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And you are as well. I have read many of your forum posts and I realize how closer you are to the truth. I can tell that your awareness is high, much higher than my own in some sense even though I realize even if it were the same our perspective of it or interpretation would still differ by degree. But yes what you said is true, our beliefs are the gravity that holds everything and grounds it. You could say that belief IS what creates the illusion of separation and is the building block of your identity. Essentially if you could truly identify with the infinite the dream would end. You are correct that belief is bondage, just as identity itself is bondage. Based on what you just said when we say God is infinite, this means God has no identity and God cannot be expressed in words, as every word is itself an identity. This means God cannot be defined, identified, or has any meaning. Because God is no thing, God can be everything. When God creates identity, God creates a limit and as you say can experience meaning. This is the only way that God can have experience through beliefs. So God must forget its true nature and take on a belief and through that belief God takes on form and identity. This is truly a mindfuck. LOL.

Every story you create becomes true. Because you create your reality. Everything you have ever experienced was your creation so ultimately there is nothing or no person or entity to blame but you. You are the highest authority so everything is your FAULT per se. But if you were aware of how your divine being looked at life....you would realize that your divine being sees its creation as good and all of life as good, and every event as good.

Yep hello PenguinPablo how are you doing? Yes Enjoy the Show!!!

I agree with everything you said except for...."there are people out there that will bring the worst out of you." Nobody can bring the worst out of you, your selfishness causes you to react to their selfishness and that is why it was brought out. If you only spend time with people that make you feel good, you will rarely grow as a person. All you are doing when you engage in that behavior is making life easier for yourself (which is fine) but you are not improving your ability to deal with difficult people. As a result you will continue to struggle to deal with difficult people and they are EVERYWHERE. The only real way to avoid people like that is to become a hermit as they are everywhere. People are only difficult because they are selfish, and the benefits of dealing with them are enormous for personal growth! 1. Selfish people are really good at revealing your shadow!! You learn about the parts you repress or hide from REAL QUICK dealing with them. 2. Selfish people teach you tolerance and how not to judge others. 3. Selfish people teach you how to communicate effectively in a respectful manner. 4. Selfish people teach you how to erect and maintain healthy boundaries. 5. And most of all they teach you PATIENCE, and how to love as God with unconditional Love!!! I have discovered that difficult people get you closer to God, because their behavior is so selfish that ONLY GOD could love them LOL. Caution: I would not advocate most people do this, as if you are not mentally tough enough you could suffer low self-esteem, co-dependency, and a whole host of other mental illnesses.

Completely agree with this entire quote. Can't really argue with that. Way to drop the hammer on this entire forum topic. LOL.

I'm so glad I found someone with the same idea as me. So refreshing. True equality is Men and Women working together. But it seems to me evolutionarily speaking our biological genes have not caught up with modern social conditions.

There is something I have learned that I think is interesting and it can reveal some things that people do not realize. 1. Experience is imagination. When you learn that reality is a dream, you also learn that there is no TRUE difference between your dream and reality since reality itself is a dream. The only difference, like everything in this fricken dream is the difference in DEGREE. The dream you have is more loosey goosey or as someone in another forum once said it LACKS the FREQUENCY of what we deem to be REAL. 2. Now if everything is ONE, there is no actual difference if I awaken or if you awaken as we have learned the true nature of the dream is GOD. Hence Leo actually admitted that he is the only existence and so any teaching he is doing is just him TEACHING himself. 3. You have convinced yourself that you need a pill to have an awakening, or that it takes decades of meditation to reach awakening so a SHORTCUT is a magic pill. What you fail to understand....is that your BELIEFS create reality itself. So if beliefs CREATE reality....why would you NEED an experience to create that reality. The first rule of Spirituality is you NEED NOTHING. If you are GOD you NEED NOTHING. This is one of the BIGGEST TRAPS. You do not NEED a magic pill to reach ANYTHING. YOU CREATED THE MAGIC PILL, how do you NEED something that you can CREATE? The CREATOR does NOT NEED its creation. This means you can AWAKEN to GOD THROUGH ANY AVENUE. You can AWAKEN THROUGH MENTAL MASTURBATION if you WANT. What Leo teaches in his videos he just believes the pills are a MORE EFFICIENT avenue. He has admitted that some people are BORN enlightened and some people are BETTER at meditation than others NATURALLY. What led him to the pills if you pay attention was his desire for EFFICIENCY. He did not want to waste his whole life discovering the answer and as a result that route opened up to him. But thinking this route is the best way is itself a trap. I'm sure if Leo has more awakenings he will eventually awaken to this fact. If you are GOD, you have no LIMITS. This means that ANY AVENUE is EQUALLY good and any supposed LIMITS are PLACED ON YOU, BY YOU. In all of my research into the true nature of reality I keep coming back full circle to one ABSOLUTE TRUTH. Whatever Identity that God assumes, becomes God's LIMITS. Your identity is created from your CORE BELIEFS. So as God whatever you believe to be TRUE will be TRUE in YOUR REALITY. Until you can grasp this....you will continue to fall in traps.

