Razard86

1. You don't need time to perceive space. 2.I took our gravity because I realized that gravity is a creation of the senses as well. So that was my mistake but gravity is an illusion as well. 3. All experience is illusionary. If we are talking from the relative sense gravity is real but time is a human, societal construct. Humans are the only animals that have a concept of time, and notice how everything still happens the way it needs too. We created time to synchronize our movements.

Saying time exists is like saying a foot exists. A foot is a concept, time is a concept. I can put a drug in your system....and you would lose your sense of time. Your sense of time is just the synchronization of life you feel. Time is just measurement of change. If you are in a dark room and you lose your other senses like touch, smell, taste, you wouldn't have time. For time to exist it would have to be something tangible outside of your senses. But if you have sensory deprivation then there would be no time in your reality...which proves the point...time isn't real.

This post reminds me of this. https://existentialcomics.com/comic/102

Reality reflects whatever we believe in. Since he believes in curses...they are real...FOR HIM. Obviously won't be real for us unless we give power to that belief. I've had crazy visions before but now they won't effect me anymore because my beliefs are grounded. Without beliefs that are grounded....people can allow some crazy things to take place in their life.

@Leo GuraSo what are you saying Leo? I watched your video on Death before. Should I watch it again? I'm definitely confused on this one what you are communicating. Mind explaining? I'll give an example. Obviously I know I can't die because I'm not the body. But let's just say for example's sake I'm in a terrible accident and I'm beheaded. In my experience... after my recent car accident when my attachment was loosened I could feel I was not my body. So I would assume in this example my body would fall and I would just be observing it as if a spoon falling from a table top. Or am I missing something? What are you saying would happen?

You actually believe time exists?......sigh.... https://www.amnh.org/exhibitions/einstein/time/a-matter-of-time But we don't even need that....time is just a measurement, all measurements are imaginary. People like us who believe in physics know that the distinction between past, present and future is only a stubbornly persistent illusion. - Albert Einstein.

I agree with everything instead of this one line. It is not a man's requirement to engage in Masculine Containment. He is perfectly fine being by himself and living alone. But everything else I agree with. Also the Masculine Containment Principle is currently in a state of crisis in modern society in dating. While I do agree it works the social and economic conditions and roles of modern society has blurred the lines of that principle and will make it much tougher to create and maintain. Alot of toxicity in relationships between humans comes from mainstream media. Your chances of avoiding such relationships will be based on how independent your partner is from these aspects of mainstream media. The secret is with authenticity you can obtain the heart of anyone. But....because of conditioning they may be to egoic to return the favor. I have learned that people aren't toxic on purpose, they are lost, confused, and full of so much fear/trauma that they cannot even perceive basic reality properly. When I see people complain about gaslighting, lol the narcissist gaslights themselves that is why they gaslight you. They are so full of fear they cannot self-reflect. Anyway until collectively humanity fixes how they construct their social values dating is only going to get worse.

Totally agree, your post shows much maturity.

Anyone here with experience writing fictional content will understand this, or individuals with a psychological background will grasp this easily when it comes to understanding oneness in this example. Harry Potter is J.K. Rowling. For an author to create a character they create the character based on their beliefs about how something should manifest or be. J.K. Rowling had an idealized version of how a main character that is a Wizard should be and created Harry Potter. Harry Potter represents an aspect of J. K. Rowling or a partition. With that being said, you, me, and all of creation in the Universe are just aspects or partitions of Universal Mind. In the same way you can look at every character in the Harry Potter series as an aspect of J.K. Rowling, so are we aspects of Universal Mind. Now if you can understand that Universal Mind is your mind, then everything you see is you. The character that is you (the human you identify as) along with everything you see is the aspects or partitions of God's mind. Which is your mind. Just an interesting way of looking at it.

So basically Leo wants to be Buddha...... he's going at himself pretty hard with all these improvements... maybe next year around this same time he will have a halo glowing behind him!!! LOL. Leo's greatest fear how his teachings are interpreted. https://existentialcomics.com/comic/102

Lol thats called being a player or spinning plates which can get tiring eventually. You would also need to drop those women before they get attached or you get attached.

