Sugarcoat

I don’t think it’s particularly healthy to be obsessed with someone. Either you’re exceptional and have exceptional impact or she just has an immature /insecure mind

Okay I see. It can be hard when people are so different from you, but amongst all those people it gotta be someone who shares something with you. Then it’s about keep looking and eventually you might find them

Thanks

I understand how hard it can be to find like minded people. If that’s not a criteria for you then you could find something to connect over with different type of people unlike you. That’s how I try to think, there’s always something to connect over even if the person is different. I try to be open towards the possibility always. But it takes two to tango so if the other doesn’t show interest in engagement in friendship then one has to eventually back of from attempts. So I know it can be hard. I wonder how it will be for me in uni. Maybe it differs from country to country too some cultures are more sociable like I live in Sweden and it’s not the most sociable country … But I’d suggest not giving up, not pushing it with people who don’t show interest back but keep showing interest (if it’s there) and eventually someone might reciprocate

If it was hard in college it’s gonna be even harder outside of it. Why was it hard in college? I am going to uni this autumn and I believe I will struggle too because I’m quite quiet and can be a little awkward although I’ve overcame my shyness. I’m open to the possibility of making new friends but it’s not a need I have, I’m fine if I end up alone too. But I understand you aren’t because the average person is wired for relationships.

Wow yes

Thats why I wrote a post a few years ago “spirituality fell away spontaneously “ because I saw how it was my own mental construct and it dissolved. Although now I could hypnotically practice spirituality without it being a mental construct but it took a lot of unraveling of mental constructs to get to that point

That could probably bring about a change

My intuition says the best way to stay protected is to stay incredibly grounded in yourself

Average mindset produces average life. Nothing wrong with that. It’s easy to say “the sky is the limit” “don’t limit yourself” but one requires radical shift in mindset and work ethic to make that shift into someone who could do better. From the framework you have now, yes it’s the best you could do. Self acceptance can be very healing,far from everyone is destined for greatness and that is okay. If you’re pleased with your situation then nothing wrong with staying there, if not, a fundamental change needs to happen

Ok

i don’t remember but it’s fine let me know if you wanna play Minecraft sometime

It’s only for sophisticated taste 😉 Was it in Sweden? I don’t remember

Thanks they were a little less moist now so better and more brown I’d give them an 7.5 out of 10

They were not done inside yet so I put them back in the oven so I’ll update how it goes

They put almonds like that in the recipe so I did it too it adds a crunch

@Schizophonia Saffron buns done 66:

I might

You mean you think I talk decent amount from your experience? I can talk more but sometimes

they are now waiting to grow, then ill put them in oven, I hope they turn out good

Thats true, I dont speak much in general.

Yea

I don’t understand what you mean or what it has to do with my response

65: Ive been using the forum less. It’s mostly because I struggle with having a pretty empty mind so I don’t feel like I have anything to add and then reading feels kinda pointless too. I’m very quiet in real life too. Ive been playing a lot of Minecraft recently it’s kinda fun. I’m in survival mode and found diamonds in some villagers house so that was pretty cool. Tonight I will bake saffron buns and play some more Just some random facts.

Yea becuase your brain is literally wired for socialization. You get dopamine from good interactions with people you like. It might sound obvious what you and I say but sometimes seemingly obvious things can be deep new insights. Whats crazy about socialization is that sometimes even the mere presence of another human being is enough to make you feel fulfilled of that need for socialization. Like how it is to live with family for me, we don’t even have to talk.