1. Don't overthink. This will cause you to hesitate and you will come across as uncomfortable or nervous. The BIGGEST killer in interactions with women is nervousness. Some nervousness is okay, you can even joke about being nervous as a tension breaker. But if you stutter, mumble, and fidget the whole interaction she will want to run FAST and AWAY. 2. Understand that women are ALL about the PRESENT MOMENT. They are all about VIBE, which is the ENERGY they are picking up from you. Here are some pointers to help you. > Always assume she finds you attractive, drill this into your mind over and over to loosen you up. >Ask questions and get her talking about herself. EVERYONE loves talking about themselves. >If she is shy or shallow and doesn't know how to conversate much then either ask her what her interests are or take her someplace where you can DO something. Dancing, bowling, skating, the EXPERIENCE is what women chase EVERY SINGLE DAY. Women want to EXPERIENCE life and enjoy EVERY ASPECT of it. They ideally want a MOVIE of a life but will settle if you can still somehow make hanging with you INTERESTING. It is NEVER one thing for a woman, it is the TOTALITY of the EXPERIENCE but there ARE some deal breakers. Here are some. <Smell, if she doesn't like your smell it can be a deal breaker. Not always but usually. <If you talk too much and don't allow her to express herself. <Bad energy, like I said VIBE IS EVERYTHING to them Good luck!!

This entire topic is ego, and anyone demonizing the people of the Alpha/Beta community or looking down on them is engaging in ego stroking. All of us at one time or the other were influenced by the social hierarchies that exists around us. Not saying we agreed with it or liked it but we were. Spirituality like life is a JOURNEY and the perspectives we have now we had to GROW to learn them. Anybody that isn't at your maturity level is not there simply because they are not as mature as you. Its a process, and it differs with each individual. Some people will spend their entire life and NEVER reach your maturity level. So consider yourself lucky that you can see past the illusion of society. Does Alpha and Beta exist? YES. If we are talking Spiral Dynamics its part of the Red Phase. Human Societies are inherently selfish and egotistical. Research suggests that in American society for example people who score higher in Dark Triad traits which are markers of Narcissism, Machiavellianism, and Psychopathy are more likely to be promoted, picked as leaders, more successful at dating, and wealthier. So if you pay attention to what most of these people in the Red Pill Community call ALPHA: They are traits highly associated with Dark Triad traits. Now many men are confused as most have been raised to be gentlemen which is the complete OPPOSITE of these traits. Understand that for thousands of years of Human history we had to survive in NATURE. Majority of the conquerors that went around conquering stuff and ruling stuff were REALLY HIGH in Dark Triad Traits. Look up Machiavelli and the book he wrote called the Prince. It teaches the reality of power and how it has been obtained throughout human history. Now we all know in the spiritual community that what I stated above was all ego, but ego is the mechanism that has pushed humanity to survive. Masculinity, as it is expressed in Humans is mainly about SURVIVAL. This is why the more spiritual you become, the less masculinity you will express as Masculinity is mainly about Order, Control, and Power. To reach God, you have to submit all your desire for power and control, you must submit your life. It's why Jesus once said "It is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of heaven." He wasn't saying rich people couldn't see God. He is saying the desire to AMASS riches will distract you from EVER LOOKING INWARD.

Mine is Danioover9000. They are just as impressive as the people they named.

BOTH men and women are doing this, its pretty much so rampant that almost every love story told in movies and t.v. shows uses this trope. Heck I'm even doing that, because the truth is the "right person" is actually an illusion. There is no "right person" there is only a person who is willing to be committed to making a relationship successful. Most people enter relationships because they do not feel whole. Then when they enter they dump on their partner their psychological issues and trauma (their shadow) on their partners. Most modern relationships are contests of selfishness. When in reality they should be competing to serve each other. Anytime I talk to people in relationships they always complain "This person is always doing this, this person is always doing that. Why won't they do this, they should do this." When you ask them what THEY could improve upon? CRICKETS. Anyway collectively we could culturally focus on in Movies and T.V. shows mutual respect for both sexes and focus on supporting each other. But hey drama sells so it will be awhile before this becomes mainstream but it will one day after things get bad enough.

