mr_engineer

Have you considered the fact that when they attack us for saying 'not all men', this enables false accusations?!

The loneliness-statistics say it all.

I can't find the post where Leo told me to 'not be needy'. It was something along the lines of me saying 'I shouldn't put up with disrespectful treatment from women' and Leo was like 'the fact that you need women to treat you with respect is you being needy. Have fun, no matter what gets thrown at you'. If someone can find that thread, it would be much appreciated. What is 'neediness', though?

Mods, you can lock this thread. I am considering this idea of 'neediness' debunked.

This is a glorification of separation inside the relationship. Obviously, you're going to fight more when you end up talking, obviously, you're going to have break-ups, obviously, you're going to then think 'me need me-time to heal, so me be single right now'. Obviously, millennials and Gen-Z are the loneliest generation. Obviously, they are the instant-gratification generation. This pathological thought-process, this mind-virus of 'don't be needy' is at the root of it!

What's 'healthy'? Both people don't spend any time together, both people are doing their own thing? Is that 'healthy'?

What if two needy people want to be together? Is that illegal, in your books?

Would you sue someone who's being needy? Would you call the police on them for 'being needy'?

I was being persistent with a question that I knew people would not take seriously, because I wanted an answer. It got answered. If I cared about you perceiving it as 'needy', it would not have gotten answered! What's your answer, by the way? Is it illegal to be needy?

So, nobody has the courage to answer my question. I knew it. There are no ethical considerations relative to the issue of 'neediness' either. Therefore, there is no logical reason to not be 'needy'!

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The conversation won't move forward if nobody answers. So, Bump.

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Another way of putting it is - can you get sued for 'needy behavior'?

Answer the question, Leo. Is it, or is it not, legally punishable?

I'm gonna keep bumping this question until someone answers. I don't care.

Just answer the question. Is it illegal or not? Yes or no?

I'm not kidding, this is my actual question. Is it illegal to be needy or not? Is there a legal reason to 'not be needy'? Is 'being needy' a crime?

Mods, it's not illegal, right?!

@Consept You're not answering, so I'm assuming that you agree that it's not illegal.

Not illegal, right?

My question was more along the lines of 'What is this nonsense concept of 'neediness'?! WTF are people going on and on about 'don't be needy'?!' There really is no logic behind it, it's pure nonsense.

And yet here you are, spouting it as a scientific fact. It's a dogma that's held by the entire online dating-world and it has totally destroyed dating. It's making people less and less straightforward with each other about what they want. There is a special place in hell for people who propagate this lie.