Sure thing, its funny I shared them a month ago and had a guy attack me trying to discredit me. We all have talents right? My talent is as a researcher. I can find an answer if I want it bad enough. I won't say I'm perfect but I'm good at recognizing my biases and calling myself out. Anyway first thing needs to be understood. No matter how good an expert is not every teaching style/perspective is compatible with you. These books helped me in my direct experience and was verified as well by both men and women by the authors and by people I interviewed. I read hundreds to thousands of articles, watched tons of videos, even spent money on courses in the past, these books are the creme de le creme to me on key specific aspects and these aspects are Attraction, Maintaining Attraction, and Conflict Resolution. When it comes to Attraction I find Rom Wills book Nice Guys and Players is the foundational book for the modern man. It simplifies key concepts and its short and it works. You can get his follow up book if you want Sexual Chemistry also but Nice Guys and Players is fundamental into understanding how women view men sexually/relationship wise. Next Book is Atomic Attraction. Atomic Attraction teaches how to keep a relationship interesting and how push/pull works. It also brings up a unique dynamic on how counterintuitive niceness and toxic behavior impacts women and how to find the median. You don't have to agree with how to do it, but you do need to recognize and understand this concept. Many men will claim women are dumb for this but I'll give you a unique insight I came too. Men are the same way. Women are like this in relationships with people, Men are like this in relationships with things. We all crave excitement and suspense, men just look for it in concepts/things, women in relationships. Lastly Conflict Resolution. This is the PEN/ULTIMATE book about Conflict Resolution I have used it and it works but it takes a willing ego...lol. This book is written by a former FBI Negotiator and teaches how to resolve all conflicts and create win/win results. It is Called Never Split The Difference. I'll send links when I get off work.

He doesn't "need" a girlfriend that's co-dependency. If you want to say he needs to get one to find out he doesn't need one then sure. But nobody needs a girlfriend or boyfriend, and if you think so...well you will find out from experience. Nothing wrong with wanting one, but you need to find out why you want one. Besides most men don't realize, as a man having a girlfriend puts you in a leadership role. Most guys want a relationship, but they don't want the responsibilities that come with it.

I am proud of you, welcome to Spirituality. I am proud to welcome you in. Only trust your direct experience. Now let's see if you can take the next step which is the step of curiosity. While trusting only your direct experience....are you open to testing what Leo is saying and discovering whether it is true for you? Because you cannot awaken conceptually. Concept is only important for 2 things. Integration, and grounding you when reality....stops making sense. A Spiritual seeker with proper conceptual knowledge has a better chance of not falling into derealization/psychosis and if they do have a better chance of recovery. But without the conceptual knowledge is akin to jumping into a bottomless pit with no map to make sense of anything.

In your rush to correct you didn't even read what I said. I called it a concept. A concept is not real. So when did I say it actually happens? If you paid attention when you talked about death Leo responded to you that is not how awakening works. Based on that you can interpret that as when people think they die, Leo is saying that is God awakening. He has also called Death Absolute Love which is what he also calls Awakening. Don't be so quick to correct unless you first understand.

....here we go again. You aren't suffering anything but your perspective. Derealization is the FEAR of what you know is true. Everything you said of being the only thing that is here, and that everything you see is illusion IS TRUE. The quote on quote mental disorder is the belief that is somehow bad. As long as you believe it is bad, you suffer. That's it!! The moment you realize how wonderful it is that it is an illusion you can't suffer it anymore. 1. You stop taking life so seriously, its a freaking illusion. 2. You stop judging it, because its illusionary. 3. You realize it is meaningless, so you can give it WHATEVER MEANING YOU WANT. 4. Because it is an illusion you are totally free, that is true freedom because it is not real!! 5. You are in the greatest virtual reality ever created, if I made a virtual reality that was very real you wouldn't suffer because you know it is illusionary. If you could apply the same perspective to what you call your life...then no more suffering. But you can't, you don't want your entire life to be an illusion. That scares you, which means you are still too attached, and you still think your ego is you. This also means you are very selfish and care too much about your fake identity that you think is you.

