BlueOak

What would be three preferred ways for you to design or structure a stage turquoise reincarnation in your next life, if that was your main goal?

@Nivsch Sure. Everything you experience is you. You generate all of it. Not on a 'self' 1 to 1 logical I do this so I get this, or I want this so I get this. All the people, all the experiences—everything is you. This means you lose the self more and realise infinity more. Realising this may be different for you, as you have indicated in your last post to me. Steps before total realisation might be: 1) Your thoughts/decisions/actions create the future. Creating a pattern of events. (This pattern, like you, is infinite) 2) Everything is subjective. 3) The above two lines mean that you define and create your experience. 4) You react to your own decisions and emotions that you have decided or are having. 5) This means you represent reality entirely to yourself. 6) There is no reality but what you put there. All there is, is this experience. 7) Your emotions, actions, and decisions will shape you. And you are all that you experience. 8) Your emotions will change the actual reality that you generate, because it's you. 9) The more you are the infinite and accept it, not an illusionary self. Then the more you are infinity. You can see it play out in discussions, like here. I am reasoning partially from the self and partially from the infinite. You can see some posters using the absolute or infinite, and some reasoning more from the self. 10) I would say allowance and acceptance here is what I've been working on for several years, allowance and acceptance of myself was probably a lifelong process. ('Self' being both this personality and the wider reality that is me) Obviously, I am repeating things slightly here for clarification, but that's an example of everything folding into itself over time, where the details of how don't matter so much. A simple example would be a task you have to concentrate on at first, and then over time you find a simpler pattern of doing it. Of course, these steps are incomplete because I am still here talking to you ;). Well I am not 'here', because there is no 'here'. There's an experience.

It wasn't the quality of life I was talking about, just the result. I had a pretty poor first 25-35 years of this one, Why? Absolute Answer: | | Transition | Put something in here | Self Answer: Finishing a pattern. Though, as I've said, more of me wants to make this the last life than wants to do another one. Self-experience is realisation yes. The integration of the external to become the internal is a full step. That's how we realize we are whole. Well put. Thanks all.

To achieve the objective of the thread without going through 10 more reincarnations.

From the absolute perspective, yes. Yes there is nowhere to go. However, you could describe a place you are sitting or standing right now. So what we are talking about is the illusion of reincarnation, into the illusion of a human life. I understand this, but both of us chose it this time around Do you think it's horrible because it's so far out of alignment with the norm?

Events and patterns are constantly cycled for the self yes, with different appearances but the same meanings. My own events probably won't help you as they are lines through patterns of multiple lifetimes that made sense to me. For example, I had the past life experience of a ceremony at a circular stone temple laid out like a small open arena, in the front, the priest was performing a ceremony with fire to enchant the crowd. A few days later I found myself at an electronic show that a friend invited me to, we stood at a small circular stage, and it on was a man performing tricks with simulated holographic fire. I drew multiple meanings from this, but they were personal to my life at the time. I had several others experiences also that lined up with things I needed to see in life. Alongside repeating events, I gave myself historic dates that I could check when things happened. This was enough for me, added to my own methods of communicating directly with infinity for confimation, and prior to all of this the spiritual adepts that I came to respect. You may need other experiences or things to confirm your own inquiries, this was personally tailored to me, as all life is. I understand your intimation of constant change, and that we die every time we sleep. I feel this is overstated, but I do agree from the infinite perspective. As infinity is never a broken chain, it is constant. You might say: there is no past, no death, no life to begin with. However, I am describing patterns, and cycles from the perspective of the self, which are the only words I have to use. This is again coming to down to the two halves of the human experience, the infinite and the self.

I appreciate this, as well as being in an allowing state, acceptance is a good starting point on the emotional scale also. There would still have to be designed stages of development into the incarnation, but these are potentially improved or streamlined each lifetime because the pattern is simpler each time. @Keryo Koffa Yeah I've wanted to be in the pure realm of the mind for most of this life, with flashes of physicality to alter quickly as my reality does. I appreciate you posting these ideas up, thank you. This is my last life, but this was an interesting thought experiment. If I did this, I would be adding meaning to a void. Do past life regression hypnosis, you can do it to yourself if you wish. I gave myself events that mirrored things happening right now, so I would not doubt their authenticity. If you want to reincarnate effectively, you need to do it effectively.

