Sugarcoat

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  1. Good you’re aware of it atleast that you don’t know god and it’s just a bunch of concepts for you (same btw) rather than walking around talking about god thinking you got the real deal!
  2. Yea everyone’s goal isn’t to dissolve their self. But yea when we get rid of old patterns it can include shedding a little of the ego (I’m not sure but I experienced it like that). But it sounds good what you’ve done! Very cool. There’s a lot of depth to ourselves so there’s a lot to become aware of and with greater awareness we can lessen our suffering through changing ourselves!
  3. Yea if this is just non duality appearing dual then it’s doing a good frikking job at it!!
  4. It sounds funny to me too. Like that’s how I sometimes wanna call people who’ve “lost “ their sense of self. But it’s a paradox because person means separate but non dual means not separate..
  5. Yea it seems absolutely real. I can’t even say if it’s real or not, all that is just words for me. Duality seems absolute . So there can be value in the silence, as Ramana said, in taking a break from trying to grasp reality which is a very “dual” activity. Maybe it can help
  6. @Mellowmarsh So you’re saying duality is not illusion? I would agree that , only way to know is through duality, but it’s said non duality is not a knowing. And non duality is a concept , but it describing something beyond concepts, which is what all concepts do, although non duality is special in that it’s describing nothing at all and everything simultaneously
  7. @Schizophonia
  8. I’m very silent person does that make me closer to truth? Ok now I’m just being silly. But jokes aside. In absolute sense word is equal to silence because it’s all appearance in absolute. But we get caught up in the words
  9. Maybe in absolute sense but absolute can dream up a victim, of chronic illness for example
  10. Could you say you’re a “non dual person” or is that even more blasphemous?
  11. I’m not a fan of people who speak as if they’re not even trying to be understood. Who are you even speaking to? What’s the point in speaking if it’s not to be understood? Or is the target audience only people who have already read into those things? Then it makes sense, but that would be an incredibly small audience. She’s not like Leo, Leo explains it in a way for it to be understood by anyone
  12. I don’t get your point. It says non duality because it’s precisely not duality. Where’s the error? Unfortunately all the contemplation in the world does nothing for me 😔*cries in duality* What is the point in even writing on this forum.
  13. Yea I was referring to your response. It was a little bit of a joke, I understand what you mean
  14. We gatekeeping consciousness now ^^😂😂😂
  15. How much of your self structure did you manage to dissolve would you say?
  16. Nice
  17. Solution could be becoming very rooted in yourself
  18. Ok. I’d agree. It all starts with yourself
  19. @Breakingthewall Do you think many guys desire deeper connection with girl they have sex with but they don’t have the patience to wait after dating for a while so they go for causal sex because the sexual desire is too strong?
  20. So random
  21. @Schizophonia Gothenburg I’m back now tho
  22. I can’t answer this unfortunately my guess would be that it could happen in the form of feeling dirty and perhaps humiliated