I pretty much agree with everything you said...but what I have learned is differing maturity levels creates issues. While I believe what you state is the most mature option.....most people would disagree with it. Also I want to address this illusion that people have. I often heard people say attraction is not a choice. Upon reflection at my own life and the life of others I have learned that attraction IS a choice. When I hear women say that certain behaviors are NOT attractive and then 20 years later say that SAME behavior IS attractive (also some men as well)it has taught me the power of our core beliefs which make up our identity. So when I hear people CLAIM that something isn't attractive I say year ACCORDING to your BELIEFS. For us as a society to get rid of this double standard we would need to change the definitions and labels for what is expected for men and women in relationships. Modern Dating is a HUGE OVERHAUL of thousands of years of male to female relationships. The only reason we are having these issues is a result of the OLD MAPS and TRADITIONS not being as applicable anymore. These issues do not even exist in traditional countries lol.

Most of what Sadhguru teaches is not what he truly believes. He teaches what he teaches to reach the masses. If you notice Leo teaches what he teaches REGARDLESS if people like it or not and doesn't sugar coat or water down anything like Sadhguru. The TRUTH is the most dangerous thing in the world. NOTHING is more dangerous than truth, that is why every civilization is built on lies. It is why every relationship you have ever had is full of lies. It is why the one person you lie to the MOST is YOURSELF. The only reason psychology, therapy, and self-actualization even exists is to EXPOSE THE LIES YOU TELL YOURSELF. Once you realize that anything that is popular is watered-down then you will realize why Sadhguru is so popular. He is easy on the Ears, doesn't say anything controversial enough to scare you. With Sadghuru you have to read between the lines. 1. He tells you that the creator/universe is inside you. 2. So how could the universe not care about you if your CORE is the universe? 3. When you ask what love is Leo already explained it, love is creation, love is existence. Think about it, whatever you love, you are attracted to, you desire, and you will protect because you desire it to exist. So love IS existence, Love IS creation. So its not just some human emotion, its what existence is. You are MADE of love. Even if you want to move away from that analogy the act of sex is an expression of love and through that union you were born. So CREATION IS LOVE. If you really want to know the truth watch Leo's video on what is Devilry, What is self-love? And you will have everything you need to answer those questions. God is ABSOLUTE LOVE, TRUTH, KNOWLEDGE, and WISDOM.

So I know a lot of people online on different websites discuss Manifestation (Lucid Dreaming), and I just wanted your thoughts on it. I respect the opinion of this community Leo started so I wanted to hear your perspectives out of curiosity. My search for truth has taken me to many places and this is one of many reputable sources of truth I have found so feel free to fling away all the golden knowledge you are holding towards me.

........Why do you care so much about making mistakes? Do you REALLY think women friendzone guys and cut them off because of mistakes? I will give you a hint since it doesn't seem you have noticed this. Women base all interactions with men on "VIBE." It has NOTHING to do with MISTAKES (unless the women has emotional issues and if that's the case be thankful it didn't work out) women are naturally more INTUITIVE than us men on average. Women can FEEL a man's inner thoughts, and emotions. Women are more sensitive than us men to stimuli. They read body language, tone of voice, emotion, and interpret that information in the form of an emotion. Based on that woman's maturity level, her culture, and image of what a man should be she will compare you to that. Stop thinking its mistakes, all a woman cares about is the VIBE she is getting from you. The only real mistakes I have ever seen throw a woman off is lack of knowing what to do sexually. Outside of that, if the VIBE is good SHE IS GOOD.