Thanks for the answers. All there is is a blank space, and we fill it. There is no end because there was no start. There is nothing, just what you put there. We can put a life there, and we have done several billion times right now. If anything, we are overcrowded! You are alive right now, what are you gonna do? Keep surviving. Keep learning. Keep growing. Fail a lot, Keep going. What I usually do. How do I know reincarnation is true? Teachings of Adepts, personal experience and ultimately asking the larger me. How do I know I'll be a human in the next one? I'm probably not going to be. That's why I've decided before now and why i've generated these replies. There is a small part of me still wondering. Does Turquoise exist? Is it a valid model? Is it something I want? Why waiting for it? I find the model useful when paired with an emotional scale also. We are what we are in the moment. I can't make you a millionaire, happily married, or enlightened by clicking my fingers. It's a process. It's obvious you're constructing a castle out of thin air. Get to your roots and foundation, question yourself Everything is a castle in the air. While I appreciate your questions. You are showing me your own resistance here. Question your own bias as to how anything is 'obvious' about a reflection of yourself that you also generated to interact with. Do you think you have a habit of attracting obvious conversations or interactions? If so why? Questions answer and shape the outcome of reality. I have some, but its like a dab of watercolor on a painting, I usually default to yellow. When I am around collectives who are spiritual, yes, because it becomes a collective experience more easily. Thank you for helping me answer my question that makes sense.

So you'd structure a life that started in a philosophical or spiritual family who had those discussions. In any particular country or setting? You don't go anywhere There is no 'where'. *I should add I realise all stages are required, but I'm looking for ideas if I do go around again, to achieve or encourage the main goal.

Here are two or three: https://www.getleo.ai/About https://brave.com/leo/ https://iamleo.ai/ - This may just be a portal to one of the others.

You pick your focus much of the time. It's a current you can direct. Somedays it's external (which is still you). You had a large influence on the circumstance you are currently in, and the internal parts of you come up in the external, so as you alter yourself you alter the reality around you. I realise we are all in patterns but we alter them all the time.

No mind to me means no thoughts. Your infinite half. If you are in a boring or simple job, you can live in no mind by default for most of the hours. It's not difficult if you meditate. Gardening is great for this, but so is shelf stacking or cleaning up, for example. I live in no mind a lot of the time outside of work. There is a space, and then you feel the thoughts outside of that space, or just as flashes. Then some days you have a busy mind where there is no space, and you just shrug and indulge for a while until they settle. This morning I had a busy mind as my business idea is in its full planning stage (I really enjoy this time). I imagine this business will require a lot of thought programming hardware routes and learning a completely new skill, but then when its done and its automatic, they'll just be reminders to myself and more downtime. When I was working at the post office it required a hard mind, everything was focused and double-checked. There weren't many thoughts, but there was an intense focus on getting the amounts and procedures right when handling lots of money. When you said in the other thread it's thought battling thought, I felt like saying, yeah that's all it usually is. Ditto for a busy mind often.

I could quote you healthy secure attachment first. Because this is the ideal, not my personal life: 1) https://www.verywellmind.com/secure-attachment-signs-benefits-and-how-to-cultivate-it-8628802 2) https://positivepsychology.com/secure-attachment-style/ etc. Your question is a bit unclear. I'm not a woman so I can't answer for a woman. I think you mean what does attachment look like when I attach to a relationship? You are attaching to the relationship primarily; this is a key distinction I think you are personally missing, and that may help. I'm somewhat secure in my relationships, but I had a narcissistic parent and one who was codependent, so I got avoidant and anxious traits in there that slowly healed as I did. So my own relationships will only be of so much help as an example. I am supportive of my partner/woman. I consider their needs and my own, trying to help them where I can. I haven't reached the stage of considering their needs as my own needs as Teal Swan would say but I'm working on it. They would ideally be doing the same. I like to say a ride-or-die partner, that's got your back and you've got theirs no matter what. I can be happy with them, or on my own. I tend to feel in a healthy relationship, my life is enriched by having them there, in an unhealthy one it's the opposite. So ideally I look forward to the time with them, as I do my own time to relax. That's the attachment part in a nutshell, it's not required; it's just a better quality of life The avoidant part of me likes to completely break with people (and jobs, education, projects or anything), so I have space, which is why I am not currently dating. I made a promise not to hurt anyone again by repeating this pattern. I have somewhat healed this, but its still there. The anxious part of me, in my youth, liked to people please and feared negative emotions because, as a kid I used to get shouted at and beaten for them (ditto the avoidance patterns to hide). But I'm mid 40s now and not anxious about anything but keeping peace at work, because I've related (linked) survival to jobs and income. I don't know if that analysis helps you.

