Sugarcoat

I think she looks great in her age https://www.instagram.com/reel/DLnm6TYRiws/?igsh=MTRnZmc5aDdyZHV2cg==

Maybe I could say that he is more attractive than her . But I don’t think it’s a huge difference that’s my opinion

No?

I was gonna edit my post and say how the thing I said kinda goes against this idea about pursuing truth for truths sake. But I’m a bit different there. I don’t really care much about truth, I just care about wellbeing!

Maybe, I didn’t watch it

I looked her up and think she looks good for her age. I don’t think they’re so far apart looks wise. So yea in that case I think he likes her personality and she is hot ENOUGH for him.

Valid point she could have like formed a bit of an ego around having unconditional love, being able to love “despite” those disabilities. Like it makes her see herself as a good person. She likes his personality and that’s enough for her to be with him. She genuinely thinks you shouldn’t discriminate based on looks/disabilities, that’s a belief she holds that’s very strong. And beliefs can influence attraction. Just some guesses.

Valid question but my guess is that she is a rare exception. So she might have unique psychology that doesn’t represent the average woman. I think Eva Mendes is pretty btw maybe I saw her younger pics

Good

Makes sense. Damn.

The important question is: will the answer to this question truly enrich my life somehow?

So you don’t believe in all this “stop resisting” talk to transcend suffering ?

It seems the opening you talk about is a decrease in “resistance”, that one of our mechanisms that keep us closed is our tendency to resist

I know you thought something like that

It’s not always so easy to figure out why something is being said

You can’t just promise something like that. You don’t know that

Absolutely. I have countless suicidal thoughts. I don’t understand how people stay strong. I do it for one sec and then it crumbles and I’m ready to off myself again because I feel I can’t handle life

Eckhart Tolle was asked what he thinks about alcohol. And he said something along the lines of how if your state of consciousness is so fragile it’s affected by a few drinks then it’s nothing high (something like that) and I think a correlation could be drawn to sex. If you develop a solid high state of consciousness and mysticism, a little sexual desire and sex here and there shouldn’t be enough to wreck it if it’s really stable in you

Hahah it’s funny

Cholesterol 📈📈📈

You sound reasonable and normal. Yea I don’t really have good tips but just you’ll have to figure out what feels most worth it for you to do. You’re not alone with feeling an urge to explore others outside your relationship because the person you’re with affects your experience so it’s normal to want different types of experiences. You’re young too so it might feel too early to settle down and you might wanna explore yourself and others more. It can be tricky but it’s important to be honest with oneself full heartedly about one’s desires which it seems you are, because you don’t wanna be living in a lie, in denial of your true desires

It was nothing special 😂😂😂😂

What I’m going to say is coming from a virgin so it’s to be taken with a grain of salt😂 Maybe figure out how your attraction works for you. Are you someone that values physical appearance in attraction a lot or are you more oriented towards personality or a nice mixture of both? You specified “physical” type so I’m guessing you’re talking about appearance. If you find you tend to be really attracted to a particular appearance and it makes you extra horny it could be worth exploring. An example could be how some guys are very looks oriented, seems so more than women are, so they genuinely can have a more ecstatic experience if they sleep with a bombshell vs a more average woman. So if that’s you then maybe it’s worth going for it. You’d have to weigh in your mind what feels most important to you, exploration or your current relationship. Or communicate this to your partner and see if they’re open to have something more open LOL maybe that is not something you’d want

@Schizophonia I mean that as you say in infinity there’s probably a lot of things happening at once so in some dimension of reality there exist valentinE and me doing lesbian things

It’s probably happening