pablo_aka_god

I've been using Notion for 5 years but I am concerned with serious issues like privacy and the feeling that I don't really own my notes since they are stored in their servers eg: they could change the policy or pricing at any time and lock me out of my content if I don't pay or what if they decide to delete old files on free accounts to save storage and I never read the policy update until they already deleted my old data? or what if I get banned bc of some policy violation?. Also it's incredibly slow. I'm trying Obsidian right now and the first thing I noticed is a huge speed upgrade. and the fact that I own my notes because they are stored in my computer and I can read as .md files and backup them up with any method I prefer is giving me peace of mind. I plan to slowly transition to Obsidian during the next month

@Emerald Thanks for writing this. I found it very enlightening.

@PenguinPablo idk, I'm just contemplating the problem. We need way more research in this topic so each sex can emphasize more with the other. I think that's a good starting point. We have a huge lack of empathy from both sides. IMO the avg woman is way less emphatic with men than the other way around, probably just bc they don't need to be due to having more options and men may be more empathic only due to a lack of abundance. If I'm not empathic with the girl I'm dating. I'll have to wait months before getting another one, so I better be careful. (maybe this is fake empathy?)

Also I've been taking Leo's LP course for the last year and a half and I'm still 50% through it. I don't want to rush it, I really want to learn from it I think it's more effective to do it once even if it takes 3 years than to rush it in 6 months and learn little and having to come back years after. Since I started I went from no clue to 3 possible paths from my LP: 1- work in med tech building health products and research with AI. 2-ed-tech, develop new learning technology 3- AI research and development of new technology that will be used to improve the performance of many products and systems, specially if can improve the performance of products in the realm of 1. and 2. I'll see where life takes me in the next few years. Today I already have work contracts in projects on areas for 1 and 2.

I don't know how deep I should go in this journal for fear of ever being personally identified and regretting making my more intimate thoughts public so I will save the parts I might regret talking about to my paper journal. I'm both seemingly on track with my life and also have fear about how boring my life is becoming. I'm 30yo. maybe this part of maturing? in 2025 was the best year for my learning! I'm blown a way for how much I was able to succesfully manage and learn this year: - first half I went through the disillusionment phase of my GF. had a few mind blowing trips, sex and experiences with her that were the best in my life. I fully took in a lot of learnings from her like a new approach to learning were rather than focusing on learning one thing at a time w a lot of pressure you take on manny learning projects. and learn lots of things in parallel, it's ok to be bad at all of them. I do it for the fun. I learnt to relate with other cultures and people who come from poorer parts of the city. I learnt not to fear or stigmatize people that had a very hard past of poverty and violence and who now have a strong personality. I learnt to detect lies and manipulation. to make myself vulnerable to my GF and to have the courage to let her go when I saw no future together. I learnt that I am capable of having a hot GF. - I recovered my dad's house which was occupied by previous tenants who didn't want to leave and my dad wasn't able to evict them. This house is now the home of my 2 sisters and nephew. - I moved to a cheaper area, saved the most money in a year I ever did, and learnt to manage my finances. - I learnt the value of my family and I now spend more time with them. - I learnt that my closest friend for the last 5 years has been manipulating me and lying to me all this time while portraying himself as a high consciousness person. he's totally delusional, thinks superior to others bc he says will start a multimillion dollar company, has been trying since I met him 5 years ago, he has nothing to show because he's very lazy and spends most of his time watching personal development videos and tonny robbins programs! He became addictive to personal development to the level where he avoids real work and hides under the cheap dopamine you get from listening to a rich guy on YT saying you will be rich and famous. All this time he re contextualizes reality to make himself believe that he will succeed. He cares more about looking good and cool than doing real unsexy work. What a plot twist! what a fucking re contextualization, the person that sold himself as the highest conciousness individual in my life and superior to others was actually a delusional tonny robbins hooker who can't get any real work done and spends his day trash talking others. Took me 5 years to open my eyes for this. He has a very high IQ so the level of BS he gives is top notch. He's not just an avg joe saying he will be a multi-millionaire. Also I was a little naive, and really wanted a new friend when I moved to the city, so he filled this spot. he was my wing in a pickup course, so the relationship was useful for me bc we would go out together. until this year when started to see under the curtain. - I learnt that a different friend who sometimes is an asshole and a complicated person can also be a real person. maybe it's an asshole but at least its real and that deserves some respect! Keeping this friend in spite of his rough edges has been a great thing in my life, I realize it's a good person w rough edges and complicated parts. People are complex! - Learnt to surf, Portuguese, to spend 2 weeks alone and enjoy it, I'm learning BJJ and chess. - Had an 8 day trip with my mother only the 2 of us! and connected w her at a level I was never able to do. All these things mentioned required emotional investment and I grew a lot from them. Things I feel not untrack with: Sexual relationships: I've been working on this for the entire year, after I broke up with my GF and spending some time to process the situation I immediately started doing DAYGAME and using Tinder. Since June to today I cold approached 191 girls. Since June I banged 3 girls: one from cold approach and 2 from Tinder. But I've been stuck in a sexless plateau for the last 2 months and I fear not being able to get out. I'll keep this research in my personal paper journal

the lower we go it becomes more interesting. Women in the 50th percentile may struggle to get a quality relationship similarly to how a 50th percentile man struggles to get sex. Who struggles more? I don't know. Women will say their life is harder, men will say theirs is harder.

