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I don’t know the exact years when it changed for women, but I meant even before that. And other things could have changed, such as the societal pressure to get married, the ideals have changed, the cultural norms.

But even if you lose your sense of self, and become one with everything, your reality will still function by the regular rules and be limited to your particular dream (maybe if you delevop some siddhis the rules can change but that is still limited in what you can develop ). At least that’s how it works on this planet, I’m open to the possibility of it being different somewhere else in reality

It might seem like we’re going in a negative direction of women liking modern men less than before. But I think it only seems that way because women have the choice today to be single to a greater degree than before. Women are more free and have more rights in several areas so that reflects itself in how they’re able to be more selective and expressive with men. Women probably had dislikes for men in the past, maybe even more than now but it wasn’t as evident as they had less choice and freedom.

“You” as in a person or as reality being able to imagine everything ?

Desperation is internal. It’s something you feel inside. What you do externally is not a direct indicator of that Wanting to meet a partner is one of the most natural things ever. It’s literally encoded in your psyche from evolution. Even feeling a little desperation is natural and doesn’t necessarily have to be a hindrance. I think it’s a matter of how you “own it” , own your feelings confidently, be confident in your desires and in the expression of them, and you’ll probably leave a good impression that can be attractive

Alien pickup 😳

Because realizing you’re consciousness is still a limit becuase then it’s you (consciousness) and the rest or? But that seems like a major first step at least

I thought you were joking about oblivion as in unawareness 😂

Is that a new kind of awakening?

Cmon we are not that sensitive 😂 Jk you do as you please

People can gain some happiness by achieving desirable results in whatever area

I agree. That’s if you want results

Hahaha I don’t mind pondering . You could ask the question, how? And get to know how through pondering

When you say “with the mind” do you mean it’s only a intellectual realization for them? This reminds me of when I heard Rupert Spira say something along the lines of there being two steps to awakening. First you awaken to nothing/awareness, but it’s still separate from everything, then realization that awareness isn’t separate from everything so it merges with everything. Sounds a little like what you’re saying

Exactly

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A lot to ponder…

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I think so too in a way . What do you mean by “with sufficient consciousness” you mean consciousness is the substance of everything and that it “dreams” realities?

Yea I think I’ve read that too. Yea I understand. I’m not gonna get stuck on a detail

Don’t know of either of those

Why fear death? I get if someone is afraid of hell, because that would be scary asf, or some bad reincarnation (that has been my fear as a child), but void, nothingness, everlasting sleep, why would that be scary? Think about it, is it ever scary to fall asleep? No , then death (if it’s like that) won’t be scary. If you believe in reincarnation then that could even be positive, so the things you miss in this life might happen in your next life? Yay . lol just some thoughts.

A new species of homo sapien has been discovered! The no self people!!! hahah but yea it’s hard to tell sometimes if someone is that or not. It’s kind of like the next step in the human evolution.

Such sweet message

Solipsism seems like the silliest idea to me to be honest. Why would reality be limited to only one sense of self? I enjoy pondering these things.