Sugarcoat

I didn’t think it through much main point was just that any toxic masculinity is usually rooted in insecurity it’s very basic and maybe obvious

It won’t change I promise Goodnight

Understood

I’m not interested in having kids anyways

Evil

I see you’re kind and trying to be helpful, but I view it differently

My issues are in my nature I think

This is too simple and black and white. Many men want relationships and family too

lol i thought about it today i would be too traumatized from the pain probably

It was in my past. This last year I have stopped the daydreaming. Ofc I feel the way I am is because of my issues mentally, feeling disconnected. And that didn’t come from outside conditioning

I am stoic and indifferent towards everything except physical suffering. It’s not something I try or want to be, it’s how I am. When I used to masturbate and watch porn in the past I would engage a lot in the imagination of sex I am naturally disengaged i don’t try. It doesn’t achieve intensity quite the opposite. I didn’t understand what you said anyways.

Maybe the self arose that way. I don’t know. But for the person it seems to just plop up during childhood . That’s what I think he talks about, how it appears in one persons lifetime. I don’t think he denies science as a relative truth

He didn’t say it’s a concept he said it’s an experience/appearance which id agree I call it a “sense”

😂😂😂ok I get it

You’re funny. I’d listen to your talks if you did them

No that’s why I asked him

Yea there seems to be an extremely small percent of humans living permanently open to the absolute. It’s like the brain creates the self so something very deep in there has to be shaken maybe spontaneously or through extreme practices and drugs .

Jim Newman , Tony parsons, Lisa cairns are three examples of people who seem to me to be genuinely speaking from that place of “no self” or “source” or non duality, I cannot know with 100% certainty, but it’s just the way they speak, it’s so direct and clear and with no hesitation, it doesn’t sound to me like they’re speaking from a place of having read about non duality then adopting it as a world view. The self seems real to me yea, so I can’t say it’s illusion. They all mention how the self “veils” oneness His message is really simple yea and basic,

73: Women will literally tear all the way through their anus during childbirth yet still decide to have a second and even third child

Who ? Schizophonia?

I didn’t notice you posted this lol

To cope with “real” you mean to cope with reality? By lack you mean I have a sense of lack? So the desire to be stoic is part of my self imagine and it generates manly sexual fantasies because it’s manly trait? Im trying to understand you

Depending on how important gains are to you. But most importantly for gains in progressive overload. And proper muscle activation, gotta feeeel the right muscles when you’re working out.

I think as long as you progressively overload meaning you increase the weight and/or reps(or sets ) you’ll make progress and get stronger.

I have thought about this recently. If something appears exactly as something, then it’s the same as it being it. But I guess it’s infinity seeming limited, because even from a materialistic science perspective, science hasn’t found any actual limits right? Even if you realize your nature, you still have a brain with preferences, and you can still feel physical pain right? That’s why you wouldn’t wanna go to Russian prison for 25 years What you described as your balance sounds amazing