Sincerity

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Where do you think you get more perspective/food for thought from? "Human" replies here or conversation with an AI? Is there use in even asking us? I think @Exystem's commentary was great. I read through the document and it's really impressive but reading an equivalent of "you make a great point" for the 100th time made my eyes roll lol. The potential for getting stuck in an echo chamber is big. Unless you deliberately ask it to provide counter points for you, but that's not what you did here.

Lol, good one haha

Hm. Then how come You say that God is an endless ocean of dreams? You are using the notion of multiplicity which is a part of the dream, is it not? In other words, is the view of there being more than one dream not part of the dream too?

According to You, can/do these dreams interact with each other or are they entirely separate?

Great post I have intentionally dedicated so much time to processing emotions and undeniably I did make progress - but I'm still emotionally dumb as fuck, afraid of feeling and resisting for long periods of time. Hurts to be a devil.

Hey You! May the holiday time invigorate You with gratitude, joy and the spirit to continue on your path. You've been working hard. Take some time to truly appreciate your journey & rest for a while. I think in this male dominated community we often lack more female connection and kind words. Instead we give answers/advice, talk or argue about what's right, reason with each other... So if You have some kind words to say, please do! 🙏 Perhaps a user has been especially helpful to You and You wish to express it? Perhaps You are grateful for this online community which You keep coming back to? Perhaps You just want to wish everyone a good time? Share away! And last but not least, a big thank You from the Universe to You for working on becoming a better person. Sometimes life ain't easy down here but You sure are going strong! Even if You think You aren't. Happy Holidays! Sincerity

Well this part of You that is the weed addict, this energy that doesn't want to stop it has taken over your experience. And when You try going against it You'll be going against "yourself" - this part of You. When You try to fight it it's gonna be like one hand wrestling the other, stupidity, a war in your mind. I recommend You try this: The weed addict energy can be released. You can cry it out, especially when You see how helpless You are against it, against "you". I suggest You cry and pray sincerely, be honest with yourself, admit your true desire and that You can't change. Then You might receive some help from the invisible hand. The Universe ONLY and ALWAYS answers to SINCERE prayer, SINCERE calls for help. No matter what You pray to, You can even just talk to your imaginary friend George, the point is to ADMIT THE TRUTH. Then You get these unconscious energies to the light of day. Because fact is, You are unconscious of all of this. You're a helpless puppet of these energies simply because You're not aware enough. They're running You. But it doesn't have to be this way. Admit the truth. Admit the truth. Admit the truth. And break free. Stop being fucked by God knows what. Have some respect for yourself and see through it.

95% of mature talk You received on the forum (from anyone) went in one ear and out the other. Your comment today "I know absolutely that solipsism is true ." is perfect proof of that. Perfect. And You just made an apology last Thursday. Come on, self-reflect a little. Me too man, genuinely haha I don't know if it's common for others but truly I'm often laughing my butt off reading some posts here and mostly it's unintentional comedy.

No condescending language please. This applies to everyone.

Sigh lol.

🤷‍♂️ I felt inspired writing most of what I wrote. Like it was flowing from me. Haha. Surprised myself a little bit.

Well, outlook and approach matter. I think it's important to discuss, and some of the things I read here break my heart sometimes so I wanted to speak up.

To me that's more like knowledge of Infinity, not knowing It. Yeah, that's relatively easy I guess.

What I mean by believing in Infinity is believing in the infinite infinity of Infinity. Something You cannot be conscious of due to never being beyond what You are at the current moment, but You still have faith. I believe such faith is very important, it's the basis for true humility and further "growth" in consciousness. If You wanna believe in a finite infinity, be my guest.

I don't know what they know but I'll go on a limb and say it's not complete. I'll rather believe in Infinity than some humans knowing "It"... (if they know it it's not It) So little faith in Infinity around here. ☹️

I am, I am not...

