefs than me. And my relationships are becoming more and more loving, the more work I am doing. I don't think same beliefs are that important. You simply don't have to talk about everything with a person, who cares. Stick to what You have in common.

Unwarranted interrogating people in the mental health subforum will not be tolerated.

Fuck these "friends". But at the same time, grow a thicker skin. If You're unsure of yourself, You are easy to troll and make fun of. What if You were like: "Yeah, I do love philosophy, because I do want to live the good life. No it's not mental jerk off, it is learning how to live well. And this Leo dude has taught me a lot. If You don't want to follow him it's fine, but I will." Be more confident!

Hey, I'm sorry dude. Feelings like this come up and it's fucking difficult. But You'll land back on your feet. You'll handle it, have faith!

No problem

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