@Leo Gura based on your responses awakening= the concept of death. When someone quote on quote dies they are really just awakening.

I get what you are saying....you can become so smart/logical that it blocks you from the illogical nature of reality. The basis of nature is beyond the limits of logic as you have said logic was created by infinity. Logic is a limitation. If you refuse to give up logic you will never reach God. The Spiritual Path is really the path of the insane. Logic is based on survival and selfishness. Spirituality is about doing the opposite. Releasing all identity and exploring the unknown. But its hard for someone attached to reason to do it. I think I told you in the past my gateway video into Spirituality through you was the Everyone Operates From Good Intentions. I was only able to do that, through a leap of faith. It made me laugh because my first reaction was "this is B.S." but since I knew about bias from psychology I had an intuitive feeling to hear you out. Then when I pushed play you were like 'Most people would turn off the video at this point." I was like YEAH I ALMOST DID!!! Even after the video I was only half convinced but I decided to try to look at life from that lens as an experiment...and I saw it! So yeah...people who are too logical will suffer the confines of that logic. Love isn't restricted to logic, Love is for its own sake.

Yes we are selfish because we love ourselves. We don't want to change because we love the way we are. Facing death as you have revealed how much you love yourself. Isn't it wonderful to realize how much you love yourself exactly as you are? Your whole life has revealed to you how much you love yourself but we sometimes get distracted by situations and think we want them to change....when we really do not because if we did, we would change. We don't want to change, because we love the way we are. We have never done or been anyway opposite to who we wanted to be. We want situations to change, without being the change. Situations just reflect what we are, as long as we are too attached to what we are (identity) we won't get the change we desire. So we are selfish, because of love. Its all love. I'm glad you got to experience how wonderful you are!!! I'm sure your self-respect has jumped leaps and bounds and you saw the power of surrender. Femininity is so strong, because it shows how powerful trust, and release of control is to what is. A man cannot become God without embracing his feminine side and releasing his Masculine desire for control and acceptance to what is. If women want men to change....lol we need to bring back the rite of passage of old where men had to do these ceremonies in indigenous tribes.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EmUCcT16R00

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You are 26....you have plenty of time. Your 20's the time period you can make mistakes you are talking like you are 35 or 40!! Make music post it on youtube, ask people on the forums who like your music to comment or post likes. Do it for the love of the music and be amazed and what might happen.

Your insights have been great so for me personally you already have...even if you do have 666 posts number lol joke it doesn't mean anything. But yeah I learned that judgment was wrong literally earlier this year. Before then I thought judgment was valid. Overcoming judgment as a man is one of our toughest barriers, we have been trained from birth to be judgmental, controlling, labeling, rational, power struggling humans. It is at the core of our masculinity. We have to transcend that by integrating the feminine that seeks to dispel all judgment. Then we bring both sides into union. We learn to not judge, but still have the wisdom of discernment. We all develop at our own pace.

Like I told you before....you are not God realized. After my car accident in my direct experience it was revealed to me that you cannot feel infinite love because of your attachment to your body. This is why I told you, you cannot conceptualize God realization. To reach God realization you HAVE TO FACE DEATH. Your fear of death MUST be faced. This is not negotiable and is why Jesus said you have to be "born again." What he meant was die to self (ego death) and be reborn with a completely different outlook. I may not have had as deep awakenings as Leo but I know 100% you will exist after death and it will be infinite love. That I know for a fact because I experienced it. You have no clue how deep the rabbit hole goes. Spirituality is dangerous stuff, because to have the type of awakenings Leo has...you have to deconstruct your mind and the only reason you have a floor that you are walking on a ground is because you believe a ground exists. If someone could convince you 100 percent that reality was groundless....it would instantly become groundless. You ready to experience Infinity?

I'm really starting to feel like suicide is the most talked about subject on this forum outside of Spirituality. Its like either Spirituality or Suicide Ideation.....