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Hello! Yes I agree with some of the responses here that say that they don't want to feel "cold-approached" and that they build attraction through time( if the guy is at least close to how attractive I'm). However, I have a story that can tie all that together and can give you practical tips. So, the other day I was jogging with my friends in a big park. I noticed a good- looking guy jogging as well( he looked focused, down to earth, kind guy ). I wanted to somehow give to myself the chance to interact with him in a natural way. Suddently, I show him leaving from the park so I thought to myself now or never. So as he was leaving I go after him telling him " sorry I'm a bit lost do you know where the water filling station is? ". So he responded : " It is the opposite way, aren't you from this area?" . So I continued the conversation in an natural and human way by noticing stuff about him ,finding common interests and ground( I said we had a nice jogging session ) and creating an opportunity for him to show interest in a low-pressure way( e.g. I said so I went to the park near your house you haven't been to the park near my house😏). Eventhough he looked interested and open ,he didn't ask to exchange numbers,social media or something like "lets have a jogging session here next sunday " but I was satisfied with the interaction and I said "well goodbye now". So, this is how I would like to get approached as well. To summarize,the whole interaction had the following mentality 1) I purposefully choose him because I sensed that are vibes matched. 2) I created a common ground ( relevant to us topic with light attitude). 3) I felt good with myself (I cherished just the short interaction we had with no attachment to the outcome and I wished him well internally). 4) I gave him time to observe me and learn some things about me by the way I talked and expressed myself.

I totally understand what you are saying! Trust your intuition and own yourself! You know better! You came here to leave Your life. No Leo will tell you how to live your life! Maybe you just need to socialize more and just to put your self deliberately in more uncomfortable social situations. Why only if you sleep with the girl you gain confidence etc? I don't understand. You can approach as many as you want, tell jokes, flirt and go into groups, even talk to strangers and tell them random things in the streets. If you do what others say you will loose self-esteem and self respect!

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I didn't see the above video about incels but I just wanted to post this short video about mindset in approaching girls! It is hilarious ? I'm wondering if it would actually help

In your YouTube channel and in your Forum you are promoting the pickup lifestyle for every guy with no exceptions. Your reason behind that is that pickup is a great opportunity for growth in many areas and I get it. I agree. But why you give that advice to everyone even if they don't have problem attracting women? And why that lifestyle has to go for years and years..? I'm mean lets say 1-3 years should be fine.. Aren't you projecting your agenda and " karma " ( burn through karma) upon others? If you chase sex like that after so many years of growth couldn't you be considered as sexonaniac , narcissist, stuck in the lower chakras? And what about women? They are getting manipulated and they give themselves away just like that for some attention.. That's miserable.. Deep down at some point almost every one of them want devotion, caring etc. Some male qualities that you don't promote at all.. you promote only f@ck boys that are emotionally unavailable, have fear of commitment and use women as objects (orange stage type of thing). I know that you praise values such as commitment, meaning, depth, devotion, passion etc to the other areas of life( eg life purpose) but why not to relationships? I'm really confused with that because I can see the wisdom in you but i don't see why you don't even give the perspective of growth through a meaningful, deep partnership that is beyond co-dependence. Maybe, personally you are not interested in that but why don't you even validate it as a transforming process that requires to build some qualities. I would be glad if you @Leo Gura and the others share your view upon my perspective.