Depth, I hear people use it and understand it logically but Infinity doesn't have clear measurements like depth. This is a crossing point to the infinite, so it's more about getting out of one state into the other, or allowing more of your infinite state in. Allowance. Surrender. Big ones. A clear clean room free of electronics. Don't tire yourself out mentally before your meditation, TV, Computer, Games anything cerebral. Eat well, not junk food. Keep moving energy up the spine through yoga, taoism, or just good stretching exercises and meditation, from lower centers to higher centers. (Or the opposite if you need to ground.) Get a comfortable posture and temperature. You can meditate through anything (and it's good practice) but noise is still noise and best off without too much. Did I mention surrender and allowance? :D. Also add gratitude, joy, and love. These are things that happen to me. So you can see I don't really equate this to depth, just things that come. Movements of energy, either along the spine or building up in the mind like a heavy weight, this can be a download of information. Insights or Images. Seeing a purple vortex that looks like a cloudy tunnel, darker in the center and lighter on the outside, or sometimes a cloud flickering as if with distant lightning. I sometimes focus on allowing the day to go more smoothly, or balancing both halves of my mind and being. Out-of-body experiences. Infinite emotional experience. Shrinking or growing my awareness. Healing bodyparts. Setting an intent for something, or focusing on receiving an answer. Even if it comes later. I have become an infinite void, and seen the vortex cloud I see in meditation could be a point in space-time I am related to. There, I saw it as a giant green nebular. I think when I die I'll visit it as if it were a map. It seems significant. Someone once asked people who kept saying they are not incarnating on earth anymore, or if this is their last life, where are they going next then? It's a good question. Well, I have my answer. I've said before some people use a kneeling posture with elbows on the bed for balance, so they can collapse forward in deep states. I meditated standing up briefly a few days ago, I don't recommend it as you have to keep aware of your balance, but it was interesting. I also meditated eyes open while walking not long ago, just trying to balance the hemispheres of my brain before work. I should call this trying to recreate that state my mind goes into while meditating because obviously, it's a different process walking down the road, even if my hands/fingers are still touching in a complete circuit.

The more pro-capitalist parties were a better fit for America's corporate structure. The corporate structure chooses which leaders have successful campaigns. Its really that simple in America, and most of the world that have a strong capitalist foundation. You are correct that the people are the system also, and they lean authoritarian now much more than at any time in my lifetime. Socialism is demonized, and libertarianism is mocked, which means people cut off half of their realities and try to build on what's left: capitalism and authoritarianism. I agree people are sold the lie that cutting taxes for the rich benefits them. It'd be funny to watch the same old thing trotted out every time, if it didn't constantly cost me my quality of life feeding my money to billionaires so they can have another yacht, sports car, or their fifth luxury home. Plus now I have to deal with people cutting immigration, while complaining they are in poverty, reducing the number of workers to increase the age gap and put themselves further in poverty, so they can then blame immigrants! Although both leaders are corporate enough to be tolerated. Now I would say the Democrats are better for stability in business, now Joe and his aging mental state is retiring. Trump is way too unpredictable toward whatever whim is going on next, or whoever talks to him nicely, which is exploitable by anyone with half a brain, but stacks like a Jenga pile about to tip over. I would think if this was a more stable Republican, without all the legal troubles and rabble-rousing, you'd see a clearer rightwing victory. This is incidentally who he's trying to portray himself as now, but you can't change a lifelong image in a few months even with people's 5-minute attention spans. The internet always brings back old videos, images, speeches and controversies etc.

Here are two favorite oldies: Certainty is one of the six human needs, but so is uncertainty.

Love yourself yes. The concept of yourself you have in your head, your physical body, the actions you take. But also the girl on your phone, because that's also you, and that's why you are in a relationship. Assuming that is what we are discussing, not a casual hookup. If you are secure in your attachment to a person, then you are comfortable with them or without, it doesn't take you away from yourself or produce an unhealthy result, it does the opposite. That's what secure or stable means, that's a big chunk of what a healthy relationship is. You are describing an avoidant attachment style. I sympathize as I am. in part, an avoidant also. The video I posted will probably reflect you directly, and I suggest at least a viewing of the initial interactions. Here is more data. Avoidant: https://therapist.com/relationships/attachment-theory-styles/avoidant-attachment/ Secure: https://www.simplypsychology.org/secure-attachment.html If we want to go more meta, non dual etc. Love cannot be taken. You are love. You are always anchored to yourself.