This is false and no offense but it lets me know that you have not stuck with anything long enough. By definition if you spend 10,000 hours of deliberate practice on ANYTHING you WILL MASTER it. There are things I was TERRIBLE at but put forth the effort and MASTERED. So just reading this lets me know that you have NOT stuck at something long enough. Deliberate practice means you do what is called iteration. You try something multiple times while keeping track of your results. If you understood how learning happens you would KNOW that you could do it. How do we know you can do it? Easy YOU are LITERALLY the EVIDENCE. I'll explain. 1. You learned how to read, write, and I'm sure walk. If you KNEW how INCREDIBLY hard it is to LEARN a LANGUAGE, HOW TO WRITE PROFICIENTLY IN that language, and how hard it is WALK you would not say what you are saying. 2. If you lost the ability to walk and had to RELEARN IT, you would understand how SMART you are. 3. If you tried to learn a new language and write proficiently in said language you would recognize how SMART you are. 4. The truth is right now you DO NOT want to BOTHER with the PROCESS and want to legitimize it as NOT DOABLE so you can feel better. If as a toddler you thought the way you are currently you would never know how to read, walk, or talk. If only we didn't carry the doubts and fears we have in adulthood and were as ignorant as toddlers we would learn EVERYTHING!!! Recognize how your fear is holding you back.

All of life is image, its imagination, its a dream. You are just God masquerading as a human. As a human your imagination is God's power of creation. Without you realizing it you are manifesting what is within in your outside world. You are creating your body, your house, your car, and the people around you. You are just NOT aware of how you are doing it. The point of studying reality is to make yourself AWARE of how you are doing it. To Lucid Dream is to be aware that you are dreaming and to change it according to your will or intention. The truth is all the time you are doing this based on your beliefs, and the strength of your beliefs will determine your experience of reality. Since you said you cannot manifest things, in your experience you will NOT notice that you are doing it. But if you pay attention.....you will notice.

Mind sharing what amazing results you had from Fred Dodson's work? I'm currently watching him right now.

Sigh.....I really do not like these spirituality games you are playing. But since you want to play...play we shall. 1. You aren't real, so even you correcting me or claiming I'm misunderstanding doesn't exist. 2. God is creating this dream, whatever God creates DOES exist since it is made up of God. We only say it doesn't exist because it is God's dream. God creates through imagination so we are all in the dream. 3. Everything you just did was a waste of time since in your own words there are no goals, and its all imaginary anyway. You also said there was no right way yet you took the time to correct me. 4. Since infinity is a paradox, everything is a paradox and is both meaningful and meaningless. 5. We could go on and on in this manner which is why I avoid these spirituality games some of yall play. I almost think its TROLLING at this point but if you must.....

Seriously where have all these wonderful insightful people such as you live cause I would move there!!!! Great Post I had a similar experience and I agree with everything you said!!! Suffering is indeed a blessing in disguise. I am not sure how I made it so far without finding out the ultimate truth but somehow God (higher self) kept me motivated to keep pursuing. I learned that logic had a limit (because everything is infinite you could study ANYTHING FOREVER) and that there has to be greater truth that I had been missing. Anyway I truly believe that everything happens in steps for a reason to prepare us, so as you said suffering is there to give us the opportunity to awaken. I truly believe that suffering is a privilege that is only appreciated with DISTANCE!!! Anyway great post I love people like you on this forum!!

So much wisdom here!!! Your response reveals a road well travelled!! It was a joy to read this, and also a joy to meet a fellow traveler!! I tip my hat to you!!

The best advice I can give is to seek to understand why you have suffered. It has nothing to do with karmic debts, or anything like that. Second understand that suffering is the nature of reality as long as certain internal conditions exist. Emphasis on internal conditions, NOT external conditions. You are the HERO in your STORY. So craft whatever story you desire.

Yep pretty much this. I only get acne when I eat a whole bunch of junk food.

Saying to toss out the bathwater is itself EGO. I keep seeing people make this mistake. The best way to recognize the ego is that the ego is addicted with activity, and the ego demonizes and angelifies. So one of the tricks the ego will do is say: ONLY EMPTINESS IS CLEAR!! Destroy the ego!!! God is unconditional love so for God the ego is neither bad nor good in fact the ego is absolute love since everything God creates is a representation of absolute love. God created the ego so God could forget it was God and enjoy the dream. To ego, anything that is a barrier to what it desires is BAD. So if you desire awakening then the ego is barrier and is bad. For many....the last barrier to reaching FULL GOD realization will be to love their ego.

You always determine your value. You allow something outside of yourself to determine your value, you will never be able to raise your value. Besides value itself is an illusion. Depending on the culture and social environment you live in your value will fluctuate. Your value in one country will be different in another and vice versa. Then there is a thing called social proof. Research shows that a woman's evaluation of a man changes based on how others evaluate them. Its why Men who are successful and popular automatically attract women. This means that women are HEAVILY influenced by outside stimulus in regards to how they evaluate a man. It's why I say, a woman drops all logic if you can make her feel the emotions she wants to feel.