The level of men who can have plenty of sex without investing most of his time optimizing for it play on a same level as a top 20% woman(physically speaking), this women have plenty of quality options for a relationship. It's below the top 20% for women and top 10% for men where it becomes a mess.

LOL! that's what I meant! it can just happen for the top 3% of men. Everybody else must invest (often a lot) on it or be an incel.

I agree, also the only men who deliberately try to sleep with a lot of women do it because otherwise they won't get any sex. Or they are deeply traumatized bc they were incels in the past. They only times I've had decent amounts of sex where when My life moved around trying to get sex, else I become an incel. Not being able to get sex is deeply traumatizing

The way he wrote that tweet is so creepy! this proofs they don't care 2 cents for the well being of society,

@LordFall I'm curious about how do you date globally? Could you share some insights? maybe in private if don't want them to be public? I'm also 30Y, work remote and spent some time dating in other countries but at the end I always comes home cause I miss my home and family. How do you do it?

I feel there is power in being able to enjoy loneliness. Last month spent 2 weeks alone in a beach town without working, TV or computer and came back much more confident and grounded. I can now be in a room full of people and stare at the wall without talking to anyone and feel no pressure to talk. feels nice

Both men and women are equally superficial but in different ways. Men wanting a hot woman is no more superficial than women wanting high status men. We need to stop blaming men for liking big butts and putting women on a place of superiority as if they cared more about the inside beauty of a person. They take longer to decide if they are attracted because they are gauging the status and safety of the man and that takes longer than just looking at a body. We both care about inside beauty only after we are receiving the sexual value we crave. That's ok, there is no one to blame, it's just the way we are wired. Society would be a better place if both sexes were more honest about that. First We are all superficial and selfish creatures

Trying to maximize health constantly becomes neurosis at some point. There is a sweetspot where someone can be very healthy and also not a robot and my thesis is someone like this will even live longer than the robot.

It's a really useful experiment what BJ is doing, we'll see how long all that tech affords him to live and learn from it. I don't envy his lifestyle and the guy doesn't look very happy. But the fact that he has donated his life to become a lab rat and share it in public deserves respect.

I've cold approached around 1K women and still single. My sex life improved. it's not great but i'm no longer an incel as I used to be 5 years ago. I keep going. Thinking I have to find a GF by X date or approach number Y never worked for me and I tried it for years. I'm starting to entertain the idea that I may die alone and keep cold approaching even in my 50s, so I still have 20 years to get good at it. Imagine the possibilities after 20 years of game? We were brainwashed since babies to find a GF and get married otherwise we are worthless. at 30 I'm starting to challenge this assumption. if I build a great business, create great products to live behind, help my family, travel and sometimes have good sex w strangers, is this life inferior to one where I focus on a life partner?

I loved the way you wrote your report! Are you a writer? Can you share some tips for writing such a beautiful report? I'm taking a trip this weekend after 2 years without any psychedelics.

I've had this idea of building an AI that does the chatting for me on Tinder and Instagram and can close dates in cafes. We have the technology for building such thing. it would load a lot of books and principles of pickup in an AI agent. I don't want it to lie, just engage the girl for me since I get matches but can't generate engagement over text. if it worked for myself I could sell this as a product for other guys. is this unethical? I know a lot of people would judge me for building such thing. but do they have a legit point? What if a girl dates a nice guy that is bad at texting thanks to this technology?

@Schizophonia How do you meet women? I agree that Tinder sucks but if it weren't bc of Tinder I would still be a virgin. I do cold approach during the day but the vast majority of my lays have always come from Tinder.

LMAO!!! where do I purchase one of these? asking for a friend.

If rather than doing the chat autonomously the bot acted as a copilot helping the guy improve his texts before sending then that would be green level marketing, I think?

Deception is selling one product and the client getting a different/inferior quality product. it's orange stage marketing

Make up is not deceptive IF she will wear the same makeup when she goes on dates with you, if she has a 5K production on her profile pics but she meets you wearing a 20$ production. she deceived you. IMO AI Bots are deceptive at the same level as when you date a woman that looks much worse than her pictures.

Common sense here gets you 98% covered. if you lay a college girl/boy from a good family. chances of getting an STD are virtually 0. If you lay very promiscuous and uneducated people I'd be more careful. I've experienced unprotected sex with strangers during my 20s and it was really nice, always applying the common sense rule. Still I could have ruined my life w an undesired pregnancy. but here I am: healthy and w no children. Now in my 30s I'm more careful. not caring can be fun but won't get me far if I keep doing it

Would love to hear real stories of which of you went through the entire pickup process with full intent for some time and found a great life partner thanks to it. One of my best friends found his GF while he was doing daygame every single day. I've personally have gotten laid w 8 girls from DG and 1 from Nightgame. but haven't found a GF yet. I want inspiration!