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Maybe in absolute sense but absolute can dream up a victim, of chronic illness for example

Could you say you’re a “non dual person” or is that even more blasphemous?

I’m not a fan of people who speak as if they’re not even trying to be understood. Who are you even speaking to? What’s the point in speaking if it’s not to be understood? Or is the target audience only people who have already read into those things? Then it makes sense, but that would be an incredibly small audience. She’s not like Leo, Leo explains it in a way for it to be understood by anyone

I don’t get your point. It says non duality because it’s precisely not duality. Where’s the error? Unfortunately all the contemplation in the world does nothing for me 😔*cries in duality* What is the point in even writing on this forum.

@Davino haha

Yea I was referring to your response. It was a little bit of a joke, I understand what you mean

We gatekeeping consciousness now ^^😂😂😂

How much of your self structure did you manage to dissolve would you say?

Solution could be becoming very rooted in yourself

Ok. I’d agree. It all starts with yourself

@Breakingthewall Do you think many guys desire deeper connection with girl they have sex with but they don’t have the patience to wait after dating for a while so they go for causal sex because the sexual desire is too strong?

So random

I can’t answer this unfortunately my guess would be that it could happen in the form of feeling dirty and perhaps humiliated

@Schizophonia id agree with that. If you like her you wouldn’t feel that way. It’s if you just sleep with her for the sex and physical attraction (or barely even that sometimes) and you don’t genuinely vibe, connect, like her personality. Then you wouldn’t feel drawn to move away from her

@Salvijus the post nut clarity hits

That’s ok

@Schizophonia So which one is true? (You don’t have to say if you don’t want it’s not important I was just curious) Good you don’t feel need to think like that anymore.

Ok…..🧐 You do what you want I just don’t get why someone would say they are virgin if they’re not (I don’t know which one is true now but it doesn’t matter). I’m not really exposing you btw because you’ve written before on forum here openly you had sex

Why you said before you had sex you liaa😂😂😂

Something I have reflected upon is that I think for the average person non duality is actually part of their daily life but it’s just not noticed. I don’t include myself in this group of “average people” because I’m different so I don’t share this experience, which I won’t go into here but anyways…. I talked a little on reddit about this and someone said : ”Your sense of self does go away, but unless you’re LOOKING for it, you probably wouldn’t notice it. It’s very hard to notice the ABSENCE of something”. Basically I believe that the self is not constantly in the awareness of the average person, but it reappears often enough and quickly enough for it to seem like it always exists. And as the person said, it’s hard to notice ABSENCE. Those moments of absence are for example FLOW STATES that a person can get into, for example if they’re playing a video game. It could be by being IMMERSED in something, like watching a movie, or listening deeply to a lecture in school. Basically states where we can get so immersed in something outside ourselves, that we forget ourselves, we are no longer aware of ourselves. But it’s like we don’t NOTICE this. We don’t notice how it’s a non dual state. Or is it? Am I wrong here? What you think? Do you think non duality is a part of life for the average person but it’s not noticed/recognized?

@Breakingthewall I needa quit talking and start realizing..

Oh to reach that place…

Yea people say different things..

Hard to not judge pain

Who knows what babies know…