Vercingetorix

Because without suffering you could not feel and appreciate the opposite of suffering - comfort, openness, expansion, relaxation.

@Karmadhi Where are you from? do you think you country is more moral than Israel? if Israel is as moral as Russia, why does in this conflict its Russia who supports Hamas and Ukraine support Israel? It seems to me that @DawnC is presenting you with many valuable question to help you understand the situation, and it seems to me that you are not interested in understanding the situation but just hating Israel. What hurts you so much?

What's the source to that? If you adhere to this kind of logic of "my actions are justified by the past", you must also think that Israel's Response to the massacre is justified. Otherwise you are holding double standards.

Abducted Israeli soldier was freed by IDF from Hamas captivity https://www.ynetnews.com/article/bj0119lpz6

good job!

The Tibetan Book of Living and Dying, Book by Sogyal Rinpoche

sounds good, I'm gonna try

@Leo Gura Would you trade all your knowledge, insights and spiritual experiences for good health?

@MihaiXx Oh shit that was painful to read. Too close to the similar experience I had and that I'm trying to forget Ignorant is truly bliss

If I'm God, and I have the ultimate unbounded freedom to create as I please, surely I can create other beings as myself, separated from me. Hence the world we live in with many different consciousnesses. Solipsism debunked?

Are there any video games that have deep, real spiritual/consciousness message to them? Isn't it the ideal medium (because of the element of choice you can implement) for showing and teaching the masses, especially the young about it? If there are no such games, why not create one? I think that may be my life purpose What should I study If would like to make such a project? all I have is a passion for spirituality, video games and a degree in physics

are they any good courses / channels for that stuff? TO be honest I want just to do the minimum to have a passable insta account.

@NoSelfSelf I don't mind putting effort to something if it's worth it. But right now I have other priorities. I'm looking for the 20% that brings 80% of the results. @LordFall Ok, You've convinced me to watch.

@museumoftrees but does it develop you? and what are the chances for becoming famous from Video games? I just want an IG to complement my cold approaches @LordFall This looks too advance, I'm looking just for the basics. Do you have a video recommendation for basic stuff?

You can join The "Israeli actualized.org fans" Whatsup group

send a message that it was nice to talk to her with your name. if she responds, ask what's up with her and chat abit , tell her something about your day for example. once you have a fun chill small talk, ask her what she is doing this week. after she answers, asks when she is free to meet this week and offer her to do something.

Deep down my intuition tells me my soul mate is out there looking for me. That my life purpose is to find her and love her. (In addition to my career life purpose). But as the days go and pass, and I am still by myself, I ask myself - maybe I'm just deluded? maybe there is a chance I will never find "her"? maybe I'll be by myself for the rest of my life, without a woman to love, without children to love? I think I work hard to become my best self and I do enjoy the process, I mostly do it for myself. And I'm quite a happy person and I do enjoy my life. I am blessed in many ways - I'm super healthy, smart, kind, have a good family all things considered, looks young, do things that I love, honest. But sometimes I have these moments - Wow I work hard for it, learn and study to be more attractive, practice many hours of pick up, and I never complain. I really feel like I do my best, but I haven't attracted a Girl (I can love) into my life. It just breaks my heart to see it - because I see the pure honest motivation that I have, just to love and do good (and I feel I have many gifts to give) but it feels as if the universe rejects it. I had a dream this night - I was walking in the hallway, half aware it is a dream, very confused, asking whom I see - why am I here? what is my purpose? I was so confused, so innocent, just wanting things to be ok, to do the right thing that everyone will be happy, feeling trapped myself. but I couldn't find the answer. waking up from this dream I started to cry and write this post.

Thanks guys for your perspectives! posting here always helps me seeing things more clear. I am thinking and contemplating the different ideas that you shared

Hold strong eye contact with her (right eye to her right her). escalate. have fun and do what you want!

@integral Mostly listening to her, reflecting her, giving her my perspective and understanding on what she shares. Asking questions to guide her to the root of stuff. Helping her see the positive, her resources, her greatness. Hugging and caressing her when she cries. sprinkling a bit of humor when appropriate. We also do things together for fun like cooking, going to the beach. @Raze Thanks, I'm watching! @Devin Possible. but even if that's the case I enjoy to invest in her right now. It does conflict a bit with other dating opportunities I have so I think If in the next 1-2 meetings the relationship remains platonic, I will open it up with up, make sure what she wants and if she is not interested in anything romantic or sexual - I think I will naturally start to invest more in other girls and less with her. Btw I have an important update, She said she is gonna bake me a pie level of investment over 9000! problem solved??

I have a female friend (the one I posted about a month or two ago) that her and me are getting closer in our friendship. I do like her romantically but even just being friends with her makes me happy. I think that she likes me too but the thing which prevents her from feeling enough attraction for me to want to be together is that she doesn't invest much in the relationship - It feels as if it's a bit one sided - I mostly help and support her. The main reason for that is that she is going through a rough period in life: she just started therapy recently and she is facing a lot of pain, anxiety, fears and traumas and in general I just want to be there to help and support her. I search for a WIN WIN relationship and if we stay just close friends - I'm happy about it. But I do think it's possible for us to have a WIN WIN romantic relationship and the thing that I Know from attraction theory is that It's important for a girl to feel she invests in the relationship to feel attraction. And I was thinking that this is the thing that is lacking. So I an wondering how to make her invest more in the relationship? I also think that this question is manipulative and one part of me doesn't like. So if I would like a relationship that we invest the same amount of energy and time in each other - how do I make it so from the place that I'm at -Which is more 70%-30% investment levels, in non manipulative ways?

@LordFall I practice day game pretty regularly And I have a date or two per week but I kind of lost interest in other girls for now. I feel like I have to sort this thing with her first. Why do yo think so? and what's wrong with supporting friends emotionally? There is a good chance she is not interested and that's ok for me. But in the case that she is - I would like to play my cards right. @StarStruck I did tell her a few times that's I'm interested in the past, and at those time she she was not. Since then the dynamics of our relationship changed - we got much closer - so I think there is a chance she is starting to develop feeling for me but I don't know. I'm pretty open with her and I think the best option is to seize the moment, next time we have an intimate moment I will test to see if she is attracted.

@integral @Leo Gura Beautiful

It finally dawned on me that things like flaking, ignoring me, not responding or not answering questions that I ask when texting, not investing in the relationship or doing only things that she wants - Mostly in romantic context but also in friendships I have with girls - Are Huge red flags of disrespect for me. And I pretty much allow it - I'm basically becoming a fucking rug. I'm allowing girls things that I will never allow a male friend to do. I'm sick of having suck relationships, So how to deal with it? I thought that every time I feel disrespected - She doesn't answer me a few times for example - I should set a boundary and tell her "Hey It's important for me to have mutual respectful communication with people. I think it's respectful to answer people questions or at least if you don't want to answer say or explain why. Of course it doesn't have to be 100% but I think you can feel when people respect each other. So If you value the relationship with me and are willing to invest that energy to have a respectful relationship - that's amazing, let's do that. If not - let's say goodbye" How do you guys deal with this shit? It happens to me with girls I took numbers from cold approaches, with friends, also with a girl I hooked up with.