Loneliness is an experience you are generating too. You are finding the loneliness within yourself and experiencing it. You don't have a default state you are infinity. In this reality, you can create an experience of yourself. If you want a joyful experience, you find the joy in yourself. If you feel this life lacks meaning, find meaning in yourself. If you want the experience of being connected, find the connections in yourself. You can have the complete opposite experience you are having now if you want to. You have the controls more now that's all, all that has changed is you've peeked behind the curtain a little. Infinity isn't ONE, or WHOLE either. Its everything. One, Whole, Many, Split, Blue, Red, Big, Tiny.

The last couple of decades: Leftwing Policies: What do you need? Rightwing Policies Who do we hate? Obviously, there is more to this, the right wing generally favored the wealthy and business, and the left generally favored the working class and worse off. That used to be true. Most are substandard policies because they are afraid of the word socialism, for example. https://www.politicalcompass.org/ Recently, the supposed left in most Western cultures have become center-right or rightwing parties, which explains dumb things like this: For something to be stable, it needs: Authoritarian, Socialist, Capitalist, and Libertarian pillars; the more of these it has in balanced quantities, the more effective it will be. Obviously the balance tips depending on the issue, but it still needs a balance. For example, the balance here in the video no matter the goal, is way off. Think about all the steps you could go through for an internet site or group, before you make a law. From social engagement with communities or therapies to closing the website or group, to better understanding the problem and helping individual people. (Teaching family values) No it's a law, and it's stupid. *This puts aside my bias of wanting to hear all views BTW, which is far preferable. If no calls to violence are being made, or criminal damage of some kind, then people should be able to express any opinion.

A pretty good summary, he expands on what I said with more information; there is not a lot new but it is well structured. For the Russians, a Mobilization from their preferred ethnicities or leaving the Donbas offensive.

Here are a few other perspectives, with a pro-Russian one at the bottom. Should leave Ukraine with some territory for trade, or at least a lot of damage to the Russian war infrastructure in the area.

Armenia leaves CSTO It's early for this news. but I've seen one pro-Russia source confirming it, but that's it so far. I imagine that much social unrest will suddenly happen in the country under pressure from Russia and BRICS, don't be surprised if that's the case. Two different sides of the story.

An Anxious Attachment Style: Video that might help: https://tealswan.com/legacyworkshops/n2018/stockholm1/?t=1330 More data: https://psychcentral.com/health/anxious-attachment-style-signs The video is specifically the kind of person you might attract, which might help to see the often attracted opposite (avoidant). YouTube has quite a lot of examples of Anxious Attachment styles, or the other types: like disorganized and avoidant etc. Hope it helps. For balance: It's not a bad thing to enjoy communication with someone you are interested in and look forward to them messaging you. That's part of a romantic relationship. I also understand anything can be taken too far, and if you crave and chase attention then yes that would be unhealthy. I felt it was important to try to put that in context for you.

I will say that if you meditate regularly and you have a busy mind-day, you can have thoughts and be peaceful at the same time, its almost like you have two minds at that point. The small chatter, but I can also feel the peace and my mind filling with an energy that feels like space or harmony which often stays with me through the day. I don't know what it is like for others, I tend to like to reach the color vortex, my mind's eye tends to be blue or purple when my focus is there.

Allow the thoughts for a while. Be present with yourself, don't need to run, or resist. Feel what's there, go through what is in your mind or body, and allow it to fully be expressed. Realise you are allowing these thoughts and feeling, and your focus determines them, so focus on letting go, acceptance, love, supporting, being a friend to yourself, or breathing (other examples: whatever you need - want - can learn from - assist with - reassure - help or be helped by). Bring your thoughts and focus to this, don't fight it, surrender to it. Get in a peaceful environment free of distractions, or at least a peaceful space. - Eventually, this matters less, but I still like the back garden as it is pleasant, anything remote near water, or the clean room with no electronics indoors. It is mostly allowance, and surrender. Giving the self to the selfless. Experiencing more of your infinite self, and feeling/experiencing/being that. It can start as simple as bringing the mind to your breathing, and allowing whatever happens to happen. Some days I have a lot on my mind too, and that's okay, I am there with it. Infinity is there alongside the bill I have to pay, the emotion I feel, or the thing I wish had gone differently. Peace is there too and you become the peace, the stillness, and surrender those thoughts, those feelings and stresses to yourself. Don't fight it though, or else you'll experience fight, the stress of resistance to what is.