I don't believe in no full dissolvement. Sorry for harsh wording, but I think it's foolish to ever think You've reached the end or "Enlightenment". Again, to me it's denying Infinity and disbelief in God, which is sad (genuinely). To all people saying this I'd love to reply: I do sense though that I will "reach" Enlightenment eventually, although then there will no one to tell it to, no mouth to speak it and no memory of even "reaching" it, so... None of You here "reached" it though because we're still interacting, so let's not bullshit ourselves.

Point to somewhere where You are not.

The only thing You've ever known in your life.

I don't agree with the terminology "having more consciousness" but I'd say You can definitely be more conscious. Ever more. And what that means to me is simply "becoming" more of your True Self, aka God/Universe. And what THAT means is shedding the limitations God places on Themselves, on Mind, on Consciousness. God REALIZATION. And that is an infinite amount of work. The limitations don't ever really end, You can always be more conscious because it's Infinity. I mean, I really don't understand how some of You people here deny "deeper awakenings"... Do You not believe in Infinity? I'm not sure whether You think/feel like You've reached the end/ceiling ("Buddha Nature"?) but I think that's rather unhumble. To deny the infinity of consciousness, it feels like a slap to the face of Reality... @Bazooka Jesus Regarding the actual question from the OP, idk lol 🤷‍♂️

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This is a technique I developed along the way. I haven't heard of other people using it, but on the other hand I didn't really search. I'd say it is better suited for more intuitive/emotional people. For me it's working amazing every time. Technique So, there is something about You that You wish to change but You can't. Be that some addiction like smoking/food/gaming/etc., some behavioral pattern, some nasty feeling You can't seem to get rid of, falling into some trap every single time, some negative trait like irresponsibility, ungratefulness, recklessness, cowardice, fakeness, pride. Take a moment to notice that You are helpless against yourself. You cannot change for the life of You because it's YOU yourself who's creating that particular mess. Whether You're taking responsibility for it or not, it's You. And You can't win because this is just the way You are. You are stuck, helpless. To be even more dramatic: there is very little hope for You and with how things have gone so far, You might stay like this forever... This is a pretty low mental state to be in. It seems hopeless. Try to really FEEL into it. FEEL the helplessness. Cry for God's sake! You CAN'T change, doesn't this make You really sad? FEEL the anguish as deeply as You can! If You don't FEEL it intensely, You are doing it wrong. . . . Feel until there's no more pain to feel about that particular thing. Eventually the emotions will subside and You will probably feel a little lighter, better. You're most likely not going to know/feel whether something has actually changed. There's not going to be grand revelations and You will probably forget quite fast about doing this feeling session. But mindfully observe your own behaviour in the following days. Maybe your behaviour has changed and something that You wanted gone is now gone? This is VERY easy to overlook. It's incredibly easy to forget that You even had the problem. But I encourage You to be aware and make the effort to notice it. And be grateful. Notes & Closing Thoughts While feeling into the helplessness, You can also ask for help if You're into it. I am. Leo has recently made a blog post about sharp emotional experience being the key to change. This is exactly right. And You can use this consciously! Invoke the sharp feelings and really feel into them. People really don't fucking understand this. Unless You feel intensely, You're never going to change. You will never intellectualize your way to behaviour change. Not going to happen! I notice people around me (especially my parents) struggling to change and I'm like... that's because You're not consciously feeling into the problem You God damn ding dong. You're detached from your emotions, You're an unconscious robot acting on unconscious energies. You're a puppet on unconscious strings - but it doesn't have to be this way! You can be a real boy. I think You HAVE to be able to feel things intensely. Don't be afraid of it and have zero shame about crying. For me personally no tears = no deep change (though also tears don't necessarily equal change!). Obviously it varies but it's a good rule of thumb. Never pride yourself on never crying, I think it's a sign of unconsciousness. I notice that the more unconscious I am in certain weeks, the more I'm detached from feeling and crying and it's fucking idiotic because I'm just unconsciously suffering in the background. Well, why do that when You can resolve the pain? Sometimes it takes multiple such sessions to fully resolve something. If your behaviour hasn't changed after one session, well - consciously feel into the helplessness even more. Even this didn't help! You're never going to change, You are doomed! Hope this resonates! If yes, TRY IT!