
Sugarcoat
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You want to have sex with women you barely know you mean? Like pure causal hookup
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Really imagining myself in guys place. it can be fantasies devoid of myself
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@Schizophonia there’s also a kind of horny in my experience that is detached from self concept. Where you can for example step into another persons shoes . For example how I used to be able to get horny by imagining how the guy is feeling, has nothing to do with my self concept. It’s also when it’s the raw physical sensation that is at focus, then it’s just about “getting off”
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I see. The things I said could be seen in spiritual way too so it fits this section…
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Maybe if you build a deeper connection with a woman beyond looks, where you two really click then that helps overcome the awkwardness if you get what I mean I don’t have to explain myself. That’s the first thought I had. It’s like how a woman might feel secure and relaxed with a man that she knows and bonds with rather than just superficial knowing after just having met. Another thought is if you found a virgin and you could learn together lol.
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I just added some thoughts about porn that someone could gain value from damn….
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When I was younger and watched porn occasionally I would watch it in a very focused way, focusing on different aspects of it and also imagining like an additional layer of imagination on top of it, adding like a “context” to it, to add intensity for me. I tried a few times to watch porn without doing this. Simply watching it with a neutral eye, not focusing on anything in particular and not adding my own fantasies to it. I noticed I wouldn’t get horny then, it just became neutral to me. Another thing I did is I had some sexual fantasies that felt taboo. So I would refrain myself from indulging in those fantasies , with the hope of neuroplasticity taking its course and me eventually not having those fantasies anymore after a long enough period of time had passed. i found though that even if a year + had passed, they didn’t go away. So one day i did the complete opposite. I just let my mind roam free, and I completely indulged in the porn and the fantasy tied to it, in full intensity. And what happened is that I kinda exhausted it, and I saw how this idea about neuroplasticity was just a belief I held, so that dissolved, and eventually I was free from those fantasies counter intuitively. just some thoughts
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Sugarcoat replied to Javfly33's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
I can kinda relate. I dissolved myself so much there’s barely anything left of me . I miss my self -
Sugarcoat replied to Anton Rogachevski's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
I feel I can know things on relative level which is based on direct awareness, direct experience, in particular something about myself -
Sugarcoat replied to SwiftQuill's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
If you look inward enough you’ll start to dissolve all the layers of yourself. Be careful -
I think you need to be god realized in some way to recognize it
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Sugarcoat replied to Breakingthewall's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
I see, it’s just me who is self obsessed -
Sugarcoat replied to ExploringReality's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Even on the relative level it’s worth questioning what one considers stupid. Even there we can’t say surely who is stupid -
Sugarcoat replied to Breakingthewall's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
So it’s like you can realize yourself beyond the self while the self is still intact -
Sugarcoat replied to TruthFreedom's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
What is god to you? -
Sugarcoat replied to Ima Freeman's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
I said SENSE not that it’s true -
Sugarcoat replied to Ima Freeman's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Because you’re existing as the sense of a separate self? Even if you enlightened you’ll see nobody but confusion about others motives can still arise because you’re still operating at the human level. Like there could still be a “self” structure in place , I’m not sure. -
Sugarcoat replied to Breakingthewall's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
I see, the self being this barrier? -
Sugarcoat replied to Breakingthewall's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
@Yimpa omg such a graphic pic -
Sugarcoat replied to Breakingthewall's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
lol is it like a compulsion for you? I mean it’s a good one at least I’d say -
Sugarcoat replied to Breakingthewall's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
How does it feel to be one of the elite humans -
Thanks
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It’s not temporary. My self won’t grow back by itself , it hasn’t since November 2023. So I will stay disconnected from myself forever
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Same
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Ok